Violet Lange's Pleasure Path
Psychology & Relationships
About
A podcast on love, dating, relationships, and femininity by expert Violet Lange. Learn how to attract an incredible partner, build a passionate relationship, and love and honor yourself.
Episodes
- What Oracle Cards Won't Tell You About Love
Oracle cards. Twin flames. Psychic readings. Angel signs. In this episode, Violet explores the difference between intuition and spiritual bypassing in love. A deep conversation about sovereignty, nervous systems, embodiment, destiny, relat…
- Do You Have to Change Yourself to Find Love?
Do you really have to change yourself to find love? In this episode, Violet explores the difference between abandoning yourself for approval… and allowing love to transform you into more of who you truly are. From attraction patterns to ar…
- How to Date: The 4 Ds of Dating...even if you hate dating
Modern dating can feel exhausting, performative, and disconnected from what we actually want. In this episode, Violet shares the 4 Ds of Dating — a framework for approaching love in a more alive, embodied, and spiritually connected way: De…
- Should I Stay...or Should I Go?
In this episode of Bold Love & Soulful Sex, Violet Lange explores one of the hardest questions we face in love and partnership. Through stories, nervous system wisdom, relationship patterns, grief work, polarity, attachment, and embodi…
- How to Stop Repeating the Same Patterns in Love
What if your patterns in love aren’t proof that you’re broken? In this episode of Bold Love & Soulful Sex, Violet Lange explores why we repeat painful relationship dynamics — and how to finally shift them. From nervous system wiring an…
- Can Chemistry Be Created or just found?
Is chemistry fate…or something we can create? Violet explores attraction, nervous system, embodiment, attachment, desire, and the deeper dynamics behind romantic spark — and why bold love means expanding our sense of who and what we're att…
- Are You Practicing Love? Or Waiting for It?
What if love isn’t something you wait for, but something you practice? In this episode, Violet explores how connection, intimacy, attraction, and aliveness are cultivated through the way we live now — not someday when partnership arrives o…
- Is Your Definition of Love Too Small?
Why I'm expanding from The Pleasure Path to Bold Love & Soulful Sex: on dating, relationships, lineage & legacy for love rebels. Let's make some magic! Sign up for the May 31st workshop, Healing with the Masculine Join me for 10 Da…
- Prayer for Partnership & Matchmaking with Zev Aaron
Have you ever had a prayer for partnership, but felt forlorn? Do you believe there's a spiritual dimension to finding love? In this episode, my special guest Zev Aaron talks about matchmaking as a path to meet your partner—but not traditio…
- From Chemistry to Coherence: Love as Initiation
What if love isn’t something you find — but something you practice? In this episode, I’m sharing a deeper, embodied conversation about love: not the fantasy version we’re sold, not the pressure-filled performance we see on social media, bu…
- The Heart of Shadow for Women
In this episode, I sit down with my husband Jason Lange and our dear friend Luke Adler to introduce The Heart of Shadow for Women, a program we've been dreaming about for years and are finally bringing to life. We dive deep into what shado…
- How Can Your Love Life Get Better Through Menopause? (with Jo Ann Panneton)
Did you know menopause can be a way to improve your love life? That intimacy, connection, and commitment can actually improve -- whether you're single or partnered? Listen now to the hidden opportunities in this season of renewed vitality…
- What Season is Your Relationship In?
In this episode my husband Jason and I break down why your relationship can’t always be sunny and perfect—and why that’s actually a good thing. We walk through the four seasons of relationships and the reality of how different parts of you…
- Our Five Scariest Moments as a Couple
Ever get freaked out in your relationship? Do your worries take away from the love you want to build? It’s normal to feel fear in relationship but don’t let it sabotage you both. Listen now to hear our Five Scariest Moments as a Couple and…
- Can Sex Keep Getting Better in Long-term Relationship?
