Love This Way!
Psychology & Relationships
About
The Love This Way Podcast delivers honest, healing, and transformational conversations about modern relationships, emotional wellness, and self-worth. No gender wars or back and forth, just solid advice to help men and women to find and sustain healthy love. Because love is a journey and you need direction!
Episodes
- She Became a Mother… But Did Anyone Ask Who She Became?
This episode of Love This Way! discusses the profound identity shifts, emotional and mental changes, and relational impacts that motherhood creates for women. It explores how women can feel lost within new roles despite loving their childr…
- We’re Not Enemies...We’re Misunderstood
This episode discