Monologues By Hasi
Society & Culture
About
My name is Hasi and I work in tech. Most of the time I'm brought into meetings as a window dressing - so I don't get to talk as much as I'd like. This is my outlet for my 2 cents on topics such as life, money, society and self-development plus whatever else lies up in my head. Hopefully this doesn't get me cancelled in the process. Enjoy!
Episodes
- The Loneliness Epidemic: Why You Need To Be Proactive, More Forgiving And Apply Game Theory To Beat It
This episode of Monologues By Hasi discusses the loneliness epidemic, observing changes in social networks and the impact of digital versus real-life connections. The host reflects on social dynamics and proposes applying game theory to pe…
- Take The Photo Now
The episode discusses the regret of not having photographs of past moments, even ordinary ones, and the yearning to see them again.
- 50 days into 75 Hard
This episode provides a mid-challenge reflection on the 75 Hard program at Day 50. The host shares progress, discusses the hardest parts, and details unexpected changes, lessons in discipline, and struggles.
- I'm Back! 2025 In Review
After a break, Hasi is back with a monologue reflecting on the events of 2025, which was a hectic year. This episode provides a life update.
- It's Easy To Blame The World... But What About You?
This episode discusses personal accountability and rethinking situations, inspired by a verse from the Dhammapada about recognizing one's own faults.
- Struggling To Protect Your Energy
This episode discusses the significant drain on resources that can result from change, crisis, or shock. The host shares personal challenges in protecting their time and energy during such periods.
- The Case For Re-Reading
This episode makes the case for re-reading books. The argument presented is that if a book resonated with you once, you should absolutely read it again.
- Look Down Or Look Up? Picking The Right Risks & Opportunities
This episode discusses prioritizing short-term versus long-term risks and opportunities. The host relates a personal experience from Weligama, Sri Lanka, to broader themes in careers, business, and relationships.
- Starting Small And Avoiding Over-Investments
The episode discusses how excitement for new ventures can cause over-investment. It highlights that novices often invest without understanding resource allocation or establishing a necessary foundation for success.
- Thinking In Systems: A Better Way To View The World
This episode reflects on the book "Thinking in Systems: A Primer" by Donella Meadows, discussing the definition of a system and its complexity, and how the host is applying systems thinking to their own life.
- Someone Has to Start… Why Not You?
This episode discusses the difficulties of being the first to pursue unconventional goals in your family, community, or friend group. It prompts listeners to consider if they can be the one to initiate change.
- Let Go Of Negative People & Focus On What Matters
The podcast episode discusses the importance of identifying and letting go of negative people, referred to as 'energy vampires,' to focus on personal goals and mission, especially as one realizes the limitations of time and energy.
- Dating in the Wild: What I Learned Ditching The Apps
In this episode, the host discusses the experience of dating without the use of apps. They share personal observations and perspectives on modern dating in the real world.
- Entering Plato's Cave
This episode explores takeaways from Plato's Allegory of the Cave found in The Republic. The discussion focuses on how these concepts relate to challenging old paradigms when encountering new knowledge.
- The Business Of Giving: Are 3rd Party Marketers Hurting Charites?
This episode of Monologues By Hasi examines third-party charity marketers, often called Chuggers, from the donor's perspective. It analyzes how their practices can harm the customer experience and the charities they represent.
- 2024 In Review: Successes, Set Backs And Lessons For 2025
Monologues By Hasi reviews 2024, discussing successes, setbacks, and lessons learned for planning 2025. The episode references previous discussions on algorithms and the book 'Die With Zero', and suggests using the Year Compass booklet for…
- The Biggest Regret I See Amongst 30 Year Old's... Their Health
The episode addresses the common regret of neglecting health after achieving success by age 30. The host shares personal thoughts and experiences on prioritizing health, launching a personal mission to improve it.
