Oddvice

Society & Culture

About

Join best friends, Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot as they navigate the ups and downs of life. Coming from opposite upbringings, these 30-year-olds bring different perspectives to the table. Each week they share personal experiences about various topics, and then every Friday they read your stories and answer your questions on their Patreon Exclusive weekly episode. They're playing in the deep end and the shallow end... so grab your floaties 'cause it's about to get WAVY, BABY! No Limits. No Filters. Real ODDvice.

Episodes

  • 232 - How to get your spark back

    This week, we talk about what motivates us to find our spark, how to keep it, and what we do when we lose it. Watch the video version here:  https://youtu.be/ndc-P6Um1yk Exclusive Patreon episodes every Friday:  https://www.patre…

  • 231 - What if your friend is dating the wrong person?

    In episode 231 of Oddvice, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot address listener questions concerning cheating, disapproval of a friend's partner, and challenges in the job market. They invite listeners to submit their own questions via emai…

  • 230 - Sometimes Pettiness is Necessary (AITA)

    In episode 230 of Oddvice, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot delve into controversial stories from Reddit's Am I the Asshole subreddit, exploring themes of pettiness.

  • 229 - How we spend our money

    In episode 229 of Oddvice, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot discuss spending habits and views on sentimental items, prompted by a card game.

  • 228 - If you don't use it, you lose it

    In episode 228 of Oddvice, Alex shares her positive experience with a new workout class and discusses the significance of incorporating physical movement into daily life, emphasizing the need to find activities that suit individual prefere…

  • 227 - You're the rule, not the exception

    This Oddvice episode features listener-submitted questions for the monthly advice column. It is hosted by Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot.

  • 226 - 14 Life Lessons Everyone Needs to Hear

    Oddvice episode 226 features a discussion of 14 life pro-tips sourced from Reddit. The episode aims to provide valuable lessons for living a more positive and fulfilling life.

  • 225 - Reflecting on our past lovers

    In episode 225 of Oddvice, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot reflect on an October 2020 episode where they discussed their types in men. They observe how their opinions have evolved over the past six years.

  • 224 - We found our new calling...

    In episode 224 of Oddvice, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot discuss engaging games and ponder if they've found a new calling. A visual version is available on YouTube.

  • 223 - The days are longer, so disco occasionally

    In episode 223, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot discuss the arrival of new Harry Styles music and the lengthening days. They also share plans for Kristen's upcoming 31st birthday celebration at Disneyland.

  • 222 - "You've changed" isn't always a bad thing (Oddvice Column)

    In this Oddvice Column episode, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot address listener questions. The discussion includes the concept that personal changes are not always negative.

  • 221 - A way with words (One Minute Challenge)

    In episode 221 of Oddvice, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot participate in the One Minute Challenge, a speaking exercise based on prompts that they found surprisingly difficult. They credit the challenge's creator and share links to the…

  • 220 - Dating in your 20s vs. 30s

    Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot share observations on how dating experiences change from one's 20s to 30s. A visual version of this discussion is available on YouTube.

  • 219 - Mr. Avoidant Isn't Always the Villain (Oddvice Column)

    This Oddvice podcast episode features a column where listeners

  • 218 - Socializing is a muscle you need to exercise

    In episode 218, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot discuss confronting their socializing limits due to life changes like moving back home and to a new city. They prompt listeners to consider their own thresholds and recommend the show "Tel…

  • 217 - Ins & Outs of 2026

    In episode 217, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot share their personal 'ins and outs' for the year 2026. The episode marks their return after a hiatus. Additional content is available on Patreon and YouTube.

  • 216 - A love letter to NYC

    In episode 216, "A love letter to NYC," hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot share their reflections on the city. The episode description also provides links to related content and support initiatives.

  • 215 - The creepiest short stories from Reddit

    This Halloween episode of Oddvice reads creepy short stories submitted by Reddit users from the NoSleep thread.

  • 214 - Sometimes life comes at you sideways

    In episode 214 of Oddvice, "Sometimes life comes at you sideways," hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot discuss redirection and the experience of life taking unexpected turns.

