Who Even Are We?
Society & Culture
About
After millions of downloads and years of oversharing on Am I A Bad Mum?, Katie Mattin and Rachel Thaiday are introducing Who Even Are We. Who Even Are We? is a twice-weekly podcast about identity shifts, friendships, parenting teens (or nearly teens), marriage, confidence, chaos, and all the things no one prepares you for. From honest confessions to ridiculous stories and conversations that swing from hilarious to heartfelt, nothing is off limits and nothing is polished! It’s real life, real friendship, and real talk for anyone who’s ever looked around and thought… who even are we now?
Episodes
- Who will we be when the kids leave home?
This episode of "Who Even Are We?" explores the transition parents experience when their children leave home. It delves into themes of identity, purpose, and relationships as the family dynamic shifts.
- We like dining alone!
This episode of "Who Even Are We?" discusses the shift in social preferences as people age, particularly the reduced enjoyment of large groups and increased comfort with staying home. It explores why individuals might prefer dining alone o…
- Revisiting your 20 year old self
The episode "Revisiting your 20 year old self" from "Who Even Are We?" features the hosts reflecting on their younger selves. They discuss their self-worth, with one host sharing a personal admission.
- It cost HOW MUCH??
Katie took her kids on a city day out to ride Lime scooters, but it didn't go as planned. This episode discusses the event.
- We worry about EVERYTHING
This episode of "Who Even Are We?" discusses the worries of females and mothers, covering various concerns. It also shares techniques to help listeners manage their own worries.
- Getting rid of the Cortisol belly!
In this episode, Katie discusses cortisol and its relation to fasting and dietary needs for women in their 40s.
- Parenting teenagers and the effect it has on our self esteem
This episode discusses the challenges of parenting teenagers and its effect on Parental self-esteem. It covers strategies for maintaining confidence and navigating family dynamics.
- Pushing my health ideas on to people that don't care!
This episode of Who Even Are We? examines three different acts of kindness, including a discussion on whether Katie's contribution was motivated by personal interest.
- Carrying the Mental Load
This episode of Who Even Are We? examines the mental load carried by mothers, exploring whether this is linked to brain structure. The hosts also discuss feelings of guilt associated with asking for help and contrast current habits with de…
- Is Chat GPT going to replace our doctors?
Katie and Rach discuss jobs potentially impacted by AI, specifically examining the use of artificial intelligence as a substitute for professional medical consultations.
- Inside the Manosphere Controversy
The hosts discuss their perspectives on the Netflix documentary Louis Theroux: Inside the Manosphere. They share their thoughts on the subjects featured in the film and express concerns regarding the individuals involved.
- Turning Grief into Connection with Psychic Medium Barbra Banner
Psychic medium Barbra Banner joins Who Even Are We? to discuss her work as an evidential and trance medium. The conversation explores connecting with spirits, receiving messages, and learning how to trust signs.
- Supplements, what should we take?
Rach and Katie discuss the necessity of various supplements and how to differentiate between essential and unnecessary products while being budget-conscious.
- Losing your identity
This episode explores identity loss after career changes or job loss, featuring personal reflections on transitioning careers in your 40s and navigating relationships when the spotlight fades.
- Broke & ashamed
In this episode of Who Even Are We?, Katie discusses her experience of struggling financially and the challenges of managing feelings of shame while maintaining appearances.
- Money blocks and the anxiety we have
This episode explores topics related to money, including overcoming money blocks, managing anxiety, and addressing the shame often associated with financial circumstances and comparisons to others.
- Jackie O: Our thoughts
In this episode, the hosts discuss the recent news surrounding Kyle and Jackie O, with Katie providing insights based on her 17-year career in the radio industry.
- Fitness in your 40's
Personal trainer Rach discusses common questions surrounding exercise in your 40s, including the role of cardio and walking versus running. The episode addresses the confusion caused by conflicting fitness advice.
- Make someone's day
Rach shares an idea about filling buckets by choosing a different person each day to help make their day.
- Adoption & the abandonment trauma that goes with it
In this episode, Katie shares her personal experiences of being adopted as a newborn and discusses the challenges associated with it.
- The things we thought we'd never say
In this episode of Who Even Are We?, the hosts discuss the realization of unexpectedly repeating phrases and behaviors typically associated with their parents. They explore common saying like 'money doesn't grow on trees' and adjusting to…
- It's time to fill your bucket up - lets get selfish!
This episode explores the balance between caring for others and prioritizing personal well-being, discussing whether listeners are experiencing a midlife crisis or awakening. The hosts provide tips on how to focus on oneself while managing…
- Rach's moment of shame
In this bonus episode, Rach discusses a personal experience she finds disgusting and shares a moment of shame.
