Loving Without Boundaries
Psychology & Relationships
About
The Loving Without Boundaries show offers interviews, lessons and insights on the subjects of polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. Our mission is to create more awareness and acceptance of these lifestyle choices through education, communication and the respectful exchange of ideas. We seek to promote healthy relationships, tolerance and understanding – whether you are already living a life of ethical non-monogamy or are among those who are curious to know more. We love to create, share stories of courage and growth, encourage loving responsibly, and spread positive energy. So come join us!To learn more, check out the blog, resources and much more at: www.lovingwithoutboundaries.com
Episodes
- EPISODE 288: Interview with Ryle Kestano
This episode features an interview with Ryel Kestano, co-founder of the dating app Kora, Authentic Relating training company ART International, and author of Authentic Relating: A Guide to Rich, Meaningful, Nourishing Relationships. He is…
- EPISODE 287: Interview with Mariko Sakai
This episode features an interview with Mariko Sakai, who coaches women on feminine leadership and helps men find partners. The podcast discusses consensual non-monogamy and healthy relationships.
- EPISODE 286: Interview with Bart Golub
This episode features an interview with Bart Golub, an interpersonal psychotherapist in San Francisco who specializes in polyamory and ENM. Golub shares his expertise on consensual non-monogamy and sex-positive relationships.
- EPISODE 285: Interview with Ben Shaw
Ben Shaw shares his approach to helping individuals transform their bodies and lives by addressing subconscious patterns. The episode focuses on replacing struggle with conscious self-recreation for sustainable change.
- EPISODE 284: Interview with C.L. Aaron
C.L. Aaron, co-author of "The No-Bullshit Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy," discusses practical tools for navigating jealousy, boundaries, and ethical challenges in non-monogamous relationships. Their background includes law, psychology, and…
- EPISODE 283: Interview with Natalie Davis
EPISODE 283: Interview with Natalie Davis. Natalie Davis is a writer, educator, and advocate for normalizing polyamory. She is the author of "Saying Yes: My Adventures in Polyamory," published on January 13, 2026 and available for all book…
- EPISODE 282: Interview with Tash Doherty
EPISODE 282: Interview with Tash Doherty. Tash Doherty is a British-Irish-American writer and author. She is the creator of Misseducated, a blog on a mission to help the world be shamelessly sexy. She is about to publish a sex journal. If…
- EPISODE 281: Interview with Lindsay Hayes
EPISODE 281: Interview with Lindsay Hayes. Lindsay Hayes holds dual master's degrees in Communication and in Couple and Family Therapy. Her graduate research focused on the lived experience of being in a polycule, a project she has since e…
- EPISODE 280: Interview with George Goulburn
EPISODE 280: Interview with George Goulburn. George is a mature, straight male escort who left the corporate life behind years ago to enter this line of work. He swapped the boardroom for the bedroom after spending more than a decade in EN…
- EPISODE 279: Interview with Wendy Newman
EPISODE 279 Interview with Wendy Newman. Wendy Newman has spent over 20 years in relationships, has taught 90k+ people, and has identified as ethically non-monogamous since 2013. She is the author of "121 First Dates: How to Succeed at Onl…
- EPISODE 278: Interview with Jessica Fern & David Cooley
EPISODE 278 Interview with Jessica Fern & David Cooley. Jessica Fern holds a Master's degree in Conflict Resolution, is a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, a trained Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner, and an integrative ther…
- EPISODE 277: Interview with Lola Phoenix
EPISODE 277 Interview with Lola Phoenix. Lola Phoenix is an American born writer living in Sweden, working within digital marketing while trying to find an agent to represent their fiction work. Lola is the author of "The Anxious Person's…
- EPISODE 276: Interview with Bethany Snyder & Kris Maul
EPISODE 276: Interview with Bethany Snyder & Kris Maul. Bethany Snyder and Kris Maul are a queer couple living in Urbandale, Iowa with their amazing 14-year-old kiddo and adorable pets. Bethany grew up in Altoona and attended the Universit…
- EPISODE 275: Interview with Ellecia Paine
EPISODE 275: Interview with Ellecia Paine. Ellecia Paine helps people break free from monogamous conditioning, guiding them through the exciting world of ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging. She turns challenges like jealousy and…
- EPISODE 274: Interview with Shannon Hamaker
EPISODE 274 Interview with Shannon Hamaker. Shannon is on a mission to help people shed the layers of misunderstanding around sexuality and intimacy, unlocking the magic that comes with self-discovery and deeper connection. What began as a…
