Parenting The Adlerian Way
Kids & Family
About
Join internationally acclaimed parenting expert Alyson Schafer every Monday as she answers your parenting questions. Without judgement and backed with easily understandable theory and research, she’ll offer up actionable solutions you can implement immediately. Alyson puts the “sense" back into "common sense parenting" with her warm, inspiring and informed Adlerian approach. Alyson is the author of three best selling parenting books with HarperCollinsCanada including; “Breaking The Good Mom Myth” “Honey, I Wrecked The Kids” and Ain't Misbehavin’” and the go-to expert for national media outlets.Send Alyson your parenting question to alyson@alysonschafer.com with #AskAlyson in the subject line or to @alysonschafer on any of her social media platforms. Questions will be answered anonymously. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more
Episodes
- 220: Your Child Is Not Their Weight - Parenting in a Size Obsessed World
The podcast episode features a discussion with authors Dr. Joey Skelton and Dara Garner-Edwards about their book, "Your Child Is Not Their Weight: Parenting in a Size-Obsessed World." The conversation focuses on an Adlerian approach that p…
- 219: Understanding and Supporting Youth Mental Health
Dr. Will Dobud’s book “Kids These Days” examines the current emphasis on youth mental health, suggesting it leads to increased labeling and medication without improving outcomes. Dobud proposes co-adventure therapy and other egalitarian ap…
- 218: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
In this episode of Parenting The Adlerian Way, host Alyson Schafer addresses listener questions about encouraging a child to go back to camp, a teenager's birthday gift spending, a 3-year-old's interactions at daycare, and starting family…
- 217: Calming Teenage Anxiety – What’s A Parent To Do?
Sophia Galano joins Parenting the Adlerian Way to discuss her book on calming teenage anxiety. The episode unpacks the Gen Z anxiety effect, offering parents guidance on supporting teens while avoiding enabling behaviors, and encouraging s…
- 216: Teen Dating and Relationship Violence
This episode features research experts from the University of Calgary discussing teen dating and relationship violence. They cover the definition of relationship violence, the importance of parents as a protective factor, and a texting-bas…
- 215: The Family Meeting Kit – How To Make Family Meetings Fun And Effective
Parent educators Marjie Longshore and Paige Trevor discuss the Family Meeting Kit, created by Marjie to help parents conduct regular, effective family meetings. They explore the benefits of the kit and its supporting online community.
- 214: “Good Grandpa – Stories from The Heart of Grandfatherhood”, with Ted Page
Ted Page shares insights on grandfatherhood gathered from interviews with diverse grandfathers for his book, "Good Grandpa – Stories from The Heart of Grandfatherhood." He distilled their wisdom on what children and adults can learn from t…
- 213: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
In this Q&A episode, Alyson Schafer addresses listener questions about parenting. Topics include a teenage son withdrawing emotionally, co-parenting strategies for divorced parents, and methods for helping a toddler give up a pacifier.
- 212: Canadian Music Icon Natalie MacMaster On Her New Book, “I Have A Love Story”
Natalie MacMaster, a celebrated Canadian musician, shares her experiences balancing a successful career with raising seven children. The episode touches on her journey and managing family life alongside her demanding profession, referencin…
- 211: Tech Guru Amber Mac Discusses What Parents Should Know About AI
Tech expert Amber Mac explains Artificial Intelligence, its background applications, and how corporations utilize children for algorithm testing. She also shares guidance for parents on encouraging offline activities and supporting governm…
- 210: “Living Well With Perfectionism” by Adlerian Authors Caroline Faifman and Lindsay Turner
In episode 210 of Parenting The Adlerian Way, host Alyson Schafer talks with Adlerian counsellors Caroline Faifman and Lindsay Turner about their book on perfectionism. They cover its definition, origins, signs, and impacts.
- 209: Kids and AI with Educational Tech Expert, Leslie Tyler
Educational Tech Expert Leslie Tyler discusses the challenges of children using AI, covering risk mitigation, benefits, AI companionships, homework, and online safety strategies. The episode provides tools and resources for parents.