Discover the secrets to a sizzling sex life that keeps getting better and better year after year! In this episode, Jason and I reveal our sexual journey, sharing candid tips on maintaining erotic energy and emotional connection. Learn why…
- Our Three Biggest Fights as a Couple
In this episode, my husband Jason and I dive deep into the raw, real, and often messy side of relationships by sharing our three biggest fights and lessons from them. From trust issues and emotional disregulation to financial stress and fe…
- Evolutionary Couples & 12 Epic Dates
If you only had about 2 hours a week to spend on your relationship, how could you use that time most wisely? The truth is relationships can be incredibly challenging, especially in today’s fast-paced world where it can be hard to prioritiz…
- Tapping Into Your Power with Wild Sensuality
How do you awaken an innocent connection to your body and the Earth? How do you reclaim all of the parts of you, and be witnessed in your fullness? How can you access greater truth, power, freedom and love? Tune in to hear more about Wild…
- How to Embrace Your Sensuality with the Four Elements
Fire + fire will burn out...balancing the elements in our relationships, and in ourselves, is key. Learn how to tap into your elemental sensuality and alchemize stuck areas, so you can plant the seeds of your vision of love. For more pract…
- How to Get Your Sex Life Back
Going through a lull, or a total freeze, in your sex life? Not feeling very sexy or radiant? Tune in for a unique perspective on turn-on. To sign up for Sacred Sexuality visit https://violetlange.com/sacred-sensuality/
- How to Not Fall for the Wrong One
Ever wonder if your "picker" is broken? Have you unknowingly fallen for the same type of person again and again? Listen to learn how to change your patterns of attraction and stop falling for your dating "catnip."
- Manifest Your Vision of Love
Creating healthy love isn't just about affirmations or a checklist. Bring your list to life with this episode and get tips for speeding up the process.
- 3 Things You Might Not Know About Men, Dating & Sex
My guest Melanie Curtin, host of the Dear Men Podcast, joins to share three things you might not know about men, dating, and sex. Find out more about her at www.melaniecurtin.com
- Fierce Self-Love: Mindset Shifts & Practices
If you feel stuck in negative beliefs or have great self-care but something seems missing, listen for how to dial up your self-love to level fierce. The book mentioned: No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz.
- The Missing Piece: Practical Intimacy
Emotional and physical intimacy can sweep us away, but practical intimacy is what sustains a relationship. It's also the missing piece to make dating more efficient and effective.
- How to Clear Resentments in Dating & Love
Ever let resentments pile up like the dishes, then just avoid them? If you want a smoother, easier relationship or dating experience, listen now.
- Make it Easy to Find a Good Man
You might be surprised to discover that good men are everywhere if you know how to look. Tune in to this episode to find out how to make it easy to find a great man.
- Draw Love Closer with Archetypes
If you feel like love is just out of reach, this episode is for you. Learn how using archetypes can bring love even closer to you.
- Reclaim Your Erotic Essence & Save Your Relationship
Want that sizzle, that dazzle, that magical mystique? Of course you do. Everyone does. And if you're in a long-term relationship, it can feel harder to maintain that over time. We're witnessing an epidemic of sexless relationships — some s…
- Dating with Pleasure: When is the Right Time to Date?
In this episode of my Dating with Pleasure series, I share about the joy of aligning with the right time to date. Should you date after a divorce? When is your heart ready? what if you're sick of the apps and want to take a break? I answer…
- Dating with Pleasure: How to Enjoy the Apps
This series of episodes is all about dating with pleasure -- bringing the joy, fun, and romance back to our opening to love. One of the biggest complaints I hear is about dating apps, yet, over 50 million people use them. Tune in to hear h…
- Organic Sexuality with Rahi Chun
Reclaiming and embodying our sexual wholeness is a gift to ourselves, our partners, and the world. Listen as Rahi Chun, host of the Organic Sexuality podcast, shares his wisdom as a practitioner and healer.
