Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami
Psychology & Relationships
About
Where the sexual and spiritual come together. Sex and relationship coach and vaginal weight lifter Kim Anami gives you the sex education and orgasms you never had. www.kimanami.com
Episodes
- Love Bomb Me
In this episode of Orgasmic Enlightenment, Kim Anami explores "nonchalance" as a seduction strategy, contrasting it with love bombing and discussing indifference in dating.
- Narcissists: Everyone's Love to Hate
This episode discusses narcissism, questioning the narrative that it is always the narcissist's fault. It explores the concept of narcissists as individuals who haven't healed their trauma and are unwilling to do so. The discussion shifts…
- F*ck Yes or F*ck Off!
In this episode of Orgasmic Enlightenment, Kim Anami advocates for a "fuck yes!" commitment in relationships, contrasting it with stagnation. The discussion covers transforming stagnant relationships, achieving advanced orgasms for both pa…
- From Divorce Court to 4-Hour Sex Dates
This episode features a couple discussing their transition from a marriage with intimacy only a few times a year to frequent, fulfilling sexual encounters. They share insights gained from a Tantric retreat and focus on healing, surrender,…
- Talking Heads: When Genitals Speak, We Listen
Carla and Pracarsh join Kim Anami on Orgasmic Enlightenment to discuss their relationships with each other’s genitals, viewing them as oracles that reveal inner truths. They explore how genitals change with love and openness, the importanc…
- Squirting Saved Our Marriage
One of my absolute most favourite concepts in ALL of my work is the idea of: Fuck them until you change them. Our sex acts have the power to transform us. But only when they hit a certain level of Anami gourmet-style sex. The big barometri…
- Bring Back Manly Men
A few weeks ago I put up an Instagram post comparing the male models of the 90s to male models in 2025. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DU_J5P8EVHN/?igsh=dDU0Y2xjbW1qNmY1 It went mega-viral. Putting them side-by-side made the differences SO…
- Orifice Selection: A Guide for Men
Hell hath no fury like a woman underf**ked. When you have an underf**ked woman on your hands, you’ll know it. Because she’ll MAKE you know it. It will be loud and clear. Her underf**ked behavior is a cry for help. A cry, which distinctly s…
- 5 Superpower Couple Problems Worth Having
Being a well-f**ked couple isn’t all fun and games, you know. There are some serious issues that come to pass, and I’m here to help you through them. In this episode: The 5 biggest well-f**ked couple problems Navigating life and hotel room…
- Underf**ked Orcs vs. Kim Anami
Someone alerted the “All women need HRT!” community that I put up an apparently oh-so controversial post: That I don’t take HRT. They came RUNNING. A gang of underf**ked orcs, rabid, foaming at the mouth, grunting and panting, clambering o…
- My Body, My Oracle vs. My Body, My Enemy
Listening to the wisdom of the body and healing thyself is the ultimate flex. Not your peptide and supplement stack. In an era of every biohacker selling their supplements and peptide stack, every integrative and regular physician flogging…
- Self-Healed Prolapse with the Jade Yoni Egg
My vagina does amaaaaaazing things. Sometimes people see me doing phantasmagorical things like: Dead hangs ab exercises, whilst also lifting 11lb. With my vagina Lifting pieces green coconuts, bunches of mangos and Venetian chandeliers. Wi…
- From Zero to Multiple Orgasms in Weeks
For 50 years, Sonja hadn't enjoyed sex. She didn't get what the big deal was. But she was hopeful there was one. She took Vaginal Kung Fu and within weeks had an avalanche of orgasms: G-Spot, squirting, cervical, anal, nipple and full-body…
- Create Your Dream Life with Your Vagina
I often say that my vagina created my life. I've learned how to tap into the power of my sexual, pro-creative energy and use that to “birth” my life and projects with. And so can you. In this episode: The fastest way to achieve creative ge…
- Coming Off HRT with Vaginal Kung Fu
Look ma! No hormones! These kinds of stories are my favorite. The ones that showcase the direct impact that being well-fucked, awakening your vagina and activating your sexual energy has on your life. Milena had PCOS and was experiencing “…
- Support Group for Hot, Sexy, Fit, Orgasmic People
We need love too! It’s really hard being in this category. Seriously, it is. A lot of hard work. Like, every day. Hours spent surfing, swimming, going to the gym, running, fucking, doing inner emotional processing, clearing blocks and havi…
- Study Bros and Hormone Hoes
Study bros, hormone hoes and biohacking bitches vs. my orgasms. “OH LOOK A NEW STUDY CAME OUT AND NOW HRT IS REALLY ACTUALLY SAFE!” “Look at my peptide stack!” “I need all these machines and tests to tell me what’s happening in my own body…
- Should Love Feel Safe?
