She and I
Psychology & Relationships
About
She & I is a podcast brought to you by husband and wife tandem, Barrett (B~Love) and India Newsome. We open up the doors to our relationship to give you all a glimpse of how we have managed to keep our relationship healthy over the years. By no means is our relationship perfect, but we work through whatever issues we have to come out on the other side. Enjoy listening to She & I!
Episodes
- We Are Back - Episode 330
After taking about four months off, B~Love and his co-host Syd return to the mic to reconnect with the audience and pick up right where they left off. In this comeback episode, the duo catches listeners up on where they’ve been, what life’…
- Stop Liking Instragram Pics
B~Love and Syd kick things off with their usual weekend recap, including their first impressions of Cardi B’s new album. From there, the fellas dive into relationship dynamics that hit close to home. They debate whether showing support on…
- A Tongue Lashing
In this week’s episode, B~Love and Syd dive into what real support looks like in relationships—and how it feels when the people closest to us don’t show up the way we expect. From reposts on social media to showing love out loud, they brea…
- Don't Go Messing Anybody Else's Happiness Up
This week, B~Love and Syd dive into the real dynamics of marriage—where joy meets seriousness, routines clash with spontaneity, and “rules” only apply when they’re convenient. From early-morning cleaning stand-offs to the gray area of hous…
- Birthday Rules: What’s Expected vs. What’s Real
It’s a birthday celebration on the podcast this week, and Syd joins B~Love to get real about everything from birthday etiquette to work travel drama. They kick things off with Birthday + Relationship Vibes, diving into the contentious topi…
- Relationships are Partnerships
B~Love and Syd are back with another wild and relatable episode of the She & I Podcast. This week, B~Love kicks things off with the Parent Crash Out Basketball Game story — yes, a real-life sideline showdown. Then it’s JD’s flag football m…
- Family Vacations to Concerts - Jeezy to Backstreet, We Are Back!
Syd is back in the studio with B~Love, and they're ready to share all the details of where they've been! Tune in as they recount their recent adventures, from memorable family vacations that brought them closer to the electric energy of un…
- Wives Should Date Their Husbands
India Marie is back this week, and the "Date-a-Thon" continues with B~Love! They kick things off by reminiscing about their favorite dates so far, sharing what made those moments truly special. This leads into a lively discussion: How many…
- Father's Day Gifting That Hits Different
This week, B~Love and Syd are back with a packed episode! They kick things off with a Jacob Latimore album review, giving their unfiltered thoughts on his latest work. Syd then provides a candid update on Cam's vasectomy, offering a glimps…
- Just ‘K’? The Text That Starts Fights & Ends Friendships
Syd is back again with B~Love this week, and they kick things off by tackling a universally relatable query: Is "K" the most triggering text message you can receive? They dive into the nuances of short replies and the myriad of emotions a…
- Shannon Should Have Watched Sinners
This week, Syd returns to the podcast with B~Love to delve into a discussion inspired by the movie "Sinners." Their conversation begins by exploring the complexities of controlling temptation, examining the internal and external factors th…
- Which Friends Messed Up the Group Chat
Syd joins B~Love this week, and they launch into a discussion about the value of preparation in their lives, exploring how they each approach planning and organization. This leads to a candid moment where an "off-mic conversation" comes in…
- We Need a New Mattress
India Marie is back, and she and B~Love jump right into a fun recap of their weekend adventures! They share laughs and stories about their time out and about. Then, they get real about how their individual entrepreneurial journeys have sha…
- Postpartum Loneliness
B~Love welcomes back Syd, who shares an honest and vulnerable account of her life with two children after the birth of her son, Weston. Syd opens up about her feelings of anxiety and loneliness, emphasizing the crucial role of a supportive…
- Seven Years of Different Parenting Styles
B~Love and India Marie are back with a dose of relatable relationship realness! They start by recapping their recent date night, sparking a conversation about the importance of consistent date nights and the ever-present question: "When ar…
- Should Your Wife Make Your Doctors Appointments
B~Love and India Marie tackle the everyday challenges of relationships in this episode! They delve into the debate of who should schedule doctor's appointments - is it a shared responsibility or should one person take the lead? Next, they…
- Funny Married Couple's VALENTINE'S Day Gift Swap!