- 208: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
In this Q&A episode of Parenting The Adlerian Way, host Alyson Schafer addresses listener questions covering a 6-year-old son's aggression, a boy's refusal to poop during potty training, teaching an ethnic language in a trilingual home, an…
- 207: The Importance Of Showing Our Children That Work Is Joyful
In this episode, Bree Groff, author of "Today Was Fun: A Book About Work (Seriously)", talks with the host about how parents can model a positive attitude toward work for their children. She highlights the significant impact parental attit…
- 206: How The Icelandic Art of Intuition Known As Innsaei Can Transform Your Parenting
Hrund Gunnsteinsdóttir shares insights on the Icelandic art of intuition, Innsaei, and its application to parenting. The discussion covers intuitive listening, modeling emotional openness, creating space for stillness, fostering creative f…
- 205: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Parenting The Adlerian Way episode 205 features a Q&A session addressing listener questions. Topics include whether to charge rent to an 18-year-old apprentice, handling a 15-year-old's truancy, and managing head-banging outbursts in a tod…
- 204: Raising Generous Kids Through Charitable Giving
This episode features John Bromley discussing how to raise generous children through charitable giving, including the use of a charitable allowance. The conversation covers modeling generosity, providing feedback, and nurturing empathy for…
- 203: Help For Those Who Have Trouble Making and Enforcing Boundaries!
This episode features Jennifer Febel, author of “How to Set Boundaries (without feeling like a d*ck)”, discussing the definition of boundaries, common obstacles to setting them, and strategies for enforcement. Febel also touches on self-di…
- 202: “10 Rules for Raising Kids in a High-Tech World” With Dr Jean Twenge
Dr. Jean Twenge shares research and practical steps from her book "10 Rules for Raising Kids in a High-Tech World," addressing parental challenges with technology and offering solutions for families.
- 201: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
In episode 201 of Parenting The Adlerian Way, host Alyson Schafer addresses listener questions on managing twin bickering, a teen athlete's eating and hydration schedule, and a child's differing behavior between home and daycare.
- 200: Celebrating My 200th Episode With Canadian Comedian Jessica Holmes and Her Fearless Journey To Overcoming Depression and Becoming A Mental Health Advocate!
In episode 200 of Parenting The Adlerian Way, host Alyson Schafer speaks with Canadian comedian Jessica Holmes about her experience with depression and her subsequent work as a mental health advocate. Holmes discusses coping mechanisms and…
- 199: “The Baby Bonding Book: Connecting With Your Newborn” With Dr Joanna Parga-Belinkie
In this episode of Parenting The Adlerian Way, host Alyson Schafer and Dr. Joanna Parga-Belinkie discuss how new parents can establish a deep emotional bond with their newborns, covering topics like maternal mental health, father bonding,…
- 198: Giving New Grads and Young Adults The Support They Need To Launch and Thrive
Hillary Spiritos joins Parenting The Adlerian Way to discuss the transition new graduates face and her coaching methods for helping young adults make authentic life choices, distinguishing them from societal pressures.
- 197: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
In this Q&A episode of Parenting The Adlerian Way, host Alyson Schafer addresses common parenting challenges. Topics include a first grader's reluctance to attend school or complete homework, ensuring proper nutrition for children with die…
- 196: Supporting Parents Raising Children With Autism
In episode 196, Jonathan Alderson discusses autism, its changing definition, and rising occurrence rates. He highlights the importance of individualized treatment plans and early intervention, noting the long waitlists for services and the…
- 195: “Parental Control: A Guide To Raising Balanced Kids In The Digital Era” – A Conversation With Digital Parenting Expert, Titania Jordan
Digital parenting expert Titania Jordan shares insights from her book on online child safety, discussing the value of parental tech knowledge, the benefits of delaying tech use, and avoiding the "Not My Kid" mindset.
- 194: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
In episode 194 of Parenting The Adlerian Way, host Alyson Schafer addresses listener questions regarding a 2-year-old's emotional outbursts, a 7-year-old's prolonged bedtime routine, challenging sibling behavior in a 7-year-old, and foster…
- 193: Advice and Best Practices from Pediatric Dentist Dr Shonna Masse (especially for those anxious kiddos)
In this episode, pediatric dentist Dr. Shonna Masse shares insights from her 27 years of practice, explaining the difference between pediatric and family dentistry and offering advice on children's first dental appointments, handling resis…
- 192: The Family Systems Approach to Working with Children Who Have Behaviour Concerns
This episode features former pediatric occupational therapist Lisa Chan, who discusses the family systems approach to addressing behavior concerns in children. Chan shares insights gained from her experience working with children, highligh…
- 191: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
In episode 191 of Parenting The Adlerian Way, host Alyson Schafer addresses listener questions about managing a child's candy consumption, an adult child focused on gaming after moving home, and a daughter's desire for a pet despite percei…
- 190: What Parents Need to Know About Eating Disorders
Kyla Fox, an eating disorder specialist, survivor, and advocate, shares insights on eating disorders, drawing from her own experience with disordered eating as a teen. The discussion covers gaps in treatment and recovery, offering informat…
- 189: The Seven Principles for Raising a Self-Driven Child
Ned Johnson returns to Parenting The Adlerian Way to discuss his new workbook, "The Seven Principles for Raising Self-Driven Children." The episode highlights the importance of perceived control in mitigating youth mental health issues lik…
- 188: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Parenting coach Alyson Schafer addresses listener questions covering a 12-year-old's walk home, a 17-year-old's unsupervised vacation, a 13-year-old's social challenges, and safety concerns for a small 8-year-old in hockey.
