The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over.
Psychology & Relationships
About
I was the other woman for five years. He was married. It wasn't the plan — but it happened, and it changed everything about how I see love, relationships, and myself. The Scarlet Edit is my podcast. I started it because I was tired of carrying my story in silence and I knew I wasn't the only one. This is where I talk about affairs, infidelity, cheating, divorce, and starting over — without shame, without the moral lectures, and without pretending that love and relationships fit into the neat little boxes everyone wants them to. I'm Nikki Corbett. I've been the other woman. I've been divorced. I'm on the other side — and I have a lot to say about it. I talk about the process of owning my self worth - what I actually want, who I actually am, and what love looks like when you stop performing and start being honest. Every Thursday, I share what I'm learning, what I'm living, and what I'm still figuring out. Sometimes that's a solo episode where I go deep on my own experience — falling in love with a married man, the loneliness of affairs, the grief that comes after you walk away from something that wasn't yours to keep. Sometimes it's a conversation with a guest who has been through their own version of the mess — narcissistic abuse, toxic relationships, divorce in midlife, secret relationships, or the slow process of rebuilding after everything falls apart. This show is for the woman who has been the other woman and never had a safe place to talk about it. For the woman going through a divorce she didn't see coming. For the woman stuck in a marriage that looks fine on the outside but feels dead on the inside. For the woman who is dating again after years and has no idea what she's doing. For the woman who is choosing to be alone and is learning that solo doesn't mean lonely. The woman who was the one who cheated and is carrying that too. And for anyone who has ever been told that their story makes them less worthy of love — it doesn't. I don't have all the answers. I'm not a therapist. I'm just a woman who decided to stop being quiet about the things we're all going through but nobody wants to say out loud. If you've ever thought "am I the only one?" — you're not. Pull up a chair. Let's talk about it. New episodes every Thursday. 💌 Business inquiries: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com
Episodes
- What to Do When Your Husband Keeps Cheating
Naomi Kreske discusses her experience with her husband's repeated infidelity, leading to divorce. She shares her journey of rebuilding her life as a single mother with three young children and eventually finding self-acceptance and a new r…
- Why I Felt Single Even During an Affair
This episode explores the feeling of being single even while in serious relationships. The discussion covers experiences in marriage, boyfriends, and an affair, examining why the host felt unchosen throughout these relationships. It also d…
- How Raising My Expectations Ended the Affair
This episode explores how raising personal expectations can lead to ending an affair. The host shares insights on disappointment, self-worth, and taking control of one's relationships and emotional well-being.
- Why Women Marry for Potential and End Up Having Affairs (Part 2)
In this episode, Hope discusses ending an affair and the decision to divorce. She also talks about why she married for potential rather than reality.
- She Cheated on Her Husband — Her Side of the Story (Part 1)
Hope shares her story of infidelity, from questioning her marriage to the development of an emotional and physical affair. She discusses the challenges of being in a deceptive relationship and the complexities of her situation.
- Can You Be the Other Woman and Not Feel Guilty?
Nikki Corbett addresses YouTube comments about her affair, discussing why she doesn't perform regret for strangers and her belief that infidelity is a symptom, not the problem. She also challenges the notion that being kept a secret equate…
- The Subconscious Patterns Behind Every Affair
Behavioral scientist Katarina Polonska explains the subconscious fears and patterns driving affairs, especially in high performers. She shares insights on breaking the cycle, traditional therapy
- Kristin Cabot Speaks Out — How 90% of the Hate Came From Women
Kristin Cabot shares her experience on Oprah's podcast regarding the intense hate she faced, much of it from women, after a public incident while separated from her husband. The episode explores double standards, societal judgment of affai…
- Do Happy People Cheat? I Don't Think So.
Nikki Corbett debunks the statistic that 56% of men and 34% of women who cheat report happy marriages, arguing self-reporting is flawed and "happy" is a low bar. She believes relationship work prevents affairs and challenges the idea that…
- Why Choosing Happiness After an Affair Is the Most Radical Thing I Do
This episode details the host's mindset on choosing happiness and joy daily, stemming from experiences like divorce and ending an affair. It explores how controlling controllable aspects of life and addressing shame contribute to her overa…
- I Waited for a Married Man to Leave His Wife
The episode explores the complex emotions and loneliness of being involved with a married man, challenging societal judgment and offering a personal perspective on the experience. It highlights the difficulty of waiting for a partner to le…
- I Shared My Biggest Secret — And Still Put Myself in a Box
The host of The Scarlet Edit reflects on the year since sharing her secret of being in a five-year relationship with a married man. She discusses feeling confined, her struggles with self-presentation, and a conversation with her business…
- Affairs That Cost 2 Women Their Lives & How the Other 4 Survived
This episode of Affairs Through the Ages examines Henry VIII's six wives, their affairs, and strategies, as well as the king's personal transformation from a golden prince to a tyrant. It covers the annulment that led to the Church of Engl…
- Emotional Affairs, Fantasy & Physical Attraction: What Love Is Blind Gets Wrong
This episode analyzes Love Is Blind's high divorce rate by comparing it to emotional affairs, discussing the importance of physical attraction and double standards. It includes personal reflections on exclusivity and what truly sustains lo…
- The Jeff Bezos Affair: Why This One Didn’t Fall Apart
This episode of The Scarlet Edit analyzes the Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez affair, examining its public exposure, the factors contributing to its survival, and why it became one of the rare affairs that led to marriage.
