Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST
Psychology & Relationships
About
TAGSPODCAST aka Talk About Gay Sex is a Queer podcast offering advice on sex and relationships plus delivers the latest LGBTQ hot topics on health, politics and entertainment to keep you updated. Shows are dropped bi-weekly on Tuesdays and Thursdays. Created and Hosted by Stevie V featuring Co-hosts Kodi Maurice Doggette, Jeremy Ross Lopez, Lincoln, Teddy Alexis and Amir Yass. Interested in sponsoring or advertising on this podcast? Visit show website: tagspodcast.com
Episodes
- The Sex and Relationships that Changed Us EP 761
The hosts of Talk About Gay Sex explore how personal experiences influence their views on sex and relationships, discussing topics like chemistry, compatibility, BDSM, and differing philosophies on activism versus self-preservation. They a…
- F*ck Buddies vs Friends With Benefits… and What Happens When It Evolves? EP 760
The hosts of Talk About Gay Sex explore the dynamics of f*ck buddies versus friends with benefits, discussing how these relationships can evolve. They share personal anecdotes, address listener questions on topics like disclosing sexual ac…
- Gay Smut Club Photographer Micahel Furfari Ep 759
Michael Furfari, associated with Gay Smut Club and Gay Smut Studio, explains his photographic interests, including polaroids and model choices. He also touches on gay men's dissatisfaction with dating apps and shares a personal dating anec…
- Loneliness Is Killing Us: Porn, AI and The Fight for Real Connection EP 758
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex explores loneliness in the digital age, questioning if AI and chatbots offer genuine connection or merely numb deeper needs. It also touches upon the closure of the Archer app, actor Sydney James Harcourt
- Sex Tourism, Desire and The Truth About Why We Travel EP 757
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST, titled "Sex Tourism, Desire and The Truth About Why We Travel EP 757," delves into various facets of sex tourism and sexual experiences during travel. Topics include the definition and ethics…
- Vacation Energy vs Real Life… and What We’re Not Saying EP 756
In episode 756 of Talk About Gay Sex, hosts explore the difference between their public personas and their private selves, particularly during vacations. They share personal stories and discuss current events including Madonna's presence o…
- I Feel So Free: Reinvention, Desire & Vacation Energy EP 755
The episode explores a study suggesting gay men feel more attractive on vacation, linking this to themes of reinvention and shedding identity, similar to Madonna's "I Feel So Free." Hosts discuss vacation hookups versus real-life dating an…
- We Thought It Was Safe… EP 754
In episode 754 of Talk About Gay Sex, hosts analyze a recent raid on a Dallas sex space, questioning the definition and safety of such venues for gay men and comparing current experiences to those of past generations. The episode also cove…
- Hot, Healing… and a Little Messy EP 753
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex explores different categories of sex, including Validation, Escape, Connection, and Chaos Sex. It also touches on dating during personal healing journeys and addresses current events and listener question…
- Work in Progress: Love, Mental Health and Sex EP 752
The hosts of Talk About Gay Sex explore the complexities of love, sex, and connection when not feeling mentally or emotionally okay, contrasting this with the gay cultural expectation of constant confidence and performance. They also touch…
- Evolving Desire: The Sex We Actually Want Now EP 751
In EP 751 of Talk About Gay Sex, hosts discuss the evolution of their sexual desires, comparing past preferences with current ones and what has improved with age. The episode also touches on a music video preview, a discussion about toxic…
- This Is Me Now: Reinvention, Aging and Feeling Sexy Again EP 750
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex, EP 750, titled "This Is Me Now: Reinvention, Aging and Feeling Sexy Again," features hosts discussing the romanticization of past selves, youth obsession within gay culture, and the connection between se…
- Spring Cleaning Our Sex Lives & Relationships EP 748
In episode 748 of Talk About Gay Sex, hosts explore themes of sexual "spring cleaning," discussing habits and activities they are moving away from or looking forward to trying. Topics include personal experiences with celibacy, the role of…
- The Daddy Divide: Power, Desire and Age Dynamics in Gay Dating EP 747
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex delves into the concept of being a "daddy" in gay dating, covering personal experiences, the fantasy versus reality of the role, and the associated power dynamics. It also touches on various pop culture a…
- Age, Attraction & The Reality Check - Does Age Matter? EP 746
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex tackles the complexities of age and attraction, exploring whether age matters in relationships and sexual preferences. Hosts discuss their own experiences with age gaps and debate topics like dating witho…
- Open Relationship Expert and Host of 'Getting Close' Aidan Wharton EP 745