  • 213 - How to survive a long distance friendship

    This episode of Oddvice covers strategies for maintaining long-distance friendships, drawing on listener submissions. The topic is particularly relevant as co-host Kristen McAtee prepares to move to San Diego.

  • 212 - California, here we come!

    In episode 212, Kristen and Alex talk about a memorable childhood dentist visit and an encounter with Tiësto. They also reveal their plans to move to California.

  • 211 - Growing up and growing apart (Oddvice Column)

    In this Oddvice Column episode, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot answer listener questions, addressing the theme of personal growth and changing relationships.

  • 210 - I slapped my sister-in-law in front of her family (AITA)

    This episode of Oddvice discusses a Reddit "Am I The A**hole" submission where the poster recounts slapping their sister-in-law in front of her family.

  • 209 - Honoring our twenties + embracing our thirties

    In episode 209 of Oddvice, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot reflect on reaching age 30, sharing insights on integrating past experiences into their thirties and discarding outdated habits.

  • 208 - Dusting off rusty ambitions (Oddvice Column)

    In episode 208 of Oddvice, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot discuss the topic of

  • 207 - Our next phases of life + the future of Oddvice

    In episode 207 of Oddvice, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot reflect on their personal lives and the future of the podcast. They share details on ordering a custom card deck and mention exclusive content on Patreon.

  • 206 - Yung Gravy Saved My Life

    In episode 206 of Oddvice, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot discuss "oh shit moments" and psychic abilities, concluding that Yung Gravy saved their lives. The episode also promotes a deck of cards and a Patreon channel.

  • 205 - An Open Discussion About AI

    In episode 205 of Oddvice, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot engage in an open discussion about Artificial Intelligence, incorporating listener entries. The conversation covers the usage of AI, its environmental impact, and potential futu…

  • 204 - How to hold a conversation (part 2)

    In part two of this Oddvice episode, hosts Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot discuss the art of socializing, focusing on when to interject in a conversation and how to master small talk. Links to purchase merchandise and exclusive content are a…

  • 203 - Breaking Girl Code, a Cheating Husband, & Bad Friends (Oddvice Column)

    In episode 203 of Oddvice, titled

  • 202 - If emotions ran the world...

    Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot discuss JB's new album and the Love Island finale. They also entertain a hypothetical question about career paths in a world governed by emotions.

  • 201 - Spilling your secrets

    Secrets are a lot to hold! So we opened our inboxes to y'all so you can get things off your chest. Some of these secrets were NUTS lol 🃏 order DECK O' DECKS here! 🃏 - https://bicyclecards.com/shop/bicycle-oddvice-deck-o-decks Exclusive P…

  • 200 - Friend groups are an ecosystem

    Taking up space in a friend group takes confidence! Here are some ways we feel comfortable with a large group of friends. 🃏 order DECK O' DECKS here! 🃏 -  https://bicyclecards.com/shop/bicycle-oddvice-deck-o-decks Watch the visual v…

  • 199 - Outgrowing Platonic & Romantic Relationships (Oddvice Column)

    This episode of Oddvice focuses on the experience of outgrowing relationships, both platonic and romantic. It includes listener submissions and is hosted by Kristen McAtee and Alex Koot.

  • 198 - A Cozy Chat

    Let's sit and chat this week! Discussing Love Island + we take a 'What Vegetable are You?' quiz. Link to the quiz - https://sophie006liu.github.io/vegetal/# 🃏 order DECK O' DECKS here! 🃏 -  https://bicyclecards.com/shop/bicycle-oddv…

  • 197 - Truth or Drink

    Let's get deep! Our sex lives, diving into the nitty-gritty of our friendship, and of course a few shots of tequila! 🃏 order DECK O' DECKS here! 🃏 -  https://bicyclecards.com/shop/bicycle-oddvice-deck-o-decks Watch the visual versio…

  • 196 - Oddvice's first annual job fair

    We get a ton of entries of people feeling a bit lost in their career journey-not knowing what industry to get into or how to find what interests them, so we opened the floor for our listeners to write in about their niche career paths. We…