- She Called Off Her Wedding on Her Wedding Day
Emily Kuch discusses the courageous decision to call off her wedding on the day itself, after nearly a decade together. The conversation explores overcoming societal pressures, trusting one's intuition, and the process of starting over aft…
- Ava Gardner's Affairs: How She Kept Leaving Until She Found Herself
This episode of The Scarlet Edit delves into Ava Gardner's life, covering her journey from poverty to Hollywood stardom, her three early marriages, and her unconventional choices regarding love and career, ultimately defining her own narra…
- Why I Never Called My Boyfriend During Our Entire Affair
The host discusses how she normalized unhealthy relationship behaviors during an affair, such as never calling her boyfriend, keeping the relationship secret, and avoiding introducing him to friends. She explains how these patterns led to…
- Monica Lewinsky's Story: Power, Betrayal & Starting Over
This episode examines the Monica Lewinsky scandal, exploring her past relationships, the power dynamics with Bill Clinton, Linda Tripp's betrayal, and the public fallout. It also covers Lewinsky's journey of recovery, advocacy against publ…
- The Sexual Conversations That Prevent Affairs: Understanding Kink & Communication
Certified sex and relationship coach Amanda Dames breaks down the kink spectrum and discusses the importance of honest communication about sexual desires to prevent infidelity. The episode covers the difference between kinks and fetishes,…
- Dating Separated Men: When Is He Ready After Divorce? (Women in Their 40s Weigh In)
This episode explores whether women should date separated men, featuring insights from 141 women in their 40s. It discusses healing timelines, self-discovery, and readiness for new relationships after a long marriage, with a focus on why 9…
- Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Why This Common Phrase is Wrong
The Scarlet Edit explores why the common relationship phrase "once a cheater, always a cheater" is inaccurate and harmful. The episode distinguishes between serial infidelity and situational affairs, discusses statistics on recurrence, and…
- Fantasy Access: When Someone Feels Close but Never Shows Up
This episode of The Scarlet Edit introduces 'Fantasy Access,' a dating concept explaining emotional confusion when someone stays close online but doesn't commit in person. The host discusses its prevalence in modern dating, its connection…
- Best of 2025: Infidelity, Divorce, and the Courage to Start Over
This best-of episode of The Scarlet Edit features a curated selection of conversations from the past year. Topics include infidelity, divorce, self-worth, relationship challenges, and the process of starting over.
- Why You Should Make an Annual Playlist (And How It Can Change the Way You Reflect on Your Life)
This episode discusses the tradition of creating an annual music playlist as a method for life reflection. The host shares how music holds memories and how yearly playlists have become markers of growth and new beginnings, while also touch…
- Why Infidelity Isn’t About You — A Psychic Medium on Cheating, Energy, and Self-Worth
Psychic medium June Edward shares her near-death experience and discusses how energy and vibration influence relationships, including infidelity and divorce. The episode covers fear-based vs. soul-based decisions, the Five Love Lessons, an…
- When Is It My Turn? Navigating Loneliness & Desire | A Real Conversation About Single Life
This episode discusses the emotional complexities of single life during the holidays, including loneliness, desire, and the challenges of midlife dating. It highlights finding gratitude in everyday moments and encourages listeners to recog…
- Worried About Love and Money? How Prenups Protect Your Future and Peace of Mind.
This episode discusses prenuptial agreements with attorney Deveney Wells-Gibson, reframing them as foundation-builders for relationships. It covers why prenups are beneficial, how outdated laws can leave women vulnerable, and the importanc…
- Feeling Drained by Negativity? Here’s How to Reset Your Energy and Thrive in 2026.
This episode discusses identifying and releasing negative thoughts and fears to reset energy before 2026. It covers how acknowledging fear, mapping goals, and tracking negativity can shift your subconscious and prepare you for personal cha…
- Tired of Settling? Why It’s Okay to Want a Boyfriend Who Truly Values You.
This solo episode discusses societal pressures on women regarding relationships, challenging the idea that wanting a partner diminishes independence. It emphasizes that valuing oneself and seeking a relationship are not mutually exclusive.
- Reclaiming Your Power After Narcissistic Abuse: Self-Worth, Femininity & Choosing Yourself | Melise Watts
This episode features Melise Watts discussing her experience with narcissistic abuse, highlighting how it disguised itself as love and the process of reclaiming her identity and power after leaving the relationship.