On the heels of my last podcast, talking about intense chemistry and whether it’s a green or red flag, today I’m talking about the idea that relationships ought to be “SAFE”. I hear this word tossed around A LOT now. Everyone's talking abo…
- Is Chemistry a Red Flag?
Is heart-fluttering chemistry necessary or is it "toxic"? Lately, I’ve heard some people say that chemistry is DANGEROUS! TOXIC! Run away! Red flag! Ridiculous. Tell me you’ve never had life-changing sex before without telling me. Chemistr…
- Why I've Never Dated
I’ve never dated anyone. Never been on a dating site. My experiences in the early stages of romance and relationships have always been intense, wild and unmistakable. I’ve seen something reposted a few times lately, an idea that people see…
- Be a Man with a Plan
“Be ready at 8. I’ll pick you up. Wear a cocktail dress.” Is music to a woman’s ears. And her vagina. IT NEVER GETS OLD. Be a man with a plan. Take the lead. Initiate. Be bold. You can—and ought to—do this throughout your relationship. Thi…
- "My Dick Grew So Big!"
- 9 Qualities of a Modern Alpha Male
I’ve forever been a champion and aficionado of the re-emergence and love of all things holy, fuckable and wild: The alpha male. There’s been so much noise and distortion over the past decades on “toxic masculinity”. The only thing toxic ab…
- Softcock to Supercock
Forgettable to formidable—how a once underwhelming 🍆 became a bedroom and life force majeure. ** The cock is the ultimate barometer of the man. When a man is fully occupying his masculine power and his sexual self, we see this reflected i…
- 10 Steps to Sexual Mastery for Men
These are the essential skills that every man needs to be a well-f**ked man, and to create a well-f**ked woman. The good news? They are all learnable. From cock size (yep, adjusable), to marathon sex to mastering the mighty and elusive fem…
- Wealthy and Well-F**ked
My vagina makes money. In this episode: How I went from hand-to-mouth to creating my business empire The relationship that changed everything for me The biggest thing I did in my business to make it rain down in cash Why being a well-f**ke…
- Honesty: the New Lube
“An increase in wetness to tsunami proportions.” ~ Joanne “Now all I have to do is talk to him on the phone and I’m dripping to my knees.” ~ 61-year-old Michelle “I am constantly aroused and wet. I love my juices and can have an orgasm wit…
- Yo, Libido! Wherefore art Thou?
Every woman has a high libido. Every woman—once sensually switched on—is an endless well of insatiable desire and pleasure. I guarantee it. What does it take to switch her on and make her come alive? In today’s episode we talk all things l…
- Vixen in the Boardroom
How do you actually achieve things while you’re in your feminine energy? How do you especially do this in a situation, like a job or workplace that is typically dominated by men? Annette, our Well-F**ked All Star articulates it so well. Sh…
- 5 Steps to Remove Painful Periods
For many women, their periods are agonizing experiences. For a week out of every month—and longer for some women—they suffer excruciating, fetus-position, vomit-inducing, can’t function, pain-killer guzzling pain. This has become normalize…
- 50, F**kable and UnF**kwithable
A new epoch is upon us. There are f**kable 50 year olds on TV and in movies. From some big-name actresses to some online “influencers” there is a small cadre of women changing the narrative. Including me. When the previous role models wome…
- I'm so F**king Hot for Myself!
