Everything & Anything...and a bit gay Podcast
Society & Culture
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Join your host, Zach Randles-Friedman, for engaging conversations that delves into a myriad of topics, offering heartfelt stories from the LGBTQ+ community and beyond. Tune in for an inclusive blend of personal anecdotes, thought-provoking insights, and empowering narratives that embrace the richness of diversity and allyship with many laughs.
Episodes
- Ep. 210: Psychic Orion: Remote Viewing, Mediumship & What's Coming for Humanity
Psychic Orion, an evidence-based medium and intuitive teacher, shares insights on remote viewing and mediumship. He discusses the role of stillness in developing intuition and what spirits consistently regret. Orion also talks about his in…
- Ep. 209: Grindr + Republicans, Sniffies + Tinder Money & the Death of Gay Apps
This episode of Everything & Anything...and a bit gay Podcast explores the controversies surrounding gay apps like Grindr and Sniffies. It covers Grindr's party in Washington D.C. with Republican attendees and Sniffies receiving a signific…
- Ep. 208: The Many Types of Gay Men: Authenticity, Identity & Performance | The Gay Bit: Take 5
In episode 5 of The Gay Bit, Zach discusses various gay identities like bears, twinks, and circuit queens. He examines the balance between authentic identity and performance, sharing personal reflections on adapting and suppressing oneself…
- Ep. 207: Adopted from Seoul, Bullied on Long Island, and Finding Beauty in the Hardest Places
Jennifer Norman shares her profound journey, detailing her experiences of abandonment in Seoul, adoption on Long Island, and the challenges within the beauty industry. She recounts the life-altering diagnosis of her son's rare mitochondria…
- Ep. 206: CDs, Napster & Musical Memories: My Chat With Musician Robbie Gennet
This episode delves into music nostalgia triggered by finding old CDs, connecting songs to memories. Host Simplecast chats with musician Robbie Gennet about his career, sound, and aspirations for a world tour.
- Ep. 205: Fighting for Queer & Trans Youth in Boston — BAGLY's Kurtlan on Community, Safety & Chosen Family
This episode features Kurtlan from BAGLY, the Boston Alliance of LGBTQ+ Youth, discussing the challenges and support systems for queer and trans youth in Boston. Topics include community dynamics, direct aid initiatives, and fostering affi…
- Ep. 204: From Skeptic to Believer: The Science of the Afterlife, Reincarnation & Mediums
This episode features Liz Entin's journey from skeptic to believer, covering scientific research on reincarnation by Dr. Ian Stevenson and Dr. Jim Tucker, evidence for psychic mediums, and the nature of consciousness. It also touches on ho…
- Ep. 203: The Truth About Penis Filler, Confidence & “HoleTox” | Injector Chris Interview
This episode features an interview with Injector Chris, who discusses his journey into aesthetic medicine, the specifics of penis filler treatments, and the procedure known as 'HoleTox.' The conversation also touches on male confidence, bo…
- Ep. 202: Toxic Gay Traits We All Have (And Why I’m Not Changing) | The Gay Bit Ep. 4
This episode of The Gay Bit discusses toxic gay traits, friendship expectations, dating delusion, and hookup culture. It also covers self-awareness, aging, friend group dynamics, and the importance of setting boundaries.
- Ep: 201: The Power of Art to Heal: Filmmaker Stefan on Grief, Meaning & Working with Kit Connor
Filmmaker Stefan shares his journey in the industry, the impact of storytelling, and his personal experience of healing through art after loss. The episode explores themes of meaning, grief, and human connection.
- Ep. 200: 200 Episodes Later: What I Got Wrong, What I Learned & Why I Left My Corporate Job
This episode celebrates 200 episodes of Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay, reflecting on lessons learned about relationships, confidence, success, community, and LGBTQ+ allyship. The host shares insights gained from conversations and…
- Ep. 199: Living Authentically: Ellie Krug on Transitioning at 52, Courage, and Finding Your True Self
This episode features Ellie Krug discussing her transition at 52, the concept of human authenticity, and the challenges and rewards of living truthfully. The conversation covers coming out, family relationships, dating as a transgender wom…
- Ep. 198: Unconditional Love: The Truth About Soulmates, Self-Worth & Finding Real Love
This episode clarifies the meaning of unconditional love, distinguishing it from relationships and exploring the concept of multiple soulmates. It addresses how past experiences, self-worth, fear of abandonment, and LGBTQ+ rejection can hi…
- Ep. 197: She Died, Went to Hell… Then Heaven | Kathy McDaniel’s Near-Death Experience
Kathy McDaniel shares her near-death experience, detailing a journey through a hellish alternate reality before encountering her deceased fiancé and returning with a renewed sense of purpose. The episode explores how trauma and belief can…
- Ep: 196: Old Gays vs Young Gays: How LGBTQ+ Life Has Changed Across Generations
This episode compares the experiences of older and younger LGBTQ+ individuals, exploring how life has changed regarding dating, community, and societal acceptance across generations.
