The KYLO Show
Psychology & Relationships
About
Welcome to The KYLO Show, a weekly podcast hosted by Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell. Join us as we answer your questions and share practical tools for building and protecting healthy relationships. This podcast is your guide for how to Keep Your Love On no matter what and pass on legacy to the next generation. Tune in to discover how whole healthy families are going to save the world!
Episodes
- How Real Change Actually Happens
In part two of our Lexington conversation, we move from awareness to action. This episode is about building a life that supports emotional health, relational repair, and spiritual formation—one step at a time. If you’ve ever felt stuck or…
- Strong, Capable… and Numb? Why Awareness is the Start of Healing
In this episode, we’re live from Lexington to talk about the emotional and relational toll of carrying responsibility without connection. Whether you're a leader, parent, spouse, or friend—this conversation will help you recognize the earl…
- Emotional Maturity: The Secret to Thriving Relationships
In part two of our live KYLO Show from Columbus, we move from awareness into action. This conversation focuses on what it actually looks like to grow—why change feels hard, why slowing down can feel unsafe, and how alignment is built throu…
- When Strength Becomes a Liability
In part one of our live KYLO Show from Columbus, we explore why so many capable, high-responsibility leaders end up feeling disconnected, exhausted, or numb. This conversation focuses on the slow drift that happens when performance is rewa…
- Growth Begins When Pretending Ends
In part two of our live KYLO Show from Birmingham, Alabama, we move from awareness to action. Last episode, we talked about the dangers of disconnection beneath the surface. Now we explore the practical side—how to slow down, tune in, and…
- When Success Covers Relational Disconnection
Episode Overview Recorded live in Birmingham, Alabama, this episode is part one of a tour conversation focused on leadership, connection, and transformation. The discussion centers on the reality that leadership doesn’t just happen on stag…
- Correction, Connection, and Calling Boys to Become Men
Live from Cleveland, Danny and Brittney Serpell close out the KYLO Show Live Tour with a deeply practical and wide-ranging conversation on correction, connection, and cultivating healthy relationships—in families, workplaces, and the Churc…
- How to Build a Culture That Heals
Broadcasting live from Cleveland, Ohio, Danny and Brittney Serpell tackle some of the most urgent and complex issues facing the Church today—from fallen leaders and disconnected marriages to the everyday challenge of offering correction wi…
- Navigating Disconnection in Family, Church, and Leadership
In this heartfelt and unfiltered episode from their stop in North Tonawanda, Danny and Brittney Serpell dive deep into some of the hardest relational dynamics—what to do when connection seems impossible. From family members who resist corr…
- Connection Before Correction: How to Guide Your Kids Without Losing Their Hearts
In this live episode from North Tonawanda, New York, Danny and Brittney Serpell respond to powerful audience questions about parenting, correction, and connection. From overcorrected kids and resistant teenagers to “I don’t know” shutdowns…
- Launching Kids with Love and Restoring Trust in Family
In the final stop of their Northwest tour at Risen King in Redding, California, Danny and Brittney unpack the emotional terrain of parenting adult and soon-to-be-adult children, navigating grandparenting, and repairing fractured relationsh…
- Narcissists, Responsibility, and Big Emotions
Live from Risen King Church in Redding, California, Danny and Brittney tackle some of the most asked-about topics in relationships and parenting—including how to deal with someone labeled a narcissist, how to raise responsible children, an…
- Humility, Anger, and Parenting Through Disconnection
Live from Empowered Life Church in Talent, Oregon, Danny and Brittney dive deep into three of the most challenging relational dynamics: humility in marriage, anger and emotional regulation, and the evolving role of parenting teens and adul…
- Hosting God at Home and Healing in Marriage
Live from Talent, Oregon (just outside Ashland), Danny and Brittney share insights on cultivating spiritual connection and growth in everyday family life. From hosting the presence of God with your kids in creative and playful ways to mana…
- The Five Words That Heal Disconnection
In this heartfelt live episode from a historic church in Springfield, Danny and Brittney reflect on their visit to Kairos Church and dive deep into one of the most crucial topics in relationships: repairing disconnection. With humor, authe…
- How Are You Experiencing Me?
