Single Ladies In Your Area
Psychology & Relationships
About
Comedians Amy Gledhill and Harriet Kemsley are recently single and in their 30s ...UH OH! They’re trying to navigate the dating scene - but the landscape has changed. How do you flirt? What’s the best dating app? Do love spells work? They’ll speak to experts and friends, talk about dates they’ve been on and share your dating horror stories to try figure it all out, and to feel less alone. Hosted by Amy Gledhill (Edinburgh Comedy Award Best Show 2024, Would I Lie to You?, Nevermind the Buzzcocks, Sex Education) and Harriet Kemsley (Live at the Apollo, 8 Out of 10...
Episodes
- Catching cheaters, filthy ouija boards and runaway dates with Ghost Huns
On this episode of Single Ladies In Your Area, Ghost Huns discuss how to identify cheaters, ghost stories, and dating. The hosts also share updates on their upcoming tours.
- Solo parenting by choice with Mel Johnson
This episode of Single Ladies In Your Area features Mel Johnson, who discusses solo parenting by choice. She shares insights on building a network, the accessibility of the solo parenting journey, and efforts to fight stigma.
- Amy and Harriet CATCH UP
Amy and Harriet catch up on their recent dating experiences, including crushes and unsent text messages. They also provide information about their upcoming tours.
- Dream dates and weirdest one night stands with Lou Sanders (Live at Underbelly Boulevard Soho)
This live episode of Single Ladies In Your Area features guest Lou Sanders discussing dream dates and one-night stands. The hosts and audience also share their thoughts on dating apps. Lou Sanders' memoir and Harriet Kemsley's tour are als…
- Chasing aloofness, splitting the bill and true bromance with Paddy Young
Paddy Young joins the podcast to discuss topics such as aloofness, splitting the bill, and bromance. The episode also includes information about Paddy Young's and Harriet Kemsley's upcoming shows and tours.
- Faking it ’til you make it and leaning into The Cringe with Sharon Wanjohi
This episode features comedian Sharon Wanjohi discussing the concepts of faking it until you make it and embracing cringe. The conversation also touches on authenticity and hypothetical scenarios.
- Serial monogamy, flirting and being more boss with Catherine Bohart
Comedian Catherine Bohart joins the podcast to discuss topics including flirting as a lesbian, serial monogamy, and the historical figure of King Henry VIII. The hosts also share updates regarding their respective upcoming comedy tours.
- The value of maintaining friendships, challenging the manosphere and living for your old-lady self with Jameela Jamil
In the premiere of the new series of Single Ladies In Your Area, Jameela Jamil joins hosts Amy and Harriet. They discuss the importance of friendships in relationships, the influences of the manosphere on young men, and dating preferences.
- Series 3 Trailer - Single Ladies In Your Area
The third series of the podcast Single Ladies In Your Area will premiere on Friday, 20 March 2026. The trailer details how listeners can access bonus content and contact the hosts.
- Listener Letter: “They had a kink/fetish that I had never heard of before"
In this full Patreon episode, Harriet and Amy discuss a listener's letter about dealing with an unfamiliar kink, leading to a conversation on body image and self-esteem. They also share details regarding an upcoming live show on February 1…
- Listener Letter "The loneliness that comes with solo travelling”
In this episode of Single Ladies In Your Area, hosts Amy and Harriet discuss the pros and cons of solo traveling in response to a listener letter. This episode is freely released from the show's Patreon content while the hosts are on a bre…
- Listener Letter "How do I avoid inadvertently coming across as creepy or weird?"
This episode features a listener letter from a man asking for advice on how to approach people without appearing creepy or weird. The hosts share this Patreon episode for free while the podcast is on a short break.
- Christmas Special: Refusing to settle and not putting yourself on THAT timeline with Helen Bauer
In this Christmas Special, Helen Bauer joins hosts Amy and Harriet to discuss the challenges of settling down in one's thirties and navigating single life. The episode also promotes Helen's show "Bless Her" and Harriet's upcoming tour.
- Festival hook-ups, tent sex and literal clowns with Alana Jackson (Live at Latitude Festival)
Comedian Alana Jackson joins Single Ladies In Your Area for a live episode recorded at Latitude Festival 2025. The discussion touches on topics such as festival hook-ups and tent sex.