B~Love and India Marie are back with a special Valentine's Day episode! They dive deep into their expectations for this romantic holiday, sharing stories about past Valentine's Day gifts and discussing what truly makes a Valentine's Day sp…
- Love and Respect Marriage Conference
B~Love and India Marie are back, and they're kicking off the episode with a hilarious story about why they missed last week's show: the dreaded Norovirus! They share their comical (and slightly horrifying) experiences battling the stomach…
- What Is A Luteal Phase?
B~Love and India Marie kick off the new year with a bang! In this episode, they catch listeners up on their exciting holiday season. From celebrating their daughter's birthday to planning a grand 70th birthday celebration for B~Love's moth…
- Don't Let the Holidays Ruin Your Marriage
She & I is back with another heartwarming episode! In this episode, India Marie shares exciting news: a special discount code for She & I listeners to enjoy 30% off their 10-Class Pass at Work It Pilates when they use code SHEANDI. B~Love…
- India Marie is Back to Discuss the Vacation to Aruba
She & I is back! In this episode, India Marie returns and shares the reasons behind her hiatus. She opens up about her experiences and how she used the time to recharge and grow. B~Love and India Marie then celebrate their 10-year annivers…
- Consequences of Having Public Disputes on Social Media
B~Love and Syd are back with another engaging episode, this week they dive into the heart of gratitude and the complexities of relationships in this episode. They discuss the things they are thankful for beyond the usual suspects, the vira…
- Baby Shower Happy Hour ft. Syd
B~Love and Syd are back with another engaging episode, this time recapping Syd's epic baby shower, dubbed "The Baby Shower Happy Hour." They delve into the details of the event, from the stunning decorations to the heartwarming moments. Ne…
- Leveling Up Love: A 10-Year Ring Upgrade ft. Syd
B~Love and Syd are back with another engaging episode filled with laughter, love, and real-life advice. This week, they dive into the exciting world of ring upgrades, sharing their experiences and tips for navigating this special moment. N…
- In-Laws Not Doing Enough ft. Syd
Join B~Love and Syd for another engaging episode filled with laughter, real talk, and relatable advice. They kick things off by discussing the expectations of in-laws and whether they should be expected to check in when you're feeling down…
- I'm Tired of Arguing With My Wife ft. Syd
Join B~Love and Syd for another engaging episode filled with laughter, real talk, and relatable advice. They kick things off by discussing their recent fall break experiences and the challenges of planning a maternity shoot. Next, they del…
- Men Want to be Desired ft. Syd
Join B~Love and Syd for another engaging episode filled with laughter, real talk, and relatable advice. They kick things off by discussing a recent wedding they attended and sharing their thoughts on the Chris Brown documentary airing on I…
- How to Handle Seeing Your Ex in Public ft. Syd
Join B~Love and Syd, as they dive into a mix of hilarious and thought-provoking topics. This episode is packed with relatable experiences, from navigating awkward encounters with your partner's past to discussing the unrealistic expectatio…
- Do You Use Baby Oil During Love ft. Syd
B~Love and Syd are back with another engaging episode filled with laughter, real talk, and relatable advice. They kick things off by sharing hilarious stories about accidentally including the wrong person in a story and the idea of swappin…
- Put Some Clothes On ft. Syd
B~Love and Syd are back with another engaging episode filled with laughs, real talk, and relatable advice. They kick things off by sharing their experiences with therapy, discussing the importance of seeking help and the challenges of find…
- Libido is Low ft. Syd
B~Love and Syd are back with another insightful episode discussing the ups and downs of relationships. In this episode, they'll tackle a range of topics, from the challenges of attending disappointing events to the importance of open commu…
- It Was Bigger Than Yours
B~Love and Syd are back with another sizzling episode! They kick things off with a lighthearted discussion about the hottest sexy pajamas for men. Get ready for some laughs and maybe a few fashion tips. Next, B~Love shares a hilarious stor…
- Talking to a Defensive Spouse ft. Syd
B~Love and Syd dive deep into the complexities of relationships in this week's episode. They explore the delicate topic of ultimatums, discussing when they might be necessary and the potential consequences of using them. They also delve in…
- Is Flirting Considered Cheating?
