You Must Be Some Kind of Therapist
Psychology & Relationships
About
A podcast at the intersection of psychology and culture that intimately explores the human experience and critiques the counseling profession. Your host, Stephanie Winn, distills wisdom gained from her practice as a family therapist and coach while pivoting towards questions of how to apply a practical understanding of psychology to the novel dilemmas of the 21st century, from political polarization to medical malpractice. What does ethical mental health care look like in a normless age, as our moral compasses spin in search of true north? How can therapists treat patients under pressure to affirm everything from the notion of "gender identity" to assisted suicide? Primarily a long-form interview podcast, Stephanie invites unorthodox, free-thinking guests from many walks of life, including counselors, social workers, medical professionals, writers, researchers, and people with unique lived experience, such as detransitioners. Curious about many things, Stephanie’s interdisciplinary psychological lens investigates challenging social issues and inspires transformation in the self, relationships, and society. She is known for bringing calm warmth to painful subjects, and astute perceptiveness to ethically complex issues. Pick up a torch to illuminate the dark night and join us on this journey through the inner wilderness. You Must Be Some Kind of Therapist ranks in the top 1% globally according to ListenNotes. New episodes are released every Monday. Three and a half years after the show's inception in May of 2022, Stephanie became a Christian, representing the crystallization of moral, spiritual, and existential views she had been openly grappling with along with her audience and guests. Newer episodes (#188 forward) may sometimes reflect a Christian understanding, interwoven with and applied to the same issues the podcast has always addressed. The podcast remains diverse and continues to feature guests from all viewpoints.
Episodes
- 213. History Unfolding: Gender Ideology as Civilizational Warfare with Matt Osborne
Conflict historian Matt Osborne joins the podcast to discuss gender ideology, framing it as a form of civilizational warfare. The conversation explores how such ideologies can weaken a nation
- 212. The Most Dangerous Moment: The 30 Seconds That Determine Whether Your Child Opens Up Again
This episode discusses 'fractal windows,' brief moments where a trans-identified child's anxiety is visible, and introduces the 'empathic guess' as a tool for parents. It emphasizes responding emotionally rather than logically to build tru…
- 211. Mia Hughes: Trans as an Extreme Overvalued Belief — Cracking the Code
The episode features Mia Hughes discussing the concept of 'trans as an extreme overvalued belief,' examining its historical roots in psychiatry and its contemporary application to the gender phenomenon. The conversation explores the shift…
- 210. Why Gender-Referred Youth Went From Bad to Worse: A Psychological Lens on the Finnish Study
This episode analyzes a Finnish study on gender-referred youth, noting high preexisting psychiatric needs and exploring the "untested hypothesis." It contrasts Finland's approach with the American informed-consent model and discusses the i…
- 209. When Schools Keep Secrets: Parental Rights, Teachers & the Supreme Court | Dean Broyles
Constitutional attorney Dean Broyles joins the podcast to discuss legal cases concerning gender identity policies in public schools, parental rights, and teacher accommodations. The episode covers the Mirabelli v. Bonta case, the Supreme C…
- 208. How Sweet, Sensitive Boys Enter the Porn-Addiction-to-Transgender Pipeline | Shane Cole
This episode features Shane Cole discussing the potential pipeline from porn addiction to transgender identity, particularly concerning sensitive boys. It delves into how 'sissy hypnosis' pornography operates, explores environmental endocr…
- 207. Parents' Rights vs. School Secrecy: Laura Powell on Mirabelli v. Bonta at the Supreme Court
Laura Powell, an attorney, joins the podcast to discuss the Mirabelli v. Bonta case, which addresses California schools' policies of concealing a child's gender identity from parents. The discussion covers the legal history, a federal laws…
- 206. The Intersex Lie: Róisín Michaux on How Queer Theory Hijacked a Rare Medical Condition
Róisín Michaux investigates how queer theory has influenced intersex activism, examining the difference between genuine medical conditions (DSDs) and the concept of "intersex identity." The discussion covers the impact of state funding on…
- 205. The Trifecta of Social Contagion: What Every Parent Needs to Know | my conversation with Dennison Joyce