  • 195 - Overconsumption + the scarcity mindset

    Let's talk about what it means to make intentional, mindful purchases. What's your mindset around money? 🃏 order DECK O' DECKS here! 🃏 -  https://bicyclecards.com/shop/bicycle-oddvice-deck-o-decks Watch the visual version here:&nbsp…

  • 194 - TikTok is ruining the music industry

    We're back after a little hiatus 🫶 🃏 order DECK O' DECKS here! 🃏 -  https://bicyclecards.com/shop/bicycle-oddvice-deck-o-decks Watch the visual version here:  https://youtu.be/5WTKeIXra60 Exclusive Patreon episodes every Frida…

  • 193 - IT'S BREAKUP SEASON

    Thank you to everyone who wrote in for this month's oddvice column 🫶 🃏 order DECK O' DECKS here! 🃏 -  https://bicyclecards.com/shop/bicycle-oddvice-deck-o-decks Watch the visual version here:  https://youtu.be/4ls27z4i3j0 Excl…

  • 192 - It's time for a matriarchy

    Let's chat about it all: power-hungry men, getting cat-called, and our ideal society. 🃏 order DECK O' DECKS here! 🃏 -  https://bicyclecards.com/shop/bicycle-oddvice-deck-o-decks Watch the visual version here:  https://youtu.be/…

  • 191 - Longevity vs. Virality

    This week, let's discuss what it means to embrace longevity instead of going viral in the podcast industry. 🃏 order DECK O' DECKS here! 🃏 -  https://bicyclecards.com/shop/bicycle-oddvice-deck-o-decks Watch the visual version here:&n…

  • 190 - Don't sh*t where you eat

    This week we read your entries about successful work relationships, the ones that went wrong, and everything in between. But moral of the story: don't sh*t where you eat. 🃏 order DECK O' DECKS here! 🃏 -  https://bicyclecards.com/sho…

  • 189 - Do you really need closure?

    Is closure really necessary? Sometimes what we might think is closure might be more harmful than beneficial, so when do you know if you really need it? Support LA wildfire relief efforts -  https://hoo.be/oddvicepodcast Relief in Pale…

  • 188 - Nightmare In-laws and the 90/10 Rule (Oddvice Column)

    Thank you to everyone who wrote in 🫶 Support LA wildfire relief efforts -  https://hoo.be/oddvicepodcast Relief in Palestine 🤍 -  https://manylink.co/@oddvicepodcast 🃏 order DECK O' DECKS here! 🃏 -  https://bicyclecards.…

  • 187 - Am I Overreacting? (Reddit Stories)

    A daughter having an affair with the married neighbor & not being invited to a wedding for being too pretty ? These and other AIO.. are their reactions valid? Support LA wildfire relief efforts -  https://hoo.be/oddvicepodcast Relief…

  • 186 - Our March Favorites

    Everything from food to tech, here's a breakdown of our current top 5 favorites this month. Support LA wildfire relief efforts -  https://hoo.be/oddvicepodcast Relief in Palestine 🤍 -  https://manylink.co/@oddvicepodcast 🃏 orde…

  • 185 - How to get sh*t done (The 6 Procrastination Styles)

    Leaving things until the last minute is VERY common - in our work and home lives. This week we discuss a quiz that told us what type of Procrastinators we are - and how it impacts us. Here's the quiz we took!: https://www.infiheal.com/pers…

  • 184 - Apologies left unsaid

    Apologies can be hard! We hope this helps those of you who wrote in AND those who may have been struggling to say sorry ❤️‍🩹 Support LA wildfire relief efforts -  https://hoo.be/oddvicepodcast Relief in Palestine 🤍 -  https://m…

  • 183 - How to release control & practice happiness (Oddvice Column)

    Thank you to everyone who wrote in ❤️ Support LA wildfire relief efforts -  https://hoo.be/oddvicepodcast Relief in Palestine 🤍 -  https://manylink.co/@oddvicepodcast 🃏 order DECK O' DECKS here! 🃏 -  https://bicyclecards.…