- What's with the Low Libido?
This episode explores the topic of low libido, including past experiences, performance pressure, and how external factors can impact desire. The hosts discuss common frustrations and the differences in how desire is experienced.
- Burner phones ONLY in our house
Rach discusses her decision to delay giving her daughters mobile phones against social pressure, while Katie weighs in on the likelihood of needing to eventually give in. They explore the influence of social pressure on parenting decisions…
- Alcohol: The Unhealthy Relationship we don't Talk About
This episode of Who Even Are We? discusses the common and often unspoken struggle women face regarding alcohol consumption as a means of relaxation and habit. The hosts share personal experiences and insights into the unhealthy relationshi…
- Is this Aging or am I just Tired??
In this episode, the hosts discuss the physical and cognitive effects of aging, including aches, pains, and brain fog. Additionally, Rach shares an experience with a mammogram and proposes a concept for a men's version.
- Grief: We have both experienced loss and are ready to talk about it
In this episode, the hosts discuss their personal experiences with grief. They explore the stages of grief as they relate to losing a person, the end of relationships, and navigating a serious health diagnosis.
- Online dating - we want more
In this episode of Who Even Are We?, the hosts discuss the challenges of online dating, specifically focusing on the experiences of single mothers.
- One week on, one week off and I can't orgasm
In this two-part episode of Who Even Are We?, the hosts discuss a single mother's experience with a shared parenting schedule and explore the topic of orgasms following a listener inquiry.
- Lets be friends
In this episode of Who Even Are We?, the hosts discuss the challenges of making friends as an adult compared to childhood. They explore the difficulty of putting oneself out there and the assumption that others have already established the…
- READ THE ROOM BRO
In this episode, the hosts discuss a perceived lack of common sense in the world, share an embarrassing pharmacy experience, and debate proper plane etiquette. They explore the necessity of reading the room in various social situations.
- Lets just book in - Visiting the Brothel
The hosts of Who Even Are We? discover that a nearby business is a brothel and decide to book an appointment to satisfy their curiosity about the establishment.
- Being 'Mrs Thaiday' - I have NEVER opened up about this before
Katie interviews Rachel Thaiday about her experience being married to a prominent Australian footballer. They discuss the realities of public attention, lifestyle changes, and the highs and lows of their life together.
- Introducing.... Who Even Are We?
This episode serves as the introduction to the podcast Who Even Are We?
- An announcment for the future of Am I A Bad Mum?
Katie and Rach share a major announcement regarding the future of the podcast Am I A Bad Mum?. This episode marks the end of an era for the show.
- I'M ANGRY
Katie deals with an unexpected bill right before Christmas, while Rach looks for a potential solution.
- Sorry for embarrassing you
In this episode of Who Even Are We?, Rach shares a story about attending an event with her children where she failed to follow the dress code and had to make an excuse for her behavior.
- I just had a real f*** it moment!
Rach explains her last-minute decision, which she chose not to disclose to her children to avoid months of constant questioning.
- I feel like a battered old water bottle
In this episode of Who Even Are We?, Katie discusses her role as a financial provider for her children, followed by a conversation about water bottles.
- I'm having a night off!
Rach decides to take an impromptu night out following a disagreement with her youngest child. Instead of continuing the argument, she chooses to leave for the evening.
- I'm taking annual leave from being your PA
Katie realizes her children are more self-sufficient than they let on. Consequently, she decides to take a break from her role as their personal assistant.
- I'm low key, quote unquote confused bruh!
In this episode of Who Even Are We?, Katie tests Rach's knowledge of modern slang used by children to address her own confusion regarding the terminology.
- Mum, do you have a vibrator?
In this episode of Who Even Are We?, the hosts discuss the awkward situation of a child asking their mother about personal adult items.
- I cannot deal with the questions
In this episode, Rach discusses her recent experiences dealing with a series of late-night questions on complex or challenging topics she finds difficult to answer.
- I am STILL a helicopter parent
Katie's approach to helicopter parenting leads to a disagreement with Rach, who believes some of Katie's actions are unnecessary.
- I was NEVER that rude
In this episode, Rach discusses her struggles with confidence and perceived rudeness. The conversation contrasts these experiences with the disciplinary standards of their childhood.
- We will keep Dan Murphy's in business
In this episode of Who Even Are We?, Katie discusses a parenting mishap involving a lunch engagement. The hosts also explore trends in alcohol consumption habits among Gen Z and millennial mothers.
- What I should do is not what I actually do
Katie celebrates her children's birthdays while Rach suggests that Katie's parenting style may involve too much helicoptering.
- I am so inappropriate
Katie shares a story about trying to hide the fact that she was watching something inappropriate from her daughters, only for her plan to fail.