The Challenger Podcast
Psychology & Relationships
About
The Challenger Podcast helps you show up authentically and navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps have become the way people connect and communicate. Each week, I interview dating experts and real life daters is to share what authentic dating can look like for you in these modern times. New episodes and live recordings every other week to find your ideal relationship through the Enneagram, attachment theory and core energy dynamics. Subscribe and leave a rating and review today so that you never miss an episode and connect with me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look at modern dating.
Episodes
- How to Navigate Change as an Enneagram 8
Dave Glaser shares his experience transitioning into a new role after an employment gap, offering insights for Enneagram 8s on managing change through awareness, connection, and intentional leadership.
- When Tragedy Strikes an Enneagram 8
Dave Glaser discusses job loss and its effects on an Enneagram 8, focusing on the illusions of control and armor. The episode highlights the necessity of vulnerability and self-awareness for resilience and growth during challenging times.
- Unlocking the Enneagram: 9 Sabotage Patterns to Transform Your Weight Loss Journey Part 3 of 3
This episode of The Challenger Podcast, featuring Dave Glaser, explores how Enneagram types 7, 8, and 9 engage in avoidance patterns related to movement, control, and comfort. It offers insights into their specific challenges and suggests…
- The Revolution will be Uncivilized with Traver Boehm
Traver Boehm discusses the importance of accountability, morality, and conscious masculinity with Dave, touching on societal issues like child trafficking and sexual misconduct. The conversation also explores power dynamics, the role of me…
- Unlocking the Enneagram: 9 Sabotage Patterns to Transform Your Weight Loss Journey Part 2 of 3
This episode of The Challenger Podcast, part 2 of 3, delves into how Enneagram types four, five, and six sabotage weight loss and personal growth. Host Dave Glaser discusses the significance of self-awareness, building trust, and implement…
- Unlocking the Enneagram: 9 Sabotage Patterns to Transform Your Weight Loss Journey Part 1 of 3
In this episode, Dave Glaser explores how the nine Enneagram types unconsciously sabotage their weight loss journeys. He provides practical insights into each type's core fears, sabotaging patterns, and personalized strategies for healthie…
- What Happens When You Finally Align Your Personality With Your Health Goals
In this episode of the Challenger Podcast, Dave Glaser explores the intersection of fitness, nutrition, and self-awareness through the lens of the Enneagram. He discusses how aligning these elements can lead to significant physical and men…
- Unlocking Weight Loss Through Self-Awareness
In this episode, Dave Glaser discusses the crucial role of self-awareness in achieving weight loss goals, emphasizing that the real challenge lies not in knowing what to do, but in understanding the underlying patterns that hinder progress…
- What Crucial Habits Work Best for Each Enneagram Type
In this episode of the Challenger podcast, Dave Glaser discusses the importance of habits in achieving fitness and nutrition goals, particularly through the lens of the Enneagram personality types. He emphasizes that lasting change comes f…
- The Limiting Beliefs Holding Back Each Enneagram Type
In this episode, Dave Glaser delves into the concept of limiting beliefs that hinder personal growth, particularly in fitness and nutrition. He explores how different Enneagram types have unique narratives that affect their ability to achi…
- The Best Nutrition Plan for Each Enneagram Type (So Weight Loss Actually Sticks)
In this episode, Dave Glaser explores the intersection of nutrition and the Enneagram personality types, providing tailored dietary strategies for each type. He emphasizes that successful weight loss is not solely about willpower but about…
- The Best Fitness Routine for Each Enneagram Type (So You Actually Stick With It)
In this episode of the Challenger Podcast, host Dave Glaser dives into the intersection of fitness and personality by exploring how different Enneagram types can find the best workout routines tailored to their unique motivations and chara…
- The Good, The Bad and The Ugly of a Type 7 in Relationships
In this episode, Dave Glaser explores the complexities of Enneagram Type Seven, known as the Enthusiast. He discusses their vibrant energy, optimism, and the challenges they face in relationships, including their fear of commitment and ten…
- The Good, The Bad & The Ugly of a Type 6 in Relationship
In this episode, Dave Glaser explores the Enneagram type 6, highlighting their loyalty, courage, and commitment in relationships. He discusses the challenges they face, particularly when operating from fear and anxiety, and how these can s…
- The Good, The Bad & The Ugly of a Type 5 in Relationship
In this episode of the Challenger Podcast, host Dave Glaser explores the complexities of Enneagram Type 5, known as the Investigator. He discusses their strengths, challenges, and how they navigate relationships. The conversation delves in…