Host Dennison Joyce discusses the ROGD Repair program and the "Trifecta of Social Contagion," comprising gender identity ideology, social justice narratives, and Cluster B personality traits, explaining their impact on youth and offering p…
- 204. Why Young Men Are Struggling and What Therapists Are Getting Wrong with Ryan Malphrus
Ryan Malphrus, a therapist specializing in boys and men, joins the podcast to discuss the challenges young men face. The episode covers how boys communicate through behavior, the impact of societal messages on masculinity, the allure of on…
- 203. Rumination vs. Healthy Introspection: The Case for Moral Formation in Therapy with Dean Abbott
Dean Abbott discusses the difference between healthy introspection and unhealthy rumination, arguing that people ruminate due to pain and a search for something lost. He contrasts nihilistic rumination with a growth-oriented self-examinati…
- 202. Label Mania: How Diagnosing Every Kid Is Backfiring on a Generation with Will Dobud
Dr. Will Dobud joins the podcast to discuss the increasing number of youth mental health diagnoses, arguing against the sole focus on phones and social media. He suggests that the proliferation of labels, especially for neurodivergence, mi…
- 201. Sacrificial Lambs: How Queer Theory Infiltrated K-12 Public Schools with Anita Bartholomew
Anita Bartholomew joins the podcast to discuss her book "Sacrificial Lambs," examining the influence of queer theory in K-12 public schools. The conversation covers curriculum content, library book examples, and the media
- 200. First Detransition Lawsuit Victory: Inside the Varian v. Einhorn Trial with Benjamin Ryan
Investigative reporter Benjamin Ryan details the Varian v. Einhorn trial, the first detransition malpractice lawsuit reaching a jury verdict. The conversation covers the case details, the jury's findings of responsibility, and the broader…
- 199. A Psychiatrist's Guide to Political Anxiety and Medication Myths with Dr. Michael Ziffra
Dr. Michael Ziffra joins the podcast to discuss navigating political anxiety and demystifies psychiatric medication, including the chemical imbalance theory, low-dose naltrexone, benzodiazepine dangers, and tapering strategies.
- 198. Should Christians Use Psychedelics? Four Perspectives | Christianity & Psychedelics Roundtable
This episode features a roundtable discussion on psychedelics and Christianity, featuring perspectives from a pastor, a science journalist, a researcher, and a physician. They discuss theological objections, scientific skepticism, potentia…
- 197. Interlude: My husband broke his arm. Enjoy beautiful nature sounds from Hawaii. (See notes)
The podcast episode, originally planned to discuss Psychedelics and Christianity, instead details a family emergency where the host's husband broke his arm. The host recounts managing the situation remotely and upon returning home, coordin…
- 196. Unconscious Group Dynamics and the Psychology of Scapegoating with Brant Elwood
Social psychology expert Brant Elwood joins the podcast to discuss unconscious group dynamics and the phenomenon of scapegoating. The episode explores how groups select individuals to bear collective anxiety, the psychological dynamics inv…
- 195. The Medical Mafia: How the AMA Manufactures Consensus on Gender Care with Dr. Travis Morrell
Dr. Travis Morrell discusses the AMA's alleged "medical mafia," explaining how the organization manufactures consensus on gender-affirming care through its control of CPT codes and lobbying. He details the physical harms of cross-sex hormo…
- 194. Cancelled From Cancer Care: Social Worker Tammy Weitzman Fired Over DEI
Tammy Weitzman, a licensed clinical social worker with 25 years of experience, recounts her dismissal from a cancer care position. She alleges that DEI ideology led to a hostile work environment, harassment, and ultimately her termination,…
- 193. Father God Gives Good Gifts: Healing Through Faith with Pastor and Therapist, Chris Legg
Pastor and therapist Chris Legg joins the podcast to discuss how faith and psychology intersect, emphasizing that true humility and identity are found in understanding one's relationship with God, contrasting this with secular self-esteem…
- 192. Inside Detrans.AI: The Tool Revealing Why People Leave Trans Identity | Peter James Steven
Peter James Steven, founder of Detrans.AI, joins the podcast to discuss his platform which uses AI to analyze detransitioner experiences. The conversation covers the tool's features, data insights into transition reasons, the influence of…
- 191. Insurance Fraud Enables Medical Abuse of “Trans” Kids: Dr. Eithan Haim Blows the Whistle Again