- Ep. 195: Inside Boston’s Design Scene: LGBTQ+ Culture, Small Business & Creating a Home You Love
In this episode, host Zach talks with Marcus Hamblin, founder of Flourish & Foundry, about LGBTQ+ life, interior design, and small business in Boston. They discuss identity, creativity, and building a fulfilling life and home.
- Ep. 194: The LGBTQ+ Stories No One Is Covering | Inside Queer Journalism & Real Impact
This episode features Zach's conversation with Jake Hylton, Executive Director of Lookout News, an independent newsroom focused on LGBTQ+ stories. They discuss the organization's growth, issues like conversion therapy, the lack of media re…
- Ep: 193: The SHOCKING Truth About Stress (And How to Fix It in Minutes) | Deborah Rozman
In episode 193, Deborah Rozman explains the science of stress and emotional regulation using HeartMath research. The discussion covers heart rate variability, the impact of stress on the body and brain, and practical techniques like the Qu…
- Ep: 192: Gen Z Influencer Eumie Calls Out Trump, Media & Modern Politics
Eumie, a viral political commentator, discusses her rapid social media growth, the influence of entertainment on political messaging, and Gen Z's frustrations with modern politics, including the impact of social media algorithms and online…
- Ep. 191: NASA UFO Cover-Up? Missing Photos, Secret Archives & The Truth Revealed
This episode discusses alleged NASA UFO cover-ups, introducing Ed Wilson and his work with historical archives. It delves into the discovery of a NASA lithograph, potential anomalies in Gemini-era space photography, and claims of missing o…
- Ep. 190: The Gay Bit - MAGA Gays
This episode features Zach reflecting on the Boston gay community and a surprising night out. It discusses the rise of gay MAGA influencers on TikTok, internal conflict regarding identity versus political ideology, and the emotional weight…
- Ep. 189: From Refugee to Reinvention: David Chum on Identity, Beauty, and Becoming Fully Yourself
David Chum shares his experiences as a Cambodian refugee, finding art as a survival tool, and navigating bullying. He discusses his time on Project Runway, building and leaving a fashion brand, and his transition to permanent cosmetics, ex…
- Ep. 188: From Space Force to Congress: Bree Fram on Courage, Identity & Fighting for America
Bree Fram shares her inspiring journey from aerospace engineering and a 23-year military career in the Air Force and Space Force to running for Congress. She discusses living authentically as a transgender service member, the impact of ant…
- Ep. 187: From Wall Street to Unity: How Adam Mizel Is Bringing America Back Together
Adam Mizel shares his transition from private equity to founding the Us United movement, emphasizing connection, empathy, and local action to unite Americans.
- Ep. 186: From Cult Survivor to Child Trafficking Fighter: Kim Kelley’s Unbelievable Story
Kim Kelley, a survivor of the Children of God cult, details her experiences of growing up in isolation and facing abuse. After escaping at 19, she now works in anti-trafficking efforts, training law enforcement and raising awareness throug…
- Ep: 185: The Gay Bit: The Straight Guy Confidence Test
This episode introduces 'The Gay Bit,' analyzing confidence in straight men, distinguishing between genuine self-assurance and performative 'bro culture.' It delves into insecurity, authenticity, and the idea that everyone has a 'gay bit.'
- Ep. 184: It’s Never Too Late: Reinvention, Identity & The Power of Your Story with Leanne Walling
Leanne Walling, author and storyteller, joins the podcast to discuss her experiences with reinvention, including returning to school in her late 60s. The conversation explores navigating grief, faith, and LGBTQ+ identity, family dynamics,…
- Ep. 183: From Fear to Fierce Allyship: A Mother’s Journey to Love, Learn, and Lead
Heather Hester discusses her personal journey of allyship following her son's coming out. The episode covers navigating family dynamics, transforming fear into advocacy, and the significance of creating safe spaces and promoting kindness f…
- Ep. 182: Healing Beyond Belief: Miracles, Karma, and the Search for Something More
Alx Utterman shares her journey into spiritual healing, discussing energy work, the link between emotional trauma and physical illness, and concepts like karma and reincarnation. The episode explores miraculous healing experiences, remote…
- Ep. 181: From Goats to Global Brand: The Beekman 1802 Story with Josh Kilmer-Purcell
This episode details the accidental founding of the Beekman 1802 brand by Josh Kilmer-Purcell during the 2008 recession, explaining its growth into a multi-million dollar business centered on kindness and strategic partnership.
- Ep. 180: From Religion to Awakening: Rethinking God, Identity, and Consciousness
David Hulse shares his transition from fundamentalist religion to spiritual awakening, exploring concepts like redefining God, the nature of spirituality versus religion, and the evolution of consciousness, while also touching on LGBTQ+ id…
- Ep. 179: Past Lives, Hypnosis & the Soul’s Journey: Can We Heal Beyond This Lifetime?
