EP. 179 Most Downloaded Episode of 2023 – Reclaim Your Marriage: Grace for Wives Who Have Been Hurt by Pornography W/Author's Jenny and Curtis Solomon
In this episode of 'Speak the Truth,' Shauna and Mike welcome Curtis and Jenny Solomon to discuss their new books, 'Redeem Your Marriage' and 'Reclaim Your Marriage.' The Solomons explore how their books address the impact of pornography on marriages, offering support for both the offending and hurt parties. They delve into the process of writing their books, sharing personal insights and struggles, and emphasize the importance of lament and genuine repentance. The discussion also covers practical advice for biblical counselors and pastors on how to use the books as resources for couples and even touches on parenting strategies to protect children from the influences of pornography. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:25 Book Review Series Launch 00:48 Meet the Guests: Curtis and Jenny Solomon 01:09 Curtis Solomon's Background and Roles 02:11 Introducing Jenny Solomon 03:13 Discussing the Books: Redeem Your Marriage and Reclaim Your Marriage 04:17 Challenges and Joys of Writing 09:01 The Importance of Lament in Healing 11:06 Addressing Misconceptions: Don't Blame Yourself for His Sin 15:58 The Role of the Spouse as an Ally 19:34 Creating a Safe Home Environment 20:15 Parenting Tips for Navigating Digital Dangers 22:55 Engaging in Open Conversations with Children 24:16 The Importance of Both Parents in Sex Education 25:48 Teaching Modesty and Privacy to Children 27:24 Healthy Cross-Gender Relationships 31:08 Using the Book in Counseling and Church Settings 38:12 Writing the Book: Inspirations and Challenges 40:16 Final Thoughts and Future Plans Episode Mentions Curtis's Book for Husbands Jenny's Book for Wives Lament References: Dark Clouds Deep Mercy God's Healing for Life's Lessons Counseling & Consulting Solomon Soul Care Training & Equipping Southern Seminary - Biblical Counseling Concentration Degree