- EPISODE 273: Interview with Mike Barsamian
EPISODE 273: Interview with Mike Barsamian. For 25 years Mike has coached, counseled, and pastored teens and families from conflict to connection helping them grow together for a lifetime. He developed the PACE method for parenting and liv…
- EPISODE 272: Interview with Lauren Elise Rogers
EPISODE 272: Interview with Lauren Elise Rogers. Lauren Elise Rogers is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach…
- EPISODE 271: Interview with Marla Schreiber
EPISODE 271: Interview with Marla Schreiber. Marla MSW, RSW (they/them) is a white, Queer, gender-defiant, neuro-fabulous therapist, educator, and author who has been practicing polyamory since 2005. They have been offering nonmonogamy (NM…
- EPISODE 270: Interview with Cory Wagner
EPISODE 270: Interview with Cory Wagner. Cory Wagner is an artist and entrepreneur from the middle of nowhere in Wyoming and lives in Houston, TX. He convinced his wife to do the LWB program to save his marriage, and instead, ended up savi…
- EPISODE 269: Interview with Susan Taylor
EPISODE 269: Interview with Susan Taylor. Susan Morgan Taylor, MA, is a leading somatic sex therapist who helps couples deepen their intimacy and create lasting, fulfilling connections. With over 25 years of experience in somatic healing,…
- EPISODE 268: Interview with Robert Dalbol
EPISODE 268: Interview with Robert Dalbol. Rob Dalbol was married for 10 yrs in a typical relationship before they decided to open their marriage. Ultimately, the inability to communicate effectively and differences in their values led the…
- EPISODE 267: Interview with Zara Shah
EPISODE 267: Interview with Zara Shah. Zara Shah is a Pakistani-Canadian queer sex worker. She uses her unique immigrant experience and perspective as a way to draw intersection between race, cultural background, and sexuality. Being a non…
- EPISODE 266: Interview with Ariel Anderssen
EPISODE 266: Interview with Ariel Anderssen. Ariel Anderssen is a professional submissive BDSM performer and author of the memoir "Playing To Lose – How a Jehovah's Witness Became a Submissive BDSM Model. If you get value out of the Loving…
- EPISODE 265: Interview with Jesse Dean
EPISODE 265: Interview with Jesse Dean. Jesse Dean is a Master clinical Hypnotherapist, Certified Mastery Coach, creator of Hypnothera, the "Emotion-Quotion Course" and, the "BOUNCE Methodology". He is the founder of the Open window Instit…
- EPISODE 264: Interview with Dr. Tammy Nelson
EPISODE 264: Interview with Dr. Tammy Nelson. Tammy Nelson, PhD is a sex and relationship expert, an international speaker, an author and a licensed psychotherapist with almost thirty years of experience working with individuals and couple…
- EPISODE 263: Interview with Tessa and Amir
EPISODE 263: Interview with Tessa and Amir. Tessa & Amir have been experimenting and finding growth in Open Relating as individuals and together as a married couple for 20 years of their 36 year partnership. They continue to hold their fam…
- EPISODE 262: Interview with Aasha T
EPISODE 262: Interview with Aasha T. Aasha T. is the Author of "The Empath is the Narcissist," and an emotional and energetic intelligence expert. She has gone through her own experience with push/pull dynamic as both the avoidant and the…
- EPISODE 261: Interview with Emma Pleasure
EPISODE 261: Interview with Emma Pleasure. Emma Pleasure is your pleasure coach, a yoga, meditation and tantra teacher and trainee sexologist. Emma's work combines spiritual ideology and practices with evidence-based knowledge and treatmen…
- EPISODE 260: Interview with Dean Robertson
EPISODE 260: Interview with Dean Robertson. Dean Robertson is a retired evangelical minister. He has spent his entire adult life in Christian ministry in various capacities, including Senior Pastor, Church Planter, Mission Director, Evange…
- EPISODE 259: Interview with Kathy Labriola
EPISODE 259: Interview with Kathy Labriola. Kathy Labriola is a nurse, counselor, and hypnotherapist in Berkeley, California. She has provided affordable mental health services to alternative communities for over 30 years. Kathy is author…
- EPISODE 258: Interview with Helena Goto
EPISODE 258: Interview with Helena Goto Helena Goto founded Goto Solutions in 2013 and works with companies to support their people in navigating conflict in the workplace. With Master's degrees in both Business Administration and Conflict…
- EPISODE 257: Interview with Chris Veasey
EPISODE 257: Interview with Chris Veasey. Chris Veasey is an adventurer, non-traditionalist, and a lifelong storyteller. His uncompromising New York core can be found beneath layers of mountain-calmed temperament and reverence for the Engl…
- EPISODE 256: Interview with Ali Press
EPISODE 256: Interview with Ali Press. Trapped in a repeating daily nightmare of their own making, Ali quit drinking for good in April 2017. Drinking away their needs, desires, and wants to be whatever people around them expected, had been…