Dr. Eithan Haim, a whistleblower on pediatric gender programs, explains how insurance fraud enables gender clinics. He details the use of false diagnosis codes and falsified patient sex in medical records, and discusses the role of the Ame…
- 190. Overcoming Climate Anxiety: A Former Activist's Perspective with Lucy Biggers
Lucy Biggers, a former climate activist, shares her transition from intense climate anxiety to advocating for climate realism. She discusses how her perspective shifted, particularly after becoming a mother, and examines the impact of clim…
- 189. Healing a Profession in Crisis: Kathleen Mills on Breaking Free from Psychology's Woke Matrix
Kathleen Mills, a licensed professional counselor, discusses the mental health field's crisis, critiquing traditional therapy models and the influence of "woke ideology." She advocates for a mind-body-spirit approach and co-founded the Ass…
- 188. Coming to Jesus: Spiritual Revival and the End of Seeking with Will Spencer
Will Spencer discusses his personal journey from extensive global spiritual seeking, including transformational festivals and psychedelics, to finding peace and freedom through Christianity. The episode covers navigating relationships with…
- 187. Why Spotify Is Failing Independent Podcasters Like Me: a Public Service Announcement
The podcast host details a frustrating issue where Spotify's AI repeatedly flagged their legally licensed theme song, leading to episode removals and a difficult appeals process. Despite eventually resolving the immediate issue, the host h…
- 186. Preventing School Shootings: Jonathan Cogburn on the Conservative Case for School Counseling
This episode features Jonathan Cogburn discussing a conservative viewpoint on school mental health services, focusing on the McKinney-Vento Act, and strategies for preventing school violence through positive school cultures and threat asse…
- 185. Why Autistic Teens Fall for “Trans” and What They Need Instead with Simon Amaya Price
Simon Amaya Price, a desister and Outreach and Events Lead at the LGB Courage Coalition, shares insights on why autistic teens may identify as transgender, citing factors like bullying and trauma. He discusses his own experience, his paren…
- 184. The Best ROGD Parenting Advice a Robot Can Give: Meet RepairBot, a Groundbreaking AI Tool
This episode introduces RepairBot, the first AI chatbot designed for parents of trans-identified adolescents. Trained on the ROGD Repair program and coaching transcripts, it provides 24/7 support for parents seeking to maintain connection…
- 183. Men Out of Women’s Prisons: Retired Judge Elspeth Cypher Fights to Protect Female Interests
Retired Judge Elspeth Cypher discusses the Women
- 182. From Estrangement to Advocacy: Lynn Chadwick on Parental Identity After Your Child Transitions
This episode features Lynn Chadwick discussing her personal experience with parental estrangement related to "trans ideology" and her subsequent shift to advocacy. She shares insights on reclaiming identity, the nature of "trans ideology,"…
- 181. From Ayahuasca to Christ: Will Spencer on Escaping the Serpent's Deception
In this episode, Will Spencer shares his transformative journey from exploring New Age beliefs, psychedelics like ayahuasca, and occult practices to finding faith in Jesus Christ. He discusses confronting moral inconsistencies in his forme…
- 180. After Charlie Kirk: Embracing Moral Courage and Healthy Conflict with Jonathan Cogburn, LMFT
In the wake of the Charlie Kirk assassination, therapist Jonathan Cogburn joins the show to discuss moral courage, healthy conflict, and faith. Cogburn shares his personal journey from being apolitical to openly conservative, exploring how…
- 179. Hounded: Jenny Lindsay Speaks Out About the Women Who Have Been Harmed in the Gender Wars
Scottish poet and writer Jenny Lindsay details how her artistic career was impacted after she spoke out against gender identity activists. She discusses the "secondary harms" of gender ideology, the silencing of competent voices, and the t…
- 178. Understanding Interpersonal Narcissism and Envy in the Workplace with Dr. Nathalie Martinek
Dr. Nathalie Martinek joins the podcast to discuss interpersonal narcissism, envy, and shame, particularly in workplace dynamics. Drawing from her background in developmental biology, she explores how environmental factors and a desire to…
- 177. Emotional Maturity and Masculine Mentorship | Dr. Christian Conte and Jake Wiskerchen, LMFT
Dr. Christian Conte and Jake Wiskerchen return to discuss emotional maturity and masculine mentorship, exploring the balance of ego and humility, and Dr. Conte's Yield Theory.