In this special live episode from Springfield, Oregon, Danny and Brittney take audience questions that range from pursuing ministry after a life-changing injury to creating a culture of connection and growth in your home. From practical pa…
- Family Revival, Foster Parenting and the Fear of the Lord
In the final episode recorded live at Jesus Pursuit Church in Albany, Danny and Brittney tackle two powerful questions. First, they speak directly to foster parents navigating the challenges of building family culture when children come fr…
- How to Handle Controlling People and Mom Guilt with Confidence
In this live Q&A from the Albany tour stop, Danny and Brittney answer two deeply relatable questions: how to engage with controlling family members and how to overcome the crushing weight of mom guilt. With humor, honesty, and wisdom, they…
- Navigating Loss, Inheritance, and Joy in Difficult Seasons
Danny and Brittney tackle some of the most vulnerable and meaningful questions yet—from handling painful family inheritance situations to leading a business with integrity and learning to hold on to joy in the midst of grief. This episode…
- Confidence, Compatibility, and Choosing the Right Relationship
In this candid Q&A from the Bethesda tour stop, Danny and Brittney respond to questions on dating, identity, and how to build relationships that are both healthy and lasting. From practical wisdom on staying true to yourself in dating to t…
- Learning to Listen, Love, and Lead in Relationship
In this powerful continuation from Bethesda, Danny and Brittney tackle real-life questions from a live audience about conflict, connection, and covenant. Through raw and insightful stories—from car ride disconnection to navigating orphan m…
- Navigating Family Dynamics with Courage and Clarity
This week on The KYLO Show , Danny and Brittney take us to Vancouver, Washington, where they respond to powerful audience questions about family disconnection, political disagreements, and parenting through transition. Whether it's a daugh…
- Building Boundaries and Belonging
Whether you’re single, parenting adult children, or recovering from relational pain, this episode is packed with wisdom for staying powerful in the face of disconnection. Recorded live at Eden Church in Newcastle, Washington, Danny and Bri…
- When Feedback Fails: How to Stay Powerful with Defensive People
What do you do when your feedback is met with stonewalling, shutdowns, or accusations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney return with more live Q&A from their tour stop in Newcastle, Washington, tackling tough questions a…
- Live from New Castle: How to Stay Connected Even When Emotions Run High
When fear, anger, and disconnection enter a relationship, it’s easy to slip into control, self-protection, or power struggles. In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney answer live audience questions from the KYLO Show Tour and…
- Live from Coeur d’Alene Pt. 2: Connection vs Control in Parenting
We’re back with part two of The KYLO Show live from our tour stop in Coeur d’Alene, Idaho ! While Brittney was still down for the count with the flu (we missed her!), our good friend and Resolute Church pastor Katie Ann Browning returns to…
- Live from Coeur d'Alene: Protecting, Loving, and Growing in Marriage
We’re taking The KYLO Show on the road! This special episode is the first in our KYLO Show Live tour, recorded in front of a live audience in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho. While Brittney was unable to make the first stop due to illness, our incred…
- The Power of Feedback: How Truth Builds Stronger Relationships
Feedback—it’s one of the most powerful tools for personal and relational growth, yet it can also feel uncomfortable, intimidating, and even scary. In this episode of The KYLO Show , Danny and Brittney dive deep into the importance of feedb…
- Keeping the Flame Alive: How to Build a Lasting Marriage
What does it take to keep the flame alive in marriage? In this episode of The KYLO Show , Danny and Brittney dive into the key ingredients for maintaining connection, intimacy, and joy in your relationship. They explore the small habits th…
- Boundaries: Protecting What Matters Most
Boundaries are one of the most challenging, yet essential, tools in relationships. In this episode of The KYLO Show , Danny and Brittney explore the concept of boundaries and how they protect what is valuable in our lives. From setting bou…
- The KYLO Show is Back: A New Chapter Begins!