- EPISODE 255: Interview with Nita Marie
EPISODE 255: Interview with Nita Marie. Nita Marie is a women's empowerment coach who focuses on helping women release their inner goddesses by tapping into their sexuality and pleasure center. She also loves helping women become financial…
- EPISODE 254: Eve Rickert and Andrea Zanin Interview
EPISODE 254: Interview with Eve Rickert & Andrea Zanin. Eve Rickert is a Gen X, queer, solo polyamorous, relationship anarchist, neurodivergent cis woman living on unceded WSÁNEC and Lekwungen territory on the west coast of the place curre…
- EPISODE 253: Interview with Holly
EPISODE 253: Interview with Holly. Holly is a children's performing artist and educator who is passionate about families of all shapes and sizes. Over the past ten years, she's become a mother through years of fertility treatments and is s…
- EPISODE 252: Interview with Bree Mills
EPISODE 252: Interview with Bree Mills. Bree Mills is an award-winning adult film director, writer and producer. She is head of Gamma Films Group and Chief Creative Officer for Adult Time, a leading streaming platform for adult audiences.…
- EPISODE 251: Interview with Ally Iseman
EPISODE 251: Interview with Ally Iseman. Ally Iseman is the Founder of Passport2Pleasure.com and has been a speaker, community organizer, and non-monogamy educator and practitioner since 2016. As a certified consent and communication speci…
- EPISODE 250: Interview with Marie Thouin
EPISODE 250: Interview with Marie Thouin. Marie Thouin, PhD is the author of "What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships," the first-ever comprehensive scholarly book on compersion. She…
- EPISODE 249: Interview with Christa Lei
EPISODE 249: Interview with Christa Lei. Christa Lei (they/she) was born and raised on Native Hawaiian land as the youngest child of Filipine immigrants. They studied Community Psychology and their professional experiences revolve around h…
- EPISODE 248: Podcast Discussion with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, Dr. Heath Schechinger, and Dr. Joli Hamilton
EPISODE 248: Podcast Discussion with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, Dr. Heath Schechinger, and Dr. Joli Hamilton.Dr. Elisabeth "Eli" Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. She is the developer of The Bondi…
- EPISODE 247: Interview with Mariko Sakai
EPISODE 247: Interview with Mariko Sakai. Mariko is a business woman, coach, thought leader, TEDx speaker, light worker, and sex-positive community builder. Mariko is passionate about helping people that successfully conformed to the socie…
- EPISODE 246: Interview with Dr. Stephen Furlich
EPISODE 246: Interview with Dr Stephen Furlich. Dr. Stephen Furlich is the author of Nonverbal epiphany: Steps to Improve Your nonverbal Communication. He is also the best- selling author of a breakthrough book, Sex Talk: How Biological Se…
- EPISODE 245: Interview with Steph Zapata
Steph Zapata is a well-seasoned, nationally recognized, award-winning, NuyoRican sexuality educator, & space creator. They have become a long-term catalyst for change within sexuality education through their radically intentional approache…
- EPISODE 244: Interview with Heather Claus
Heather has lived an atypical life. — She's hitchhiked across the country. — She's traveled and worked in a carnival for a season. — She's roamed New York City with street people. — She's explored (and taught) alternative lifestyles. — She…
- EPISODE 243: Interview with Molly Roden Winter
Molly Roden Winter is the author of the NYTimes instant bestseller, "MORE: A Memoir of Open Marriage". She lives in Park Slope, Brooklyn with her husband and two part-time roommates, also known as her sons. Follow her work and adventures o…
- EPISODE 242: Interview with Michelle Hy
Michelle Hy is from Portland, Oregon and runs the Instagram page Polyamorous While Asian, which seeks to normalize non-monogamy and amplify the voices of other POC, who are significantly underrepresented in non-monogamous communities. She…
- EPISODE 241: Interview with Dr. Rebbeca Lahann
Dr. Lahann is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, Clinical Psychologist, and speaker. She is focused on providing education, resources, and psychological services as the Clinical Director of Spectrum Psychology and Wellness in Gilbert, AZ.…
- EPISODE 240: Interview with Yael Rosenstock
Yael R Rosenstock Gonzalez is the founder of Kaleidoscope Vibrations, LLC, a company dedicated to supporting and creating spaces for individuals to explore and find community in their personal identities. As a queer, polyamorous, white-pre…
- Episode 239: Interview with Dr. Leanna Wolfe
Dr. Leanna Wolfe's sex research was spirited by coming of age in the thick of the 1970s sexual revolution and feminist movement in the San Francisco Bay Area. Her curiosities and academic appetites led her to engage in field research in Me…