The Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’Malley
Self-Improvement
About
The Enneagram Edge with Tracy O’Malley is where power meets personality. This is not your fluffy Enneagram talk—this is the real deal. Hosted by Enneagram expert, keynote speaker, and multi-million-dollar entrepreneur Tracy O’Malley, this show is your no-BS guide to using the Enneagram as a tool for transformation, leadership, and legacy. Whether you're a high-performing founder, purpose-driven leader, or just tired of repeating the same damn patterns—this podcast gives you the edge you’ve been missing. Each week, Tracy brings powerful solo episodes, real-life coaching insights, and deep-dive interviews that show you how to lead yourself, lead others, and lead like a legend. This is Enneagram with teeth. Let’s go.
Episodes
- EP448: Ultimatums vs. Challenges: The Truth That Changed Everything at 54
Host Tracy O'Malley reflects on her 54th birthday about the pattern of ultimatum energy, which involves demanding outcomes with dire consequences for failure. She contrasts this with challenge energy, explaining how to embrace power while…
- EP447: Staying Power: When Courage is Who The F You Are
This episode of The Enneagram Edge discusses what happens after taking a courageous leap, focusing on how courage becomes an identity through embodiment rather than just an event. It examines the stages of invitation, initiation, and integ…
- EP446: What Happens After You Go First: The Good, The Hard, & The Ugly
This episode discusses the often-unprepared-for period after making a courageous decision, detailing the silence, grief, and recalibration that follow. It covers how Enneagram patterns may surface, the distinction between courage and stayi…
- EP445: GO FIRST: The Power & Courage It Takes To Lead Without Permission
This episode of The Enneagram Edge explores the internal moment of realizing you are being asked to "go first" by telling the truth and moving without permission. It discusses the unsettling nature of this moment, how Enneagram types resis…
- EP444: Money, Power & the Codes We Inherited—And the Ones We’re Finally Breaking with Amber Lilyestrom (SO Enneagram 9)
In this episode, Amber Lilyestrom joins the host to discuss self-leadership, money, and subconscious patterns. Topics include how self-leadership can be a point of difficulty for high performers, the impact of subconscious money codes on i…
- EP443: The Discerning Fire Horse: Why This Isn't The Year to Just CHARGE
It’s mid-January and if you’re already exhausted, frustrated, or quietly wondering what the hell just happened—you’re not broken. This episode isn’t hype. It’s discernment. The year of the horse doesn’t care about your declarations; it car…
- EP442: Shedding Season: Necessary Endings and the Wisdom of the Snake
There’s a particular kind of exhaustion that doesn’t come from doing too much—it comes from holding on for too long. Not hustling. Not striving. Just gripping something you already know is complete. This episode closes out 2025 as “the yea…
- EP441: PIVOT! The Anatomy of the Holy FCK Moment + What to do When You are Inside of IT!