Episode Overview The KYLO Show is back! In this highly anticipated relaunch episode, Danny and Brittney Silk share the story behind their recent break, offering a candid look at the reflections, lessons, and renewed energy that have fueled…
- Navigating Power Struggles and Family Dynamics
In this episode of The KYLO Show, we dive into practical ways to handle power struggles with children and discuss the fine line between discipline and punishment. We answer a listener's question about managing expectations and responsibili…
- The Power of Testimony: Sharing Your Journey with Your Family
In this episode of The KYLO Show, we address a listener's concern about guiding her 11-year-old grandson who struggles with expressing empathy and connection. We dive into practical advice on how to instill respect and self-control in chil…
- Building a Strong Team Culture: Embracing Change and Maintaining Momentum
How do you keep a team connected and engaged, especially when new members bring different experiences and expectations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, we dive into the challenges of maintaining a powerful team culture. Drawing on real-l…
- Cultivating Faith and Self-Esteem in Pre-Teens
In this episode of The Kylo Show, we delve into the unique challenges of nurturing faith and self-esteem in pre-teens. Learn how to navigate the complexities of raising children in a mixed-belief household, foster genuine connections, and…
- The Power of Listening: Uncovering Emotions Behind Words and Learning to Ask Great Questions
Are you truly hearing what's being said in your conversations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney delve into the art of "listening beyond words," teaching you how to tune into the emotions and needs behind the words spoke…
- Overcoming Defensiveness and Rebuilding Communication in Challenging Relationships
Struggling to break through defensive barriers in your relationships? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney tackle real-life questions on improving communication with defensive partners and navigating emotionally challenging…
- Navigating Church Leadership Challenges and Parenting Determined Kids
Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer questions on navigating church leadership and parenting determined children. We are sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going…
- You Are Not A Victim You Are A Volunteer
Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer questions on being a victim or volunteer in your relationships and what is the goal God has in the waiting season. We are sponsored by Pro- Life…
- Our Top Tools For Raising Strong-Willed Children
Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer questions and give our top tools for parenting strong-willed children! We are sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www…
- Learning to Ask the Crucial Question: How Are You Experiencing Me?
Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer questions about church leadership, judgment, and learning why the question, "how are you experiencing me?" is so crucial for healthy relationship…
- Strategic Conversations: Crafting Your Confrontation Game Plan
Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer your questions and tackle an important topic: how to create a game plan for a confrontation conversation! This week's episode is sponsored by Pro…
- How To "Control Your Freakin' Self"
Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we are diving into questions about how to control your freakin' self! This week's episode is sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going t…
- Relationship Real Talk: Marriage Advice and Toddler Discipline
Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we are diving into questions about marriage and parenting! This week's episode is sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.proli…
- 3 Ways to Become a Better Communicator
Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! We all want to be better communicators. However, when you have been accustomed to communicating in a specific way, it can seem hard to change that pattern. Changing…
- Boundaries: Did Jesus Set Them?
Welcome to The KYLO Show! Today, Danny and Brittney talk about BOUNDARIES! Did Jesus set them? ---- Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode! Hosted…
- 5 Reasons Why Confrontation Makes Us Better and Our Relationships Stronger
Welcome to The KYLO Show! Today, Danny and Brittney talk about why leaning into hard conversations can make our relationships stronger. Get ready to hear the 5 reasons why and the answers to your relationship questions! ---- Do you like th…
- The Recipe for Creating Healthy Relationships
Welcome to a new season of The KYLO Show! Today, Danny and Brittney talk about the recipe we all need...... the 5 step recipe for creating healthy relationships! In this new season we will be taking live callers, so buckle up to hear the a…
- What Are You Going To Do?-- Answering Your Questions Live
Answering your questions LIVE! In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell answer the hard relationship questions. Some of the questions this week include how to deal with kids fighting, setting boundaries with a fami…
- Control Your Freakin' Self! -- Answers on Boundaries and Respecting Each Others Differences
Answering your questions LIVE! In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell answer the hard relationship questions. Some of the questions this week include boundaries, respecting other people's differences, how to empo…