- Playing Games: Why Small Should Come Before Big And Short Should Turn To Long
This episode discusses using smaller, lower-stakes interactions as an analytical tool to vet potential business partners or arrangements. It also examines when short-term engagement might be detrimental compared to a long-term customer rel…
- Invitations, Being A Connector In Your Networks And The Exponential Backoff Algorithm
This episode discusses the concepts of invitations, being a connector in networks, and the Exponential Backoff Algorithm, drawing from the book 'Algorithms to Live By'. The host encourages listeners to engage with the podcast and share the…
- Algorithms To Date By: The Computer Science Behind Finding A Wife
This episode of Monologues By Hasi discusses 'Algorithms to Live By.' Listeners can find a link to the book, subscribe to the podcast on various apps, and connect with the host on X (Twitter).
- Encountering New Cultures And Applying The Platinum Rule
The podcast episode discusses encountering new cultures during travels, noting differences in marriage customs, work, and diet. The speaker introduces the Platinum Rule as a better approach to understanding unfamiliar cultures, emphasizing…
- Tragedy Of The Political Commons
This episode discusses actions taken to preserve political commons, referencing a 6-hour YouTube livestream and a PDF senate compliant submission creator tool available at stopthebill.com.au. More episodes can be found at monologuesbyhasi.…
- 8 Lessons For My 20 Year Old Self From 30 Year Old Me
This episode shares 8 lessons from a 30-year-old's perspective for their 20-year-old self, referencing passive investment strategies in Australia and the concept of the time value of youth.
- I've Sucked At Selling: Here's How I'm Changing That And What I've Learnt So Far
This episode discusses the universal importance of sales skills, applicable beyond professional roles. The host shares personal experiences and lessons learned from a street sales initiative in Sydney.
- The Final 10% Will Test You: Abstractions From App Development To Life
This episode discusses the challenges and learnings encountered in the final 10% of completing a goal, drawing parallels between app development and life, and explaining why this stage is critical and often where people quit.
- City2Surf 2024: Takeaways From Race Day
The runner completed the 14 km City2Surf 2024 in under 81 minutes, beating their previous time by 10 minutes. They reflect on their progress in running over the past year and insights gained as they approach age 30.
- A Short Discourse On Letting Go Of Expectations
The host discusses being held back by self-imposed expectations that clash with natural outcomes, drawing on recent experiences in Japan where plans did not go as expected.
- Secessio Plebis: An Ancient Political Tool For The Modern Ages?
The episode discusses the Secessio Plebis, an ancient Roman event where plebeians withdrew from the city to make demands. It questions whether modern Western governments are attentive to commoners, drawing parallels to this historical even…
- The Young Male Advice Column: Don't Waste The Opportunity To Learn NOW!
This episode of Monologues By Hasi reflects on the missed opportunities for learning non-career skills such as languages and musical instruments, inspired by a food order in Hiroshima. The advice is intended as a message to a younger self…
- How Just 15 Minutes Of Daily Meditation For The Last 100 Days Has Changed Me
This episode explores the benefits of meditating for at least 15 minutes daily, a practice informed by a NYU study indicating 13 minutes as a minimum effective dose. The speaker shares their personal transformation over 100 days of consist…
- Reflections On Die With Zero: What I'm Taking Away From The Book
In this episode, Hasi shares reflections on Bill Perkins' book 'Die With Zero', drawing from personal experiences and conversations about life and retirement to inform future decisions.
- Cell Membranes And Nation States: Has The West Gone Mad With Migration?
This episode draws an analogy between cell membranes and nation states to discuss migration in the West. It examines the rise in racism and xenophobia, arguing that these sentiments, while potentially valid, are often misdirected towards i…
- What On Earth Is Fair? Why You Should Stop Wallowing In Self Pity
The episode "What On Earth Is Fair? Why You Should Stop Wallowing In Self Pity" reflects on the common phrase "It's so unfair." The host discusses how the desire for fairness is fundamentally flawed for many podcast listeners who are alrea…
- Lessons From 100 Episodes: Detaching Effort From Outcome And More
In this episode of Monologues by Hasi, the host shares key learnings accumulated over two years and 100 podcast episodes, including the importance of detaching effort from outcome.