You made the brave call. You announced it. You felt the surge. And then—silence. Your soul said yes, but your nervous system is screaming abort. This episode is for the messy middle: the hour, day, or week after the pivot when the old life…
- EP440: 13 Years Sober - 13 Life Lessons Sobriety Taught Me About Leadership, Legacy, & Owning Who the F*ck You Are
Thirteen years ago, I woke up at rock bottom. I thought sobriety meant losing my fun, my freedom, my edge—but what it really gave me was everything I’d been craving: authenticity, alignment, and freedom. In this episode, I share the story…
- EP439: Is it a Fck Yes...Or Fear In Disguise. How to Discern the Difference Using The Enneagram
You’ve been circling a decision—you can feel it in your body. One moment you see yourself freer and bigger on the other side. The next, fear pulls the brake and whispers what if you blow up your life? You stall, wait for clarity, and call…
- EP438: Marketing Hangups by Enneagram Type - Why You're Stuck (And How to Break Thru)
You believe in your work with every cell in your body—until it’s time to market it. Then you freeze, overthink, stall, water it down, or avoid it altogether…and beat yourself up later. You’re not broken, bad at business, or missing the mag…
- EP437: From Lone Wolf to Soul Fam - Using the Enneagram to Find True Belonging
You can be surrounded by people—friends, colleagues, even family—and still feel completely alone. If you’ve ever worn the “lone wolf” badge like a crown, only to realize one day it’s really a cage, this episode is for you. I know this stor…
- EP436: How the Enneagram Can Give You a Million Dollar Business
You’ve chased the hacks, the funnels, the scripts, the formulas—and maybe they gave you a little traction. But not the kind of impact or income you know you’re capable of. Here’s the truth: strategy will only take you so far. Success doesn…
- EP435: When Good Enough is Gutting You: And How the Enneagram Can Fill You Back Up
We’ve all been there—you’ve built a life that looks good on paper. The job works, the bills are paid, the people around you love you. If someone asked, you’d say you’re fine. But deep down, you know better. Fine is the counterfeit. It mimi…
- EP434: The Edge of Forgiveness: How the Enneagram Unlocks What’s Holding You Back
Ever had someone hurt you so deeply it made you want to slam the door, burn the bridge, and never look back? I’ve been there — more than once. And for a long time, I thought strength meant holding the wall high and making damn sure they’d…
- EP433: You Can’t Automate Your Awakening: What AI Gets Wrong About the Enneagram—and What You Deserve Instead
In this powerful episode, Tracy O'Malley dives into a hot topic: the intersection of AI and the Enneagram. With the rise of AI tools like ChatGPT, many are turning to these platforms for quick answers about their Enneagram type and persona…
- EP432: Sales With an Edge: How the Enneagram Scaled My Empire (and Can Save Yours)
In this episode of The Enneagram Edge, Tracy O’Malley takes you behind the scenes of her journey from building a multi-eight-figure sales organization to becoming a master Enneagram strategist. If you’ve been feeling stuck in your business…
- EP431: The Edge of Integrity: How the Enneagram Calls You Out and Pulls You Back
In this powerful episode of The Enneagram Edge, Tracy O’Malley dives deep into the concept of integrity—not the polished, Instagram-worthy version, but the raw, unshakable alignment between your values, voice, and actions. If you’ve ever f…
- EP430: The Real Work of Conflict : 5 Masterful Ways the Enneagram Makes You a Leader Who Doesn't Flinch
Conflict isn’t the breakdown—it’s the access point to transformation. In this episode of The Enneagram Edge, Tracy O’Malley dismantles the myths around conflict and shows you how to leverage it as a tool for growth, leadership, and connect…
- EP429: You’re Halfway There: How Procrastination Is Keeping You From Your Finish Line Based on Your Enneagram Type
We’re halfway through the year, and it’s time to get real. Procrastination isn’t just a harmless habit—it’s a thief that robs you of your potential, peace, and progress. In this episode of The Enneagram Edge, Tracy O’Malley dives deep into…
- EP428: You have outgrown Enneagram 101 - Are you ready for Mastery??
In this episode of The Enneagram Edge, Tracy O’Malley cuts through the fluff and dives into what it really takes to move beyond basic Enneagram knowledge. If you’re tired of surface-level insights and ready to wield the Enneagram as a tool…
- EP427: 5 Unpopular Opinions About the Enneagram That Will Actually Move the Needle For You
In this episode of The Enneagram Edge, Tracy O’Malley dives into five bold, no-BS truths about the Enneagram that challenge the watered-down, trendy takes you’ve probably seen online. If you’ve ever felt stuck, misunderstood, or like you’r…
- EP426: How to take the EDGE off Without Losing Your F*cking Edge
We all have those little rituals, habits, or quick fixes we reach for when life feels overwhelming—a glass of wine, a hit of sugar, a scroll through social media. They seem harmless, even helpful, right? But here’s the truth: what helps yo…
- EP425: Resistance in Disguise You Justify It. The Enneagram Exposes It.
