Ninth Avenue Church of Christ

When Doing the Right Thing Costs You

Doing the right thing is easy—until it costs you something. In this sermon from Matthew 1:18–25, we take a closer look at the quiet, courageous obedience of Joseph and what his story teaches us about true righteousness. Faced with fear, uncertainty, and potential shame, Joseph chose compassion over self-protection and obedience over convenience. This message challenges common assumptions about righteousness and invites us into a faith that protects the vulnerable, makes room for others, and reflects the heart of Jesus—even when it comes at a personal cost. In this episode, you’ll explore: Why righteousness is more than rule-keeping How obedience often requires personal sacrifice What Joseph teaches us about protecting others How “God with us” transforms strangers into family Why the church is called to restore gently, not shame publicly Whether you’re wrestling with a difficult decision or seeking to live out your faith more faithfully, this sermon offers encouragement and clarity for following God when the path is hard. Scripture Reading: Matthew 1:18–25 Episode Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction: Making Room for God’s People 03:20 – When Doing Right Starts to Cost You 07:30 – Rethinking Righteousness 11:45 – Scripture Reading: Matthew 1:18–25 14:00 – Righteousness Protects the Vulnerable 19:30 – Quiet Obedience and Costly Compassion 24:10 – Costly Obedience Makes Room for Others 29:00 – Fear, Calling, and Trusting God 33:40 – Obedience Means Taking Responsibility 38:30 – God With Us Turns Strangers into Family 43:00 – The Church as Family, Not a Crowd 48:20 – Application: Claim Someone This Week 52:10 – Restoring Gently, Not Shaming Publicly 56:00 – Final Challenge and Closing Prayer

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