“I can’t wait to come home and… fuck myself!” “I daydream all day about fucking…myself!” “I’m counting the minutes until I can get back into bed with…myself!” “I get wet just thinking about fucking…myself!” I LOVE THIS so much. One of the…
- Why I Love to Be F**ked Soft
I’ve connected as deeply with my partners in a wild, intense, thrash of an encounter as we have in hours-long micro-movements. Slow. Soft. Maybe even more deeply in the softness. So many people rush through penetration. The average sexual…
- Why I Love to Be F**ked Hard
Sometimes—oftentimes—I need to get really pounded. I need to get thrust all over the bed, I need to be grabbing sheets and bed frames and chair backs for ballast so I don’t go flying. I need a man to show me just how wild and powerful and…
- 5 Ways to Become a Multi-Orgasmic Couple
Coming together: the holy grail of being sexually in sync for a couple. It’s easy when both of you are having dozens of orgasms in a session. In today’s all star interview with Chris and Sara: Chris: “I can orgasm without ejaculation dozen…
- Cock Cured My Depression
Cock is medicine. Sex is medicine. But not just any cock or any sex. We’re talking high-caliber, high-performing cocks full of love. Well-occupied cock that knows who it is and what it’s here to do. Cock that obliterates a woman and slays…
- 21st Century Tantra
Sometimes people ask me if I can recommend a Tantra teacher. I tell them I am one. I’ve been studying and practicing Tantra for over 30 years. Just because I dress well and don’t wear sarongs as an outfit in public, or hold my hands up in…
- "No walls, and ready for my husband anytime!”
The ultimate goal in a well-f**ked couple is to be open to each other all the time. Always humming with erotic energy. Knowing looks. Skirt raises. Come hither fingers. A gentle ass braise as you walk past. A five-minute make out session b…
- How to Transmute Sexual Energy as a Couple
Through my work, I’ve seen people self-heal everything from fibroids, cysts and endometriosis, to erectile issues to difficult periods and menopause and depression to massive weight loss (orgasms over Ozempic, yo!). How? By transmuting the…
- 5 Phrases to Open and Turn Her On—Instantly!
What happens when you say the magic words? The ones that open hearts and legs? Your whole world and woman change. She transforms from tight and tense and naggy to open, flowing and free and your biggest support and secret weapon in all of…
- How to Invite Your Partner into Anami Land
So you’ve discovered Anami Land! And now you want your partner to as well. How do you get them onboard to create your most epic sex life and fulfilling relationship? One where each of you is having life-changing, psychedelic orgasms and us…
- Is Your Vibrator Cockblocking Your Sex Life?
Are you into group sex? Are you having regular threesomes? Is your girlfriend involved in a secret relationship you just can’t compete with? You may be a cuckold to your partner’s vibrator. In this episode: Relationship crutches The proble…
- My Yoni Manifested a Man
I often use the phrase #poweredbyvagina to describe how I have created my life and manifested my desired reality. From my vagina! By using my sexual energy as the PRO-creative power source it is. Being underfucked isn’t just NOT having sex…
- From Painful Sex to Squirting + F**king All Over the House
From never having touched her own vagina and having it feel like "shards of glass" when she tried, to leaving pee pads in every room so she and her husband can f*ck and squirt all over the house. Kids happily playing? Let’s dash into the b…
- Single Clitaholic to Cervical Orgasm Superstar
The cervix is where Lucia—and many other women, including me—have found God. God doesn’t hang out in the clitoris. Nah. The clitoris is for girls, amateurs and sexually inexperienced and underf**ked so-called sex experts and doctors. It’s…
- My Vagina Heals Everything
Your pro-creative sexual energy and your orgasms are the key to shaping your world. In Anami Land, we’re all about CONSCIOUSLY using this energy to grow and heal and create our lives. We see people heal their reproductive issues—everything…
- HRT: Should You Take It?
This is a question I get asked ALL THE TIME. In the allopathic world, the dominant narrative is that women MUST be hormonally medicated from puberty until death. Women are waking up to the idea that *maybe* this isn’t true. I am going to m…
- Vag Infections Begone! From Chronic to Atomic.
One of the most common recurring ailments for women in the reproductive realm is yeast infections, BV or bacterial vaginosis and UTIs—urinary tract infections. Where do they come from? Is there a holistic solution to them? In this episode:…
- Strong Vagina = Better Orgasms and No Incontinence
What am I most famous for? Lifting a surfboard at Venice Beach, a chandelier in Piazza san Marco in Venice and a piece of the Berlin Wall. At the Berlin Wall. With my vagina. A lot of you have heard of me because… my vagina precedes me. It…
- 10 Biggest Sex Scams
In my work as a sexologist and a holistic sex and relationship coach—indeed, as the pioneer of the genre—I’m always coming across serious myths and misinformation online about all things sexual. Some of it is truly shocking! Not only is th…