In this week's episode of the She & I Podcast, B~Love is joined once again by Syd, filling in for India Marie. Together, they dive into a variety of thought-provoking relationship topics. Ever received a birthday gift that didn’t meet your…
- Do You Keep It Real With Friends ft. Syd
B~Love and Syd dive deep into the complexities of friendship in this episode. From navigating tough conversations to dealing with inherited drama, they share their experiences and offer advice on how to maintain strong bonds. They also get…
- We Opened a Pilates Studio
B~Love and India Marie are back together and ready to spill the tea! In this exciting episode, India shares some big news: she's opening her own Pilates studio in Nashville, TN! Get ready to hear all about the process, the excitement, and…
- Clean House, Happy Home: Fair Division of Labor
B~Love and Syd kick off the episode with a huge congratulations to India Marie on the grand opening of her new Pilates studio in Nashville! Next, they dive into the complexities of modern friendship. How does seeing friends out on social m…
- Disney Family Vacation Review ft. Syd
B~Love and Syd are back in the studio, kicking things off with a lighthearted debate – can you truly find love while blasting Drake? Syd seems to think not, but tune in to hear B~Love's counterarguments (and maybe a few epic love ballads t…
- Boundless Boundaries in Our Marriage ft. Syd
B~Love and everyone's favorite co-host, Syd, are back to celebrate the anniversary of their epic couples trip to see Usher (because who doesn't love a little nostalgia?). But the fun doesn't stop there! They delve into the world of couples…
- The Big Reveal - It's a Boy ft. Syd
Big news alert! Syd finally spills the beans and announces she's pregnant with a bouncing baby boy! Get ready for a wave of baby bliss as Syd gushes over her excitement and what she's looking forward to most about motherhood. But wait, the…
- Is Social Media RUINING Your Relationship? (Liking Pics) ft. Syd
B~Love and everyone's favorite guest host, Syd the Kid, are back in the house! This week, they rewind to the weekend with a concert recap - did Dru Hill still have it? Get ready for some major nostalgia and maybe a few questionable dance m…
- Should Teachers Be Allowed to Have an OnlyFans ft. Syd
B~Love and special guest host Syd are back with a sizzling hot episode! They kick things off by reliving their Memorial Day Weekend adventures, with B~Love spilling the tea on a pool party gone wild (sort of). Next, they dive into the worl…
- Domestic Violence is Never Okay ft. Syd
B~Love welcomes special guest host Syd as they kick off summer with all the vibes! They dish on their hottest contenders for the Song of the Summer and spill the tea on their Memorial Day Weekend plans. Will Cam (Syd's husband) be flying s…
- My Husband Wants to Breastfeed ft. Syd
B~Love holds down the fort with special guest host Syd as they dish on their Mother's Day experiences! Syd shares how her hubby got her a Mother's Day spa treatment and the fun they had with the fam in Chattanooga. While B~Love recaps his…
- WHERE IS INDIA? Mother's Day Gift ft. Syd
This week, B~Love is joined by his good friend Syd as they fill you in on what they've been up to lately. B~Love admits he needs to work on his communication skills, and they share some laughs (and maybe a tear or two) discussing Mother's…
- We Need Some Space - Are We Breaking Up?
This week on She & I, B~Love and India Marie are grooving to the rhythm of love! First, they spill the tea on their favorite wedding songs (spoiler alert: it's not all slow ballads). B~Love, a seasoned wedding DJ, also drops tips on how to…
- Should You Stay In An Unhappy Marriage FOR THE KIDS?
This week on She & I, B~Love and India Marie are back with stories from their Spring Break vacation to Gatlinburg with the kids! They dish on the differences between pre-child Gatlinburg getaways and navigating the town as a family. India…
- Ungrateful Lady Says $30 Is NOT Enough Lunch Money
This week on She & I, B~Love and India Marie are feeling the post-birthday party grind! They dive into the hilarious chaos of planning their son's sixth birthday extravaganza and share some relatable (and lifesaving) advice on why taking t…
- Making Love Twice in Two Years is Wild
B~Love and India Marie are back, and it's getting spicy! This episode tackles love, life, and everything in between. First up, they take a nostalgic turn, dissecting Trey Songz's iconic "Say Ahh." Is it a turn-up classic or a relic of the…
- Remove Pics of Your Ex from Social Media
Welcome back to the She & I Podcast. This week, B~Love and India Marie kick things off by discussing the importance of scents. B~Love talks about signature smells, and India Marie talks about not wearing too much. India Marie talks about h…