- Meeting people IRL, paying on dates and being a one-night stand baby with Thor Stenhaug
In the series finale of Single Ladies In Your Area, comedian Thor Stenhaug discusses how to approach people in real life and dating etiquette. He is currently touring his show "One Night Stand Baby" across the UK.
- Botox, wanking, and British vs. American crushes with Amy Annette
Comedian Amy Annette discusses face-tuning, American versus British dating approaches, and the nuances of wing-womaning on Single Ladies In Your Area. Amy Annette's show 'Busy Body' is touring the UK.
- Lily Allen’s album and Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?
Amy and Harriet discuss Lily Allen’s album ‘West End Girl’ and review the article ‘Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?’ by Chanté Joseph. Harriet is preparing for her 2026 tour.
- The WORST excuse to get out of a date and finding things hot when you shouldn’t (Live at the London Podcast Festival 2025)
Recorded live at the London Podcast Festival 2025, Harriet and Amy discuss the worst excuses for getting out of dates and share audience-submitted dating horror stories. This special live edition features spicy content not included in the…
- Saying no to your type, man whispering and leaning into the unhinged with Urooj Ashfaq
Single Ladies is joined by comedian Urooj Ashfaq to discuss dating, including how to avoid your usual type and interpret flirting. Urooj Ashfaq is performing in the UK in November.
- The three types of compatibility and listener ghost(ing) stories with Bella Hull
Comedian Bella Hull discusses the different types of compatibility, how to avoid attracting shallow people, and shares listener ghosting stories with hosts Harriet and Amy.
- Funny women, learned confidence and the scam of casual sex with Elouise Eftos
Elouise Eftos discusses how to learn confidence and whether casual sex is a scam on the Single Ladies In Your Area podcast with hosts Amy and Harriet.
- Sexual Health 101: STIs, contraception, smear tests and more with Doctor Amber
In this episode, Harriet and Amy host Doctor Amber for a sexual health discussion covering STI testing, contraception options, and the use of femidoms. They also touch upon smear tests.
- Cheating.
Amy and Harriet discuss the complexities of cheating in relationships, exploring how to rebuild trust and whether lying should be illegal. They invite listeners to share their own dating experiences.
- The Madonna/whore complex, sex parties and being 70% lover but 30% f*cker
Single Ladies In Your Area, joined by comedian Kemah Bob, explores dating app experiences, personal growth during singlehood, and navigating sex parties. They discuss whether self-representation on apps is effective and the safety consider…
- Friendship break ups
Amy and Harriet explore the challenges of friendship breakups, discussing how to maintain connections amidst adult life and the possibility of reconnecting after years apart.
- Going to a singles event...
Harriet and Amy share their experiences at a London singles event, questioning the effectiveness of group settings for finding love and discussing common issues like male-to-female ratios and unwanted advances.
- Fertility and egg freezing, post-natal issues and perimenopause with Consultant Obstetrician Jess McMicking
Consultant Obstetrician Jess McMicking joins Harriet and Amy to discuss fertility, egg freezing, postnatal issues, and perimenopause. The episode addresses questions about improving fertility and the role of supplements.
- Favourite things about being single
Amy and Harriet share their favorite aspects of being single, such as prioritizing self-care, enjoying complete autonomy, and the freedom to make spontaneous decisions.
- Catholic guilt, 00s women's magazines and being the main character with Alison Spittle
Alison Spittle joins Single Ladies In Your Area to discuss how to become the main character in your life, the lasting effects of 2000s women's magazine messaging, and humorous anecdotes.
- Dating in the workplace
Amy and Harriet discuss the advantages and disadvantages of workplace relationships. They consider the implications of dating colleagues or supervisors.
- Reframing your dating goals and knowing anything could happen with Rosie Jones
Comedian Rosie Jones joins hosts Amy and Harriet to discuss reframing dating goals, the challenges of trauma dumping in relationships, and perspectives on monogamy. The episode also highlights Rosie's sitcom 'Pushers,' her live tour, and t…
- Trying to feel less hopeless when the world is f*cked
This bonus episode of Single Ladies In Your Area features a candid conversation about current global events and the resulting feelings of hopelessness. It acknowledges the difficulty of not feeling overwhelmed and reassures listeners they…
- Patreon Sneak Peek: Listener Letter "Holiday romances don't work once you've left the beach”
A Patreon sneak peek episode of Single Ladies In Your Area delves into holiday romances, featuring listener experiences and a story from guest Olga Koch. The hosts, Harriet and Amy, discuss warnings about these temporary relationships.