- 176. Making Amends: Formerly “Trans” Lesbian Mother Jessi Harris on Survival, Family, & Forgiveness
Jessi Harris recounts her 30-year experience living as a trans man, a choice made for survival against discrimination as a lesbian mother. She details the medical consequences and her eventual detransition, focusing on making amends with h…
- 175. Practical Strategies for Supporting Parents in Gender Distress Cases | The Therapy Show with Lisa Mustard
This episode of The Therapy Show, originally released on December 4, 2024, features host Lisa Mustard interviewing Stephanie Winn, LMFT. They discuss practical strategies for supporting parents who are dealing with cases of gender distress…
- 174. Trans: When Coping Mechanism Becomes Identity, by Maia Poet
This episode features Maia Poet's audio essay
- 173. Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria: How Parents Can Repair ROGD | Stephanie Winn on Inciteful Sisters
This episode of Inciteful Sisters features Stephanie Winn discussing Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria (ROGD) and the ROGD Repair Kit, offering psychological insights and communication tools for parents.
- 172. Resistance Radio with Derrick Jensen
This episode is a guest appearance by the host of 'You Must Be Some Kind of Therapist' on Derrick Jensen's podcast, Resistance Radio. It was originally released on February 12, 2024. Jensen had previously appeared on episode 106 of the hos…
- 171. When Affirmation Goes Too Far | Navigating the Blended Family Experience | Jeremiah Wallace
This episode of Blended - Navigating the Blended Family Experience, hosted by Jeremiah Wallace, features guest Stephanie Winn discussing concerns about affirmation potentially going too far in blended families. The conversation originally…
- 170. Critical Therapy Antidote | The Harms of Gender Affirming Care | Jaco Van Zyl, Christine Sefein
Jaco Van Zyl and Christine Sefein host this episode of The Critical Therapy Antidote Podcast, featuring a discussion on the harms of gender-affirming care. The episode originally aired on August 14, 2023.
- 169. Virtuous Leaders with Dr. Johann D'Souza: Stephanie Winn, Protecting Children from Trans Activists
This episode of Virtuous Leaders features Stephanie Winn discussing the topic of protecting children from trans activism. The episode was originally released on November 6, 2023.
- 168. Family Therapy in the Age of Estrangement with Lisa Mustard, LMFT
In this episode of You Must Be Some Kind of Therapist, host interviews Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Lisa Mustard about family estrangement, particularly among young adults. They discuss how political stress impacts familial relat…
- 167. Reality Therapy with Ryan Rogers: ROGD Repair and How Therapy is Failing Us
This is a guest appearance by the host of "You Must Be Some Kind of Therapist" on the podcast "Reality Therapy with Ryan Rogers." The episode, titled "Stephanie Winn on ROGD Repair and How Therapy is Failing Us," originally aired on May 5,…
- 166. Adult Human Female: Maya Forstater on the Recent UK Supreme Court Ruling
This episode features Maya Forstater, co-founder and CEO of Sex Matters, discussing the UK Supreme Court ruling on the definition of "woman" in the Equality Act. The conversation covers the implications for women's rights, the Gender Recog…
- 165. The Dark Side of School Mental Health Services: What Parents Need to Know with Deb Fillman
This episode features Deb Fillman discussing concerns about school mental health services, including universal screenings, the potential for over-pathologizing student behavior, and ethical issues surrounding consent and privacy. The discu…
- 164. Courageously Confronting Autogynephilic Compulsions, with Steve Palmer
Steve Palmer shares his experience with autogynephilia, detailing his struggles with cross-dressing compulsions and paraphilic behavior since age 12. He discusses his journey through adolescent confusion, drug-induced psychosis, and his ev…