Host Aidan Wharton discusses the challenges of finding true friendships and shares his experiences with nudes, including having his stolen. He also talks about his newsletter "Gay Buffet," open relationships, and the importance of in-perso…
- Gay Men, Aging & The Beauty Trap EP 744
The hosts of Talk About Gay Sex discuss looksmaxxing, a practice of maximizing physical attractiveness, and explore its relevance to gay men. They examine the role of dating apps, changing tastes with age, and sexual wellness trends within…
- From Hookups to Partnership: How Do Gay Men Build Lasting Love? EP 743
Talk About Gay Sex EP 743 discusses how gay men build lasting relationships, exploring topics like emotional connection, non-monogamy, and relationship alignment. The hosts also cover personal stories, viewer hot topics including a study o…
- The Truth About Gay Dating in 2026 EP 742
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex explores whether current dating advice aligns with how gay men actually date and have sex, touching on themes of authenticity, emotional intelligence, AIDS Survivor Syndrome, and the history and current s…
- Mama Tits talks Prostate Cancer Journey plus the State of PV! EP 741
Mama Tits returns to discuss their stage 4 prostate cancer journey, including diagnosis and treatment, and shares a message for those with prostates. The episode also covers the current state of Puerto Vallarta and Mama Tits' new show, "Si…
- Too Much of a Good Thing? Sex, Scarcity, and Emotional Intimacy EP 740
The hosts of Talk About Gay Sex explore how app culture might influence perceptions of sex and relationships, questioning if abundance leads to emotional disposability and discussing the challenges of finding lasting connections.
- Turn On the Faucet? Is Sex Really That Easy for Gay Men? EP 739
This episode discusses the influencer claim that sex is easily obtainable for gay men, questioning if this is universally true and exploring the potential disconnect between sexual accessibility and finding love. It also touches on factors…
- Puerto Vallarta, Paradise & Reality — Queer Travel, Community, and Resilience EP 738
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex focuses on Puerto Vallarta as a queer travel destination, highlighting its vibrant LGBTQ+ culture and the sense of community it offers. The hosts discuss personal experiences, listener questions about tra…
- Why Love Is Hard — And Why Dating Is Harder EP 737
Marking one year of marriage, hosts discuss relationship longevity and evolution. They explore modern dating difficulties like ghosting and compatibility, and cover several "hot topics" including a documentary, celebrity rumors, political…
- From Darkroom Lust to Dawn Romance: Gay Love After the Grind EP 736
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex explores how gay relationships can originate from physical encounters and develop into deep emotional connections. Hosts share personal stories and discuss the film Paris: 5:59 as a parallel to gay dating…
- Cold Nights, Hot Bodies: Gay Love in February EP 735
The podcast episode "Cold Nights, Hot Bodies: Gay Love in February" discusses winter intimacy, Valentine's Day pressures, and several current events relevant to the LGBTQ+ community, including political actions, legal issues, and personal…
- Leather Daddies, Queer Kink Culture, and New Movie 'Pillion' EP 734
This episode explores the movie
- Redefining Sexy as We Age - Outgrowing Old Versions of Ourselves EP 733
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex (EP 733) redefines sexy as individuals age, questioning past turn-ons and exploring current healthy desire, presence, and sex not tied to validation. The hosts also discuss listener advice on relationship…
- When Your Sexual Identity Evolves EP 732
In Episode 732 of Talk About Gay Sex, hosts explore how sexual identity can evolve with age, discussing internalized messages about aging as a gay man and changing views on sexiness. They also touch on hot topics including the Grammys and…
- Reformat and Reboot: Resetting Our Sex & Relationship Patterns as Gay and; Queer Men
The hosts explore common patterns gay men are taught regarding sex and relationships, such as seeking validation and confusing chaos with chemistry. They discuss their personal journeys of rebooting these sexual and relational patterns.
- Bigorexia, GLP-1s and; The Gay Gaze: When Perfect Isn’t Enough EP 730
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex discusses bigorexia, where some gay men are obsessed with being bigger, drawing parallels to anorexia. It examines the pressures of the "gay gaze," which often idealizes a muscular physique, and how this…
- Back in the Locker Room: Queer Sexual Culture, History, and Our Meetups EP 729
This episode discusses queer sexual culture and history, focusing on locker-room encounters and the significance of communal spaces for queer desire. It explores the difference between meaningful connection and physical encounters, and the…
- Dating Isn’t the Problem — Your Nervous System Is EP 728
The episode discusses how early-life conditioning affects gay dating, making intimacy feel threatening. Hosts share personal dating experiences and touch on various hot topics.