- 187: How To Be A Happier Parent
In this episode of Parenting The Adlerian Way, host interviews KJ Dell’Antonia, former editor of the New York Times parenting section, to discuss Dell’Antonia's book, “How To Be a Happier Parent.” They cover research and practical wisdom a…
- 186: The Importance of Trauma-Informed Care for Kids With Neurodiversity
Nick Moon discusses his childhood autism diagnosis, educational challenges, and the support he received from a teacher and counselor. He now works as a counselor, sharing his insights on living with neurodiversity. The episode also mention…
- 185: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
This episode addresses parental concerns including a 12-year-old
- 184: The Important Evolutionary Assets That Fathers Bring to Raising Their Children
This episode features psychologist James Rilling discussing the science behind paternal potential. Topics include the evolutionary role of fathers, hormonal changes in fatherhood, and the benefits of father caregiving and rough play for em…
- 183: An Adlerian Model of Child Development
Rocky Garrison explains the Adlerian Individual Psychology model of human development, detailing the formation of fictional final goals and beliefs about self, others, and the world. He emphasizes that courage to face life's challenges con…
- 182: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
This episode of Parenting The Adlerian Way features a Q&A with Alyson Schafer, addressing parental concerns about a teen boy's excessive tech use, a daughter's resistance to orthodontic treatment, and methods for fostering pro-social power…
- 181: Understanding The High-Functioning Alcoholic (Parent)
Parenting coach Alyson Schafer speaks with Sarah Allen Benton, a psychologist and parent in recovery, about alcoholism
- 180: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
In this Q&A episode of Parenting The Adlerian Way, Alyson Schafer addresses listener questions on managing a teenager's anger, balancing authority and connection as a less dominant parent, fostering peace between siblings, and supporting a…
- 179: What a Triple Board-Certified Sleep Medicine Physician Wants Parents to Know about Sleep
In episode 179 of Parenting The Adlerian Way, Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown, a triple board-certified sleep medicine physician, shares insights on the importance of sleep for families and addresses typical sleep challenges parents encounter.
- 178: Neurodiversity–Affirming Psychotherapy: Clinical Pathways to Autistic Mental Health
This episode features a discussion with Ruth Strunz about her new book on neurodiversity-affirming psychotherapy. Topics include clinical pathways to autistic mental health, fostering calm, reducing dysregulation and masking, building ther…
- 177: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
In episode 177 of Parenting The Adlerian Way, host Alyson Schafer addresses several listener questions. Topics include a 12-year-old's reluctance to report on friends, a 9-year-old's avoidance of challenging activities, a child's reading h…
- 176: Support For Families When A Parent Gets A Cancer Diagnosis, With Nankind Founder Audrey Guth
Audrey Guth, founder of Nankind, joins Parenting The Adlerian Way to discuss supporting families impacted by a parent's cancer diagnosis. The episode covers communication with children about cancer and dying, and outlines the services Nank…
- 175: Lessons On Life And Business From The Original Mompreneur, Julie Cole
In episode 175, Julie Cole, mother of six and co-founder of Mabel's Labels, shares insights on balancing career and family. The discussion covers parallel skills and life hacks for achieving success in both areas.
- 174: The Importance of Getting Our Children Into Nature
This episode features co-authors of "Digging Into Nature," Dr. Glassy and Dr. Tandon, discussing research on the benefits of nature for children. They cover what nature can look like for urban dwellers and how to overcome barriers to outdo…
- 173: The Importance Of Children’s Eye Health. A Fascinating Conversation With The Folks From CNIB!
VP Suzanne Decary-van den Broek and Family Guide Sharon Kanhai-Johnston from the CNIB discuss the importance of children
- 172: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
In episode 172 of Parenting The Adlerian Way, host Alyson Schafer answers listener questions about school placement, managing children's post-school behavior, and the importance of punctuality.
- 171: “The Collapse of Parenting” – How We Hurt Children When We Treat Them Like Grownups
Dr. Leonard Sax, author of "The Collapse of Parenting," shares his concerns about the negative effects of gentle, permissive parenting on children, supported by his observations as a physician.