- Leaning Into Grief for The Enneagram 4 with Devon Niesen
In this conversation, Devon Neisen joins Dave and explores the complexities of the Enneagram Four personality type, focusing on themes of perceived brokenness and the quest for self-worth through uniqueness. The discussion delves into how…
- The Good, The Bad & The Ugly of The Enneagram 3 in Relationship
In this episode of the Challenger Podcast, host Dave Glaser explores the Enneagram Type Three, known as the Achiever. He discusses the strengths and challenges of Type Threes in relationships, emphasizing their motivation, charm, and goal-…
- The Good, the Bad & the Ugly of the Type 2 in Relationship
In this episode of the Challenger podcast, we will explore the complexities of Enneagram Type 2, known as the Helper. We discuss the positive traits of Type 2s, such as their warmth, generosity, and ability to empathize with others. Howeve…
- The Good, The Bad & The Ugly of a Type 1 in Relationship
In this episode of The Challenger Podcast , Dave dives deep into the Enneagram Type 1 — also known as The Reformer or The Perfectionist . We explore how Type 1s show up in life and especially in relationships through the lens of the good,…
- The Good, The Bad & The Ugly of a Type 9 in Relationship
The Enneagram 9, often called The Peacemaker , is known for their calm, grounded, and accepting nature. But what does this really look like in a relationship — when it's healthy, when it's struggling, and when it turns downright messy? In…
- The Good, The Bad & The Ugly of a Type 8 in Relationship
This episode explores how the Enneagram 8 shows up in relationships; the good, the bad and the ugly with real life examples from remodeling a bathroom to fostering a dog... all in the same week! As a follow up to last week's episode, host…
- Why Putting Yourself First Makes You a Better Dad as an Enneagram 8
As an Enneagram 8 father, you're wired for strength, protection, and relentless loyalty to your family. But what happens when that loyalty causes you to neglect your own needs? In this episode, we explore the powerful—but often invisible—p…
- Parenting Through a Different Lens: How Type 8s can so up for each of the enneagram types
As an Enneagram 8 father, your strength and protectiveness are incredible gifts—but not every child experiences that big energy the same way. In this episode of The Protective Leader , we explore how children of all nine Enneagram types pe…
- Helping Your Children Flourish as a Type 8 Parent
This episode explores parenting and nuturing your child's indivuality through the powerful lens of the Enneagram Type 8—often known as "The Challenger." Known for strength, assertiveness, and protectiveness, Type 8s are dominant parents, t…
- Living with Strength, Vulnerability & Trust as the Type 8 Father
This episode explores how Enneagram 8 fathers can build deeper emotional connections by developing trust, tenderness, and emotional fluency—without feeling like they're giving up strength. It's a vulnerable dive into what happens when the…
- Power, Presence & Fatherhood: A Type 8's Path to Self-Leadership
This episode explores fatherhood and leadership through the powerful lens of the Enneagram Type 8—often seen as "The Challenger." Known for strength, assertiveness, and protectiveness, Type 8s are natural leaders. But how does this persona…
- How to Use the Enneagram as a Type 9- The Peacemaker
In today's episode, I will walk you through how to use the Ennegram as a tool to show up more authentically at work, with family and in relationships. Have you heard of The Enneagram? Today, I will guide you through how to learn about your…
- How to use the Enneagram for The Peacemaker, type 9
In today's video, I will walk you through how to use the Ennegram as a tool to show up more authentically at work, with family and in relationships. Have you heard of The Enneagram? Today, I will guide you through how to learn about yourse…
- Hinge Prompts for the Enneagram 5 plus Politics in Dating
Do politics and dating go together? Some would say avoid talking about politics at all costs on a first date. Others may try to convince you that discovering that about your date as early as possible saves you time and heartbreak. What are…
- Living a Sober Life with Kyle Weiger
Kyle Weiger, hand balancing coach and good friend, joins me on the podcast today to talk about the home buying process, moving, job changes, sobriety and the Presidential Debates. If his message resonates with you today, please connect wit…
- The Best Hinge Prompts for the Enneagram Type 4; The Individualist
How do you set your intentions before you begin online dating? My top seven recommendations are available on today's episode of the podcast. We dig deep in this episode and how you would choose Hinge prompts if you're an Enneagram type 4,…
- The Best Hinge Prompts for Enneagram 3s: The Achiever
How do you spot red flags on a dating app? The top six answers are discussed on today's episode of the podcast. More topics in this episode are Hinge prompts for the Enneagram type 3, The Achiever. Are you a 3 or dating an Achiever? These…