- Aging Gay: What Actually Matters Now (Health, Sex, Connection and Confidence EP 727
This episode of TAGSPODCAST focuses on aging within the LGBTQ+ community, exploring the shift from youth-centric culture to self-assurance, and discussing changes in sexuality, health, and connection.
- Hot, Heavy and Heated: Why Rivalry Love Turns Us On (and When It Messes With Us EP 726
The podcast discusses therapist Brian Spitulnik's concept of "Heated Rivalry" in gay relationships, examining how emulation of these dynamics can be unhealthy. Hosts share experiences with past relationships and differentiate between inten…
- Gay Sex and Love in 2026: Predictions, Desires and What We’re Leaving Behind EP 725
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex features hosts discussing their sex and relationship goals for the new year, with predictions for 2026 focusing on deeper connections, app fatigue, AI, meeting in public, and sexual health. They also cove…
- Office Party Part 2! Year in Review of the Hottest Topics EP 724
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- The Desire Audit: What Turned Us On in 2025… and What We’re Leaving Behind in 2026 EP 722
TAGSPODCAST episode 722, "The Desire Audit," reviews the hosts' sex and relationship experiences in 2025, including surprising turn-ons and patterns to retire for 2026. They also discuss "looksmaxxing," a couple's "meet cute," and offer ad…
- TAGS Office Party Part 1 - What Made Our Headlines in Sex and Hot Topics EP 721
In "TAGS Office Party Part 1," hosts review their favorite sex moments from early 2025 and discuss significant news like the erasure of HIV mentions on the White House website, CDC information changes, Austin Wolf's sentencing, Pornhub's y…
- Connection After the Cum: Why Gay Men Stay, Ghost, or Pull Away After Sex EP 720
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST explores gay men's behaviors after sex, intimacy in casual relationships, and relevant community news, including HIV phobia and recent events.
- Naughty But Needy: Gay Sex, Connection & Holiday Reflection EP 719
In episode 719, "Naughty But Needy," hosts reflect on their best sexual moments of the year, exploring the link between sex and connection, holiday loneliness, and tantra. They also cover current hot topics and offer dating advice.
- Post-Nut Clarity — Is It Real? Why It Happens for some EP 718
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST explores post-nut clarity (PNC), examining its reality, causes, and effects. Hosts share personal stories and discuss how PNC manifests differently in various sexual encounters, offering insig…
- Memory, Sex, Survival & Connection: A TAGS Conversation for World AIDS Day EP 717
TAGS podcast episode 717 focuses on World AIDS Day, reflecting on the impact of AIDS on personal experiences with sex, desire, and coming out. The hosts discuss the ongoing stigma surrounding HIV, U=U, and the current landscape including P…
- Chemistry vs. Compatibility: Which One Really Matters? EP 716
In episode 716 of Talk About Gay Sex, hosts Steve V and Jeremy explore whether chemistry or compatibility is more important in queer dating, sharing personal anecdotes and discussing the potential confusion between sexual magnetism and rel…
- Confident Dating: How to Show Up as the Real You EP 715
The episode covers authentic self-presentation in dating, exploring confidence as reality and comfort, not perfection. It addresses dating fears, the impact of rejection, and behaviors that attract suitable partners, alongside listener que…
- Connection Is the New Sexy: Dating With Intention in a World of Distraction EP 714!
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex discusses the importance of meaningful connection in queer dating, how dating patterns evolve with age, and the role of intention in sexual encounters. It also touches on redefining love and partnership o…
- Reclaiming Sacred Slut Energy EP 713
This episode of Talk About Gay Sex explores the historical use of the term "slut" within the gay community, its connection to sexual freedom, and the impact of HIV, PrEP, and Doxypep on contemporary sexual attitudes and practices. It also…
- The Gay Marriage Paradox: Love, Freedom, and the Modern Union EP 712
Host Stevie V shares wedding insights and co-hosts discuss the Supreme Court denying Kim Davis
- Sex and the (Other) City: L.A. vs N.Y. Gay Vibes EP 711
This episode compares the gay dating scenes in Los Angeles and New York City, contrasting their unique characteristics and dating cultures. It also covers current events including studies on cheating, bathroom access debates, and celebrity…
- Look at Me vs Feel Me: Exhibitionism Meets Tantric Connection EP 710
This episode explores exhibitionism, its connection to psychological needs like validation and control, and Tantric techniques for sexual experiences. Hosts share personal stories and discuss related topics like same-sex marriage and body…