- Understanding Nth Order Effects: How Legalising Gay Marriage May Help Straight Men
This episode explains Nth order effects, a decision-making process championed by Charlie Munger. It uses the legalisation of same-sex marriage in Australia as an example of how such effects can impact straight men and highlights the risks…
- Minimising Your Dependence On Neurochemical Buy Now Pay Later (BNPL) Solutions
The podcast reflects on neurochemical 'buy now pay later' solutions, using alcohol as a primary example. It explores whether these solutions are worth the cost, considering perspectives gained from heavy drinking, sobriety, and personal de…
- Why You Should Speak To The Stranger In The Lunch Room
This episode discusses the value of initiating conversations with strangers in social spaces, like lunch rooms. The host shares personal experiences of how simple greetings have led to meaningful connections, skills, and wisdom, particular…
- The Young Male Advice Column: Yes You're The Problem. All Our Problems Are Your Fault.
This episode addresses the idea that young men are constantly told they are the problem. The host expresses concern about societal trends pitting men against women, viewing it as harmful to Western civilization.
- Don't Fear The World: Put Down The News Now!
The episode titled "Don't Fear The World: Put Down The News Now!" is part of the "Monologues By Hasi" podcast. It encourages listeners to reduce their news intake. Subscription and contact details are provided.
- Respect Yourself By Learning To Say No
This episode, 'Respect Yourself By Learning To Say No,' from Monologues By Hasi, discusses the importance of setting boundaries and asserting oneself by learning to decline requests. The host encourages listeners to prioritize self-respect…
- It's The Worlds Job To Reject You: Don't Take That Away From Them
The episode "It's The Worlds Job To Reject You" from the podcast Monologues By Hasi explores the concept of the world rejecting individuals. The host encourages listeners not to interfere with this perceived natural order.
- Lift A Heavy Load Now
This episode of Monologues By Hasi is titled 'Lift A Heavy Load Now'. The description provides links to subscribe to the podcast and contact the host on X (Twitter) @realHasinthaA. Music credits are also provided.
- The Status Games We Play With Ourselves: On Looking Stupid To Achieve Your Goals
This episode discusses the status games individuals engage in and the idea of appearing foolish to reach objectives. Information on signing up for #14DaysOfMeditation via illuminateme.app is provided.
- Digital Nomad Diaries: People (And Places) Come And Go
This episode of Monologues By Hasi, titled "Digital Nomad Diaries: People (And Places) Come And Go," reflects on the temporary nature of both people and locations encountered while living a digital nomad lifestyle. The host also provides c…
- Protecting The Golden Goose: My Current Challenges
This episode of Monologues By Hasi, titled "Protecting The Golden Goose: My Current Challenges," covers unspecified current challenges. Additional content and contact information are available via the show's website and X (Twitter).
- It's A Skill Issue... And Why That Shouldn't Get In The Way
This episode of Monologues By Hasi explores the concept of a 'skill issue' and argues that it should not be a barrier to personal growth or development. The host encourages listeners to visit monologuesbyhasi.com for more content and to co…
- Digital Nomad Diaries: Work And Life In George Town, Penang, Malaysia
This episode of Monologues By Hasi, titled 'Digital Nomad Diaries: Work and Life in George Town, Penang, Malaysia,' discusses the digital nomad experience. Contact information and music credits are provided.
- Micro Losses And Macro Wins: Expanding Your Time Horizon As A Decision Making Framework
This episode discusses expanding your time horizon as a decision-making framework to manage short-term setbacks and achieve long-term success.
- Identifying and Dealing With Your Limiting Reagents
This episode of Monologues By Hasi focuses on identifying and dealing with limiting reagents. Further episodes and contact information can be found on the show's website.
- Overcome Your Activation Energy: Why You Should Pay A Higher Price Today
This Monologues By Hasi episode discusses the concept of activation energy and explains why it can be beneficial to pay a higher price in the present.