- The Best Hinge Prompts for Enneagram 2s: The Helper
How to tell if someone is scamming you or are a bot on a dating app? The quick answer is to ask them to spell "potato". The real answer is much more complex and I am here to share five signs of a scammer on a dating app! I have also discov…
- The Best Hinge Prompts for an Enneagram Type 1
The Reformer or Moral Protagonist, type 1, on the Enneagram is likely not the most creative or vulnerable person on your dating app. What are the likely prompts you'd see on Hinge for the Type 1, Reformer? In today's mini episode, I share…
- Choosing Hinge Prompts for the Enneagram Type 9
What are the best responses to popular Hinge prompts for the Peacemaker? In today's mini episode, I share some of the prompts that an Enneagram type 9 would choose to show their authentic self. Plus the answers they may come up with to hav…
- Picking Hinge Prompts for the Enneagram Type 8
Having a hard time picking prompts to use on the dating app Hinge? In today's mini episode, I share some of the prompts that an Enneagram type 8 would choose to show their authentic self. Plus the answers they may come up with to have fun…
- Match.com Class Action Lawsuit
In this episode, we delve into the intricate details of the Match.com class action lawsuit, exploring the implications and repercussions of the legal battle on modern dating. Join me as we uncover the impact on users and the broader implic…
- 3 Reasons You're Getting Friendzoned
The top three reasons you may be getting FRIENDZONED are: Agreeableness, availability, and accessibility can potentially decrease attraction in dating due to various reasons: 1. Agreeableness: While being agreeable is generally seen as pos…
- Can You Be Attached to Money with Jordan Pendleton
Can we be too attached to our money? On this week's episode of the podcast, Jordan Pendleton joins me as guest host where she interviews me on how our attachment styles show up to influence our relationship with money. I truly enjoyed this…
- 10 Signs Your Date has an Avoidant Attachment Style
On this week's episode, I lay out ten things to look out for on a first date that can tell you that your date has an avoidant attachment style. In tune last week's episode, I'd like to encourage everyone to be mindful in how they approach…
- If He Wanted To, He Would with Samantha Graham
On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Samantha Graham, cohost of Where's Our Participation Trophy podcast, to talk about modern dating from the lens of attachment theory. The title of this podcast comes from viral videos an…
- 10 Signs Your Date has an Anxious Attachment Style
On this week's episode, I walk you through 10 signs that your date or partner may have an anxious attachment style. Attachment theory research has been evolving since the last 60s and I discovered its impact in my life about five years ago…
- Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable People with Talia Bombola
On this week's episode of the podcast, Talia Bombola joins me for a follow up conversation to share with you why you may be attracted to and attracting emotionally unavailable people. Previously on the podcast, Talia and I dug in to attach…
- Should a Woman Ask Out a Man?
This week, we have a quick hitting, solo episode where I dig into this popular quesiton from one of our audience members from a recent Tiktok Live. Should a woman ask out a man on a date? Listen in on this six minute episode and reach out…
- Dating After Divorce with An Anxious Attachment Style with Becky Bradley
On this week's episode of the podcast, we continue on with our series on first dates with a real life dater Becky Bradley. I am so impressed with her bravery to come speak with me on the podcast about dating after divorce with an anxious a…
- How to Define Your Relationship with Dave Glaser
How do you define the relationship? This week's episode is a live conversation originally recorded on Tiktok with our community contributing questions as we dig into the definition of a relationship agreement vs defining the relationship w…
- Why The "Nice Guy" is Not So Nice with Traver Boehm
What is "Nice Guy" Syndrome?I've seen the Nice Guy show up in my past and have experienced a lot of growth in the past few years when facing those tendencies and integrating that part back into my psyche. On this week's episode, Traver joi…
- Are We Dating the Same Guy with Britt Leilani
Recored live on Tiktok, I am joined this week by real life dater, Britt Leilani from Boise, Idaho. Britt and I discuss a growing phenomenon in modern dating; Facebook groups connecting people over whether or not they are dating the same pe…
- Where Do Men Go Wrong with GS Youngblood
I'm celebrating 250 episodes with a replay of one of the most popular epidoses! On this week's episode of the podcast, we welcome back GS Youngblood to the program to talk all things embodiment and how men show up in relationship. GS is th…
- Dating Red Flags with Dave Glaser
What red flags do you see showing up within yourself and others? Do any of the red flags discussed in this live video resonate with you? Grab a pen and paper because in this live recording from Tiktok, I talk really fast and deep about Red…