- The Ritual of Adornment with Artist Caren Chroma
What is life without beauty and ritual? Listen in as my special guest Caren Chroma and I talk about adornment as soul empowerment, and how body-painting helps us to celebrate our ever-changing identities. IG: @carenchroma https://www.caren…
- Meet the Goddess Within with Dr. Giavanni Washington
My special guest Dr. Giavanni Washington shares about her powerful oracle card deck The Black Goddess Within, her program for ancestral restoration and racial healing Meet the Goddess Within, and we talk about why it’s so important to reve…
- Bridgerton! My Take on the Hit Show
In this episode, I’m sharing all of my thoughts on the hit series Bridgerton. How did the characters help, or hurt, their romantic potential or partnerships? Do you see any of the patterns or personalities or situations in your own love li…
- Self-Care & Belly Binding with Princess McKinney
My guest Princess McKinney is an expert postpartum doula and author of the book Belly Binding: a simple postpartum ritual to reclaim your body and heal your spirit. We talk about self-care and more as women and as mothers. Her company Bell…
- How to Not Die Alone with Logan Ury
Logan Ury joins the show and shares many gems on how to date more effectively AND with more humanity. Her recent book How Not to Die Alone is an Amazon best-seller and she is also the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge (my favorite…
- Date Like a Queen, Create Lasting Love
Learn the top 5 dating mistakes even smart, self-aware women make, plus a juicy framework for loving yourself, loving dating, and loving your future (or current) partner. Join my live webinar at www.violetlange.com/datequeen Click the icon…
- Mothering Ourselves with Carole Isenberg
Learn about what Carole calls the ‘motherlode’ and why it’s important to be conscious about what you may be taking on from your mother, as well as celebrating that she gave you life. We talk about sexuality as mothers and so much more, so…
- Post-Partum Depression with Speech Language Pathologist Emily Adler Mosqueda
This episode is an important reminder that mental health is so important, especially as mothers. My guest Emily Adler Mosqueda shares her journey with late post-partum depression. emilyadlermosqueda.com IG @emily.adler.mosqueda Click the i…
- Dawn Wylde Pleasure Priestess
Join Dawn Wylde, sex coach and badass fairy godmother, as we dive into pleasure…all the ways pleasure gets distorted in our society, and how important it is to do pleasure first, versus as a reward. There’s a pleasure activation and lots o…
- Creating Calm, Clearing Clutter with Christine O’Brien
What we hide away, eventually gnaws at us and gets in the way of a healthy relationship with ourselves, our children, and our environment. Christine O’Brien helps women clear the clutter, do their inner work, connect with their emotions, a…
- Pelvic Health & Sexual Reclamation with Jacqueline Morasco
Do you or have you struggled with a weak core? Too tight or too weak pelvic floor? Incontinence? Sexual shame? Then this episode is for you. Tune in as Jacqueline Morasco shares about pelvic health and sexual reclamation. It’s time we have…
- 6EXual Health, Generational Cycles, and Mental Fitness with Felicia Hunt
This episode is JUICY! We cover all the things — sexuality, desire, generational cycles, our saboteur and sage mind, mental fitness, and the importance of healing together as women. Felicia Hunt has an amazing program and so much wisdom. I…
- What is Fabulously Feminine?
What is fabulously feminine and how does it work? Listen to this juicy episode to hear more about becoming fabulously feminine for abundance enchantment and love. Feminine energy is more than just how we look (the surface level of feminine…
- Pleasure as Magnetism with Kayce Neill
Your pleasure is magnetic! Did you know that pleasure can increase your confidence and seduction? My guest Kayce Neill shares with us her 5 ways to create magnetism — you don’t want to miss this episode. Kayce Neill, MA, CHPC, CEBC, LAC is…
- Men’s Sexuality with Kelley Mountain
Men’s sexuality is often misunderstood — by men and by women. Men actually have unique needs for stoking their sexual fire, and often struggle in secret with issues related to their sexuality. In this episode, my special guest Kelley Mount…
- Feminine Energy in Business with Darlene Loves
Have you ever wanted to bring your feminine energy to your work? Have you ever felt that you could be creating and living more if you allowed yourself to flow in your day and prioritize your pleasure? Tune in to learn about feminine energy…
- Psychedelics and Relationships with Lucy Baldwin
Plant medicine is a unique path to healing and to deepening your intuition and self-awareness. Lucy Baldwin joins the show as my guest discussing psychedelics and relationships. If you’ve ever been curious about medicine work, this episode…
- New Mama Wellness with Danielle Jenkins
Maternal mental health is crucial for raising healthy kids and for taking good care of yourself. If you’re a mama, or know an expectant mama, this episode is for you. Danielle Jenkins is my special guest and shares about how to ensure your…