- A Very Unplanned Solo Episode Inside My New Studio (And My Brain)
This unplanned solo episode features the host recording from her new studio. She shares a stream of consciousness about the setup process, including interior design commentary, technical experiments, and her ongoing goal to be recognized b…
- Why Affairs Happen: Core Wounds, Self-Worth & the Psychology of Infidelity with Christina Ketchen
The Scarlet Edit discusses infidelity with coach Christina Ketchen, exploring the psychology behind affairs, the impact of core wounds on relationships, and the different roles people play in infidelity. The episode emphasizes compassion a…
- Widowed with 4 Kids, Then Trapped by a Narcissist
Julie Barth recounts losing her husband to cancer and subsequently enduring years of emotional and financial abuse from a narcissist who preyed on her grief. She details the manipulation, isolation, and threats she faced before escaping th…
- Dating After Divorce: Deal Breakers, Intimacy & Keeping Love Alive
Dr. Robin Buckley discusses intentional dating after divorce, introducing the Ideal Companion Avatar and a system for maintaining connection through regular check-ins. The episode covers essential conversations for new relationships and st…
- What 15 Months of Solo Travel Taught Me About Love & Self-Worth
This solo episode discusses the experience of settling down after 15 months of solo travel, reflecting on past relationships, and the personal growth achieved. It explores themes of self-worth and starting over, particularly for those rebu…
- 20 Years Married to a Narcissist: Serial Cheating, Coercive Control & Getting Out
Lisa Johnson recounts her 20-year marriage to a narcissistic, unfaithful husband, detailing his coercive control tactics and how she eventually left. She discusses representing herself in a high-conflict divorce, influencing legal changes,…
- 100 Episodes and Counting: My Round Two Podcast Journey That Led to The Scarlet Edit
This special 100th episode of The Scarlet Edit looks back at the podcast's journey from its origins as 'Round Two' to its current form, sharing lessons learned in storytelling and authenticity.
- The Role of Shame in Divorce, Affairs, and Betrayal | Dr. Zoe Shaw
This episode features Dr. Zoe Shaw discussing complex shame, distinguishing it from guilt and ordinary shame. The conversation explores how complex shame affects infidelity, divorce, and toxic relationships, particularly for women, and off…
- Polyamory Inside a 16-Year Marriage: Jealousy, Freedom & Honesty
Mike Messeroff shares his experience with polyamory in a 16-year marriage, explaining how it challenged jealousy and fostered greater honesty and freedom. He discusses the spiritual aspects of non-attachment and unconditional love, suggest…
- Heartbreak Anthems: Music for Moving On | The Scarlet Edit Listener's Breakup Playlist
This bonus episode of The Scarlet Edit features a listener-created breakup playlist, highlighting the emotional impact of music and lyrics during relationship endings. The host shares personal experiences with using songs to navigate heart…
- Divorced 3 Times: Shame, Stigma & Starting Over with Leah Mazur
Leah Mazur, founder of Mindfully Ready, discusses her three divorces and how she helps women overcome the shame and stigma associated with divorce. The episode explores societal views on divorce, emotional costs, childhood abandonment's im…
- The Courage to Leave: Divorce, Affairs & Starting Over
In this episode, the host discusses the true nature of courage, reflecting on her experiences with divorce, ending an affair, solo travel, and starting her podcast. She also explores concepts from Brené Brown regarding courage, fear, and t…
- The Truth About Affairs: Sexless Marriages, Emotional Validation, and Modern Love
In this episode of The Scarlet Edit, guest Paul Keable of Ashley Madison discusses the motivations behind infidelity, including sexless marriages and the search for emotional validation. The conversation explores modern relationship dynami…
- Unity, Division, and the America We’ve Become | Remembering 9/11 & Charlie Kirk
The host reflects on the unity experienced after 9/11 and contrasts it with current societal divisions following the murder of Charlie Kirk. The episode emphasizes a need for compassion, conversation, and critical thinking to address the c…
- The Friendship Breakup Guide: Letting Go & Moving On
This episode of The Scarlet Edit discusses navigating friendship breakups, exploring why friends come and go, and the difference between reason, season, and lifetime friends. It offers guidance on letting go with grace, reframing endings,…
- How to Date Again After Divorce, Heartbreak & Starting Over
Jonathon Aslay, a relationship coach, shares insights on dating after divorce, emphasizing friendship and emotional connection. He discusses his personal experiences and a journaling method for clarity in relationships.
- Fix Your Relationship: Secrets to Reignite Attraction, Intimacy & Desire
This episode features relationship expert Paul discussing strategies to reignite intimacy, maintain attraction, and keep desire alive in long-term relationships, covering hormonal influences, attraction types, and practical tips for enhanc…
- Taylor Swift Engaged to Travis Kelce – Red Alert Bonus Episode on Love & Relationships
This bonus episode of The Scarlet Edit discusses Taylor Swift's engagement to Travis Kelce, drawing lessons about love, heartbreak, and self-worth from her relationship journey. It explores how her songs reflect emotional growth and offers…
- No Regrets, No Shame: My Truth About Being the Other Woman
This solo episode of The Scarlet Edit delves into the speaker's five-year affair, discussing the emotional connection, the daily realities of being the 'other woman,' and the eventual liberation and lessons learned about relationships.