This episode features hypnotherapist Craig Merriweather, discussing hypnotherapy, subconscious trauma, past life regression, reincarnation, and consciousness beyond life. It covers how the subconscious stores trauma, the benefits of hypnot…
- Ep. 178: Living with Multiple Personalities: Gabby’s Raw Story of DID, Trauma & Healing
Gabby recounts her experience with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), detailing her alters, the connection to childhood trauma, and her life with agoraphobia. The episode also touches on the impact of social media and the need for repre…
- Ep. 177: Sky Is Falling: Manifestation, Music & Magic with Ricky Rebel & Myla
Ricky Rebel and Myla discuss their creative partnership and the three-year journey of creating their song "Sky Is Falling." They delve into the song's themes of fame, loss, and love, alongside their individual experiences in the music and…
- Ep. 176: Fighting Back: Trans Rights, Visibility, and the Power of Community with Tyler Hack
This episode discusses the Christopher Street Project's mission, Trans Day of Visibility, the rise in anti-trans legislation and its real-world consequences, advocacy on Capitol Hill, and the importance of storytelling and LGBTQ+ community…
- Ep. 175: From Arkansas to Hollywood: Nate Mays on Chasing Stardom, Finding Family, and Owning Your “Weird”
Nate Mays discusses his path from Arkansas to Hollywood, the challenges of the acting industry, and his personal journey of discovering his biological father and extended family.
- Ep. 174: Hot Monogamy, Open Relationships & The Truth About Desire with Dr. Diane Mueller
This episode features Dr. Diane Mueller discussing intimacy, desire, and relationship dynamics. Topics include sexual scripts, spontaneity, scheduling sex, open relationships versus monogamy, polyamory challenges, erotic repair, and improv…
- Ep. 173: Inside Cults, Control, and Survival with Anonymous Andrew and Melody of Cultimatum
This episode features a discussion on cults, coercive control, and survivor advocacy with Anonymous Andrew and Melody of the Cultimatum podcast. They share personal experiences, including Melody's escape from the House of Yahweh, and explo…
- Ep. 172: Dylan Garcia on Music, Mental Health, Manifestation, and Turning Pain Into Purpose
Musician Dylan Garcia discusses his creative path, including early music experiences, moving to Orange County, and collaborating with artists like DJ Tony G. He shares insights into his mental health journey, including psychosis and recove…
- Ep. 171: Coming Out Later in Life: David on Marriage, Fitness, and Finally Living Authentically
David Weisman discusses his decades-long journey of coming out later in life, detailing the challenges of hiding his identity through marriage and fatherhood, and how fitness and therapy facilitated his path to authenticity and self-accept…
- Ep. 170: Healing Beyond Talk Therapy: Maria Micha on Spiritual Psychotherapy and Past Lives
This episode features spiritual psychotherapist Maria Micha discussing spiritual psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, past life regression, and healing trauma. Micha explains how these methods can help reconnect individuals with their authentic se…
- Ep. 169: Healing Through the Body: Somatic Intimacy, Desire, and Connection with Court Vox
This episode features Court Vox discussing somatic sex and intimacy coaching, explaining its principles, and differentiating it from traditional therapy. It explores rebuilding trust, communication, and navigating desire and boundaries in…
- Ep. 168: The Red Flags We Miss: Dating Apps, Catfishing & The App Helping People Avoid Toxic Relationships
Zach and Justin explore modern dating difficulties like catfishing and manipulation, with guest Justin Smith detailing his personal experience and the creation of his app, Cray, designed to help users identify relationship red flags.
- Ep. 167: From Bullying to Self-Love: Stef Vachon’s Journey of Healing, Skating, and Giving Back
This episode features Zach
- Ep. 166: Love More, Fear Less: How the Pink Socks Movement Is Spreading Kindness Worldwide
This episode features Nick discussing the Pink Socks Movement's mission to spread kindness and connection worldwide. The conversation covers the movement's origins, its growth from healthcare to schools, and its impact on creating empathy…
- Ep. 165: Healing Childhood Trauma and Finding Inner Truth with Phyllis Leavitt
This episode features Phyllis Leavitt discussing how her childhood trauma shaped her life and identity. She shares her experiences with spiritual exploration in the 1960s, the benefits of journaling and therapy for uncovering memories, and…
- Ep. 164: Holly Woodlawn, Andy Warhol, and Chosen Family: Jeff Copeland Tells the Story
Jeff Copeland recounts his arrival in Hollywood, meeting Holly Woodlawn, and their development of her memoir, 'Low Life and High Heels.' He discusses the realities of the era, their friendship, Woodlawn's navigation of gender, and his own…
- Ep. 163: The QT Library: Building Boston’s Queer & Trans Community Living Room
This episode discusses The QT Library, a community-driven initiative in Boston aiming to create a welcoming physical and virtual space for the queer and trans community. It highlights the mission against book bans, the importance of interg…
- Ep. 162: 90 Days to Live: Ray Crist, the Jaguar Path, and the Science of Survival
Ray Crist discusses his terminal cancer diagnosis with 90 days to live, his journey through Western medicine and Peruvian shamanism, and the founding of The Jaguar Path, a system integrating various healing modalities. He emphasizes the sh…
- Episode 161: Durian, Decompression, and the Nervous System: Nikki Smit
Nikki Smit, an occupational therapist, shares insights on neurodivergence, burnout, and nervous system health. The episode covers topics like the definition of wellbeing, the impact of modern life on the nervous system, and practical strat…