In this fiery and no-nonsense episode of The Enneagram Edge, Tracy O’Malley calls out the sneaky ways resistance shows up in our lives, shapeshifting into something we trust—intuition, strategy, even our Enneagram type. But here’s the trut…
- EP424: Built to Carry It - Reclaiming Your Edge Beneath the Armor
In this raw and vulnerable episode of The Enneagram Edge, Tracy O’Malley dives deep into a topic that many high achievers avoid—our relationship with our bodies. As leaders, parents, and visionaries, we often push through fatigue, ignore t…
- EP423: The CEO of You: Running Your Inner Boardroom with the Enneagram
You’re making high-level decisions every day—hiring, scaling, leading, launching. From the outside, it looks like you’ve got it all under control. But here’s the truth: if you haven’t examined who’s running the show inside of you, you’re n…
- EP422: You aren't STUCK. How to get your EDGE back using the Enneagram
You didn’t wake up one day and decide to play small, but somewhere along the way, you started shrinking—shrinking your truth, your voice, your edge. In this episode, I’m diving into what it really means to reclaim your edge, why you feel s…
- EP421: How to Get an EDGE Up On Your Parenting With The Tool of the Enneagram
Parenting is one of the most humbling, triggering, and rewarding experiences we’ll ever face—and it’s also where our own wiring, patterns, and blind spots show up the most. In this episode, I dive deep into how the Enneagram can transform…
- EP420: Where the Edge Is : Why the Enneagram is Your Greatest Power Move
Hey, hey! Welcome to the very first episode of The Enneagram Edge. If you’ve been riding with me for a while, you might’ve noticed the name change—and yeah, I cringed a little saying “rebrand,” but this shift was necessary. This isn’t just…
- EP419: From Armor to Alignment - The Legend's Journey to True Power
Alright, Legends—this one is raw, real, and straight from the trenches. I’m fresh off wrist reconstruction surgery, and let me tell you, this experience has been a masterclass in surrender, trust, and finding harmony between masculine and…
- EP418: Not Everyone Deserves Your Vulnerability - How Legends Lead with Precision
Welcome back, Legends! In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood yet CRUCIAL aspects of becoming a legend: the difference between transparency and vulnerability. Let’s be real—this isn’t just about sharing your story…
- EP417: Heroes Rise Once, Legends Rise Again and Again
Welcome back, Legends! After a transformative hiatus, I’m hitting record again—this time with a rebranded mission and a fire burning brighter than ever. This episode is all about stepping into your legendary self. We’re not here for fluffy…
- EP416: The ELITE don't wait in line. It's not what you may think...
In this episode, I dive deep into the concept of "The Elite Don't Wait in Line," a principle that applies both personally and professionally. Reflecting on my own experiences, including a six-month spiritual sabbatical, I discuss the impor…
- EP415: The Spiritual Sabbatical Glow-Up
Hello, everyone. It's been a long time since I last recorded an episode, and today, I want to have a real conversation with you. Over the past four and a half years, I've released over 400 episodes, and I deeply appreciate your support and…
- EP414: THRIVING as opposites in marriage and beyond with Kate and Aaron Howard (SP Enneagram 1 & SP Enneagram 7)
In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, we dive deep into the dynamics of relationships, particularly between individuals with contrasting Enneagram types. Our special guests, Kate and Aaron Howard, are a couple who embody the phrase "…
- EP413: You are on the right track baby, you were born this way. Being Legendary - in all your divine ways
In this solo episode of Lead with the Enneagram I dive into the significance of birthdays and self-celebration, particularly how my own upbringing shaped my reluctance to embrace such personal milestones. I recount the stories of my birth…
- EP412: From avoidant to alignment as an Enneagram 7 with Dr. Megan Daley (SP Enneagram 7)
In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, we dive deep into the practical applications of the Enneagram, particularly for those identifying as Type 7. Our special guest, Dr. Megan Daley, a self-preservation Enneagram 7 with a 748 tri-typ…
- EP411: Falling in love with vulnerability and patience with Kaitlin Anthony (SX Enneagram 8)
Our conversation today is particularly special as I chat with one of my favorite clients, Kaitlin Anthony, who is also an Enneagram 8. Kaitlin has the 837 tri-type, known as the mover and shaker, which embodies high achievement and asserti…
- EP410: Unleashing compassion and service, while honoring strong boundaries with Tonya Raybon (Social Enneagram 2)
Our special guest, Tonya Raybon, joins us to discuss her experience with the Enneagram. Tonya has worked extensively with me, participating in retreats, one-on-one sessions, and couple's workshops. She shares her insights as a social Ennea…
- EP409: How to embrace conflict when everything inside you wants harmony and freedom with Julie A (SX Enneagram 9)
In this special hotline episode of Lead with the Enneagram, we had the pleasure of speaking with Julie A, a one-on-one Enneagram 9 with a 935 tri-type, also known as the thinker. Julie shared her journey of self-discovery through the Ennea…
- EP408: Doing the next BRAVE thing - That is the real flex.