- Holiday Romances
Amy and Harriet discuss holiday romances, exploring the ease of dating abroad and how to replicate that energy at home. They also question if moving to Australia is the ultimate solution.
- Open marriage, unicorns, and having rizz with Jordan Gray
In this episode, Amy and Harriet are joined by Jordan Gray to discuss open marriage, the definition of a 'unicorn', and the concept of a 'sex-having-community'. Jordan Gray's new sitcom 'Transaction' is available on ITV and ITV X.
- Worst things you’ve seen on the dating apps, and telling us your icks (Live at the Bill Murray)
Recorded live at The Bill Murray, Harriet and Amy discuss listeners' worst dating app experiences and 'icks'. The episode aims to create a sense of shared experience among single women navigating the dating world.
- Pre-date video calls, Muslim dating apps, and not putting up with nonsense with Fatiha El-Ghorri
This episode features comedian Fatiha El-Ghorri discussing pre-date video calls, Muslim dating apps, and not tolerating nonsense. El-Ghorri's debut novel, 'The Perks of My Hijab,' is forthcoming.
- Single Ladies Doing Therapy
Amy and Harriet share their personal therapy journeys, discussing how to find a therapist, expectations for improvement, and creative ways to navigate difficult conversations in therapy.
- Baby voice, the 90/10 rule and knowing what you want with Ania Magliano
Amy and Harriet are joined by comedian Ania Magliano to discuss relationship topics including the acceptable amount of arguing, uncertainty about desires, and potentially embarrassing relationship behaviors.
- MAN-ifesting the perfect man
Harriet and Amy explore the concept of manifesting ideal partners and discuss dating dealbreakers, including differing political views and the importance of caring for the NHS.
- Learning how to say no and building self-esteem with Stephen Bailey
In this episode of Single Ladies In Your Area, hosts Amy and Harriet are joined by comedian Stephen Bailey. They discuss building self-esteem, finding single men, and related dating topics.
- Series 2 Trailer - Single Ladies In Your Area
The trailer for series two of Single Ladies In Your Area announces the show's return on Friday 9 May 2025. Listeners can find bonus content and support the podcast via Patreon or isitham.org.
- Happy Valentine's Day!
In the series finale on Valentine's Day, hosts Amy and Harriet recount their worst Valentine's Day experiences. Amy also shares positive dating news, looking forward to the next series.
- Non-monogamy, communication and post-vibe checks with Jack Barry
Comedian Jack Barry joins the Single Ladies podcast to discuss non-monogamy, open communication, and sensing a vibe with someone. The episode touches on whether open marriages can bring couples closer and the best ways to communicate about…
- Embracing change and trying to be alone with Sophie Willan
In this episode, hosts Harriet and Amy are joined by Sophie Willan to discuss embracing change, the challenges of being alone, and experiences with first dates. Sophie Willan's upcoming podcast, The Art of Being Alone, is also mentioned.
- Tarot Reading with Jennifer Cownie
This episode features a tarot reading with Jennifer Cownie to guide dating in 2025, exploring concepts like Pentacles and card meanings. Contact Jennifer via litwitchure.com or Instagram @cownifer.
- Red, Green (and Beige) Flags
Harriet and Amy examine different dating flags: red, green, and beige. The episode questions the utility of beige flags and explores how to recognize green and red flags in relationships.
- Pubes, periods and bumping into your ex with Chloe Petts
Comedian Chloe Petts joins Harriet and Amy to discuss pubic grooming, managing unexpected periods, and navigating encounters with ex-partners. Chloe Petts is touring her show 'How You See Me How You Don't' in London and across the UK.
- Boundaries with Michelle Elman (aka The Queen of Boundaries)
Harriet and Amy discuss the definition of boundaries, how to establish them, and how to avoid infringing on others' boundaries with guest Michelle Elman, also known as The Queen of Boundaries.
- Patreon Sneak Peak: Listener Story
Amy and Harriet read a listener's dating horror story as a Christmas gift sneak peek of the Single Ladies In Your Area Patreon content. More stories and benefits are available on their Patreon page.