Your Life

Psychology & Relationships

About

Exploring the questions everyone has about life, love, parenting and relationships. Tony Haire is a independent Certified Coach, Teacher and Speaker with The John Maxwell Team, author and inspirational speaker who lives in Fayetteville, NC. He has a Bachelors Degree in Criminal Justice, a Masters Degree in Pastoral Counseling, and a Doctorate of Philosophy in Christian Counseling. Dan DeBruler is a Pastor, teacher, and retired US Army communications specialist, and has spent more than 25 years encouraging listeners through Christian radio.

Episodes

  • Your Life | 191 | How Bad Do You Want It

    Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life | 190 | Live Free

    In episode 190 of Your Life, Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler discuss living free in Christ by exploring Galatians 5. They explain how believers can avoid spiritual bondage by trusting in Christ's finished work instead of rules, rituals, or…

  • Your Life | 189 | Positioned to Stand. Called to Live

    In this episode of Your Life, Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler explore the believer's position in Christ, referencing Colossians 2 and 3. They discuss being rooted in faith, the impact of daily habits on spiritual life, and living authentic…

  • Your Life | 188 | The Law of Addition

    Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler discuss leadership as service, drawing from Colossians 1. They explain how sacrificing self to add value to others, through mentoring, listening, and love, transforms homes, communities, and nations by bring…

  • Your Life 187 | What Shall I Say?

    In "Your Life 187: What Shall I Say?", Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler examine Jesus' words and actions in John 12:27-28, focusing on His purposeful and costly obedience leading to the cross. They connect His resolve to contemporary challe…

  • Your Life 186-How Do You Respond to Jesus?

    In Your Life episode 186, Dan DeBruler and Dr. Tony Haire analyze John 12 to explore varied human responses to Jesus, including devotion, service, and gratitude, and how these reflect the heart's condition.

  • Your Life 185-Are You Willing To Sacrifice?

    When obedience costs something, how far are you willing to go? In this episode of Your Life, Dan DeBruler and Tony Haire dig into one of Scripture’s most powerful tests of faith—Abraham’s willingness to place Isaac on the altar. From Genes…

  • Your Life 184-The Purpose of a Lamp

    Join Tony and Dan for a conversation about light and purpose based on Mark 4:21-25. Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 183-Stay Focused

    What do we do when life feels unfair—when those who seem far from God appear to be winning? In this episode of Your Life, Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler dig into Jeremiah 12, where the prophet asks God a question we’ve all wondered: “Why…

  • Your Life 182-The Way

    When life feels uncertain, what does it mean that Jesus is the Way? Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler trace the context around John 14—Judas’ betrayal, Peter’s denial, Thomas’ question—and explain why the “way” isn’t a route but a Person. Th…

  • Your Life 181-“Do You Really Know Him?” — Rediscovering an Intimate Relationship with Jesus

    Many believers talk about God. Fewer truly know Him.This week on Your Life, Dan DeBruler and Dr. Tony Haire dismantle the idea that religion alone equals relationship. Looking at John 7 through fresh eyes, they challenge listeners to trade…

  • Your Life | 179 | Take Responsibility: Joseph’s Christmas Lesson

    Joseph didn’t cause the crisis—but it was his assignment; here’s how taking responsibility becomes part of God’s redemption story. Dan and Tony walk through Matthew 1:18–25 to show how Joseph’s obedience reframes responsibility. God breaks…

  • Your Life 178-CONformed or TRANSformed?

    How to diagnose whether you’re conforming to the culture or being transformed by the renewing of your mind—and what to do next. Today’s question is simple and searching: Am I being conformed or transformed? Romans 12:1–2 says real worship…

  • Your Life 177-Anatomy Of A Dispute

    Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life | 176 | God-Pleasing Faith: More Relationship, Less Performance

    Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler unpack how ordinary believers can actually please God—not by spiritual hustle, but by a daily, dependent relationship with Him. What does it really take to please God? Today wer boil it down to one word: relatio…

  • Your Life 175-The Race of Faith

    Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life | 174 | Follow God to Your Promised Land (Even When It’s the Long Way)

    What if God’s path to your promised land isn’t the fastest, but the safest? In this episode of Your Life, Dan DeBruler and Dr. Tony Hare walk through Exodus 13:17–22 and explore why God sometimes “reroutes” us—protecting us from battles we…

  • Your Life | 173 | Stop Complaining, Start Thanking: The Secret to Contentment

    Why do we so often long for the past while overlooking the blessings of the present? In this episode, Dr. Tony Hair and Dan De Bruer unpack the biblical tension between had and have. Through the lens of the Israelites’ complaints in the wi…

  • Your Life | 172 | What’s Your Aim? How to Align Your Life with God’s Purpose

    What are you aiming at in life—success, comfort, recognition, or something greater? In this teaching, we dive into the biblical perspective of living with a clear aim: to please God. Drawing from 2 Corinthians 5 and John 15, we examine how…

  • Your Life | 171 | The Power of Thought: How Your Mind Shapes Your Life

    Your greatest battles may not be against the world around you, but within your own mind. In this episode of Your Life, hosts Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler discuss the power of thoughts, the dangers of defilement from within, and the life…

  • Your Life | 170 | Influence, Trust, and Humility: What Jesus Teaches About Communication

    So often we wonder: “Why don’t people listen to me?” In this teaching, we explore that very question through the lens of Jesus’ first miracle—turning water into wine at Cana. We’ll look at how Jesus earned trust, demonstrated humility, and…

  • Your Life 169-What Does God Want To See

    The Question That Matters: " What does God want to see?" It's not just what others see in us, or even what we want to show. The real question is: What does God desire to see when He looks at your life? Paul gives us the answer in Colossian…

  • Your Life 168 - Image and Identity: How Do You See Yourself?

    “You can’t live in the world’s image and fulfill God’s purpose.” In this inspiring and thought-provoking episode of Your Life, Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler dive deep into the question: "Whose image are you living in?" Anchored in Number…

  • Your Life 167-Just For Today

    One day. Three choices. A Christ-centered mindset. Choose and display the right attitude (Phil 2:3-8) Determine anc act on important priorities (Eph 5:15-17) Practice and develop good thinking (Prov 4:5-9) Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Ea…

  • Your Life 166-There's Nothig Wrong With The World

    Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 165-Why You Should Rejoice Daily

    In Luke 10 the disciples return thrilled by their victories—then Jesus redirects them: don’t anchor your joy in results, but in the reality that your names are written in heaven (Luke 10:20). In this conversation we unpack how that one tru…

  • Your Life 164-Lesson from The Master

    Lesson From The Master Luke 9:46-56 Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 163-Can You See Where You're Going

    Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 162-A Great Way to Live Your Day

    Psalm 27:1-8 Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 161-A Withered Life

    A Withered Life Mark 3:1-6 Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 160-Unnecessary Distractions

    Unnecessary Distractions: Mark 1:35-39 Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 159-Correction

    Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 158-20 20 Vision

    Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 157-Go To Him

    Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 156-No Stumbling

    John 11:1-11 Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 155-A Year of Purfoseful Work

    Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 154-Work Is Available

    Acts 1:8-11 8But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come on you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” 9After he had said this, he was taken up as they were watchin…

  • Your Life 153-Deny Yourself

    Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 152-Just For Today

    What if - just for today _ we focused on being our best in three simple ways: Good Thinking - Proverbs 4:5-9 The Right Attitude - Philippians 3:8 Solid Relationships - Colossians 3:12-16 In this episode of "Your Life," Tony Haire and Dan D…

  • Your Life 151-Spiritual Transformation

    Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 150-Don't Lose Focus

    Join us for a close look at Psalms 37:1-8 Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 148-Helping Others Stay On Course

    We are encouraged...to encourage! Philippians 1:9; 12-18 Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 147-It's Time To Work Out

    Philippians 2:12-15 Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 146-Free To Love

    Matthew 22:36-40 Galatians 5:1-15 Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 145-Accessing God's Love

    1 John 4:8, 16 Galatians 5:22-27 Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 144-Where Do You Pitch Your Tent

    Where do your pitch your tent? Genesis 12:7-8 Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com

  • Your Life 143-What Is The Work Of God

    "What is the work of God?" "Are we doing His work?" John 6:28-30 (ESV) Then they said to him, "What must we do, to be doing the works of God?" Jesus answered them, "This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent." So the…

  • Your Life 142-Satisfaction Comes Through Effort

    Matthew 9:35-38 (ESV): "And Jesus went throughout all the cities and villages, teaching in their synagogues and proclaiming the gospel of the kingdom and healing every disease and every affliction. When he saw the crowds, he had compassion…

  • Your Life 141-The Right Direction

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  • Your Life 140 | Experience Is A Tool To Be Used

    Looking at the life and experiences of Moses as recalled from the book of Exodus. Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FM Connect and learn more at Christian1057.com