In this latest episode of "Lead with the Enneagram," I discuss the common trap of accumulating knowledge, attending events, and seeking more strategies without making real progress. I emphasize that while these activities are valuable, the…
- EP407: When self-awareness isn't enough - How to take the action that moves the damn needle
In this latest episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I open up about a recent self-awareness realization I had during a mastermind event involving a racetrack challenge. Despite my confidence and expertise in self-awareness, I noticed a patt…
- EP406: What the heck do you do when your core Enneagram Type isn't the right tool for the job???
In this latest episode of "Lead with the Enneagram," I'm thrilled to share the insights and experiences fresh from a soulful retreat with an elite entrepreneurial mastermind group. We dove deep into the transformative power of the Enneagra…
- EP405: Getting out of your own way and finding joy in the unknown journey with Kyle Jones (SP Enneagram 6)
Today on the podcast, I take you on a deep dive into the practical applications of the Enneagram, especially focusing on Type 6, the Loyal Skeptic. In this episode, we feature a special Enneagram hotline segment where I chat with Kyle Jone…
- EP404: Uncovering and Honoring the Free Spirit with Merilou DeLosSantos (SP Enneagram 7)
In this episode of "Lead with the Enneagram," we dive deep into the world of Enneagram Type 7s with our vibrant guest, Merilou DeLosSantos from New York. As your host, Tracy, I share my initial skepticism about the Enneagram and my journey…
- EP403: Revealing the Business Soul: Authenticity, Service, and Success with Jason Lew
This week, we took a deep dive into the heart of entrepreneurship and the importance of playing the long game. I had the pleasure of chatting with my dear friend and business consultant coach, Jason Lew, who brought a wealth of knowledge a…
- EP402: Are you allowing a moment of misery to rob you of all the miracles for your life?
In this episode of "Lead with the Enneagram," we're tackling the big question: What are you willing to lose to achieve what you want? It's about discerning true desires from shiny distractions and understanding the sacrifices necessary for…
- EP401: Beyond the Armor: Discovering Feminine Energy and Vulnerability as an Enneagram 8 with Talia A (SO Enneagram 8)
In this episode, I take you on a journey through the complexities and transformative power of the Enneagram, especially focusing on Type 8's path to vulnerability and strength. Today's episode is particularly special as we delve into the "…
- EP400: Show the F up to your life NOW
Welcome to episode 400!! Over the years, I've gone from being an Enneagram skeptic to integrating it deeply into my life and work. I've used it to build bulletproof leadership and sales teams, work with one-on-one clients, couples, and lea…
- EP399: Investing in People: The Enneagram's Role and Gift in your Teams and Organizations
In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, we dive into the transformative power of the Enneagram in team building, both in professional and personal spheres. As your host, Tracy, I share my journey from being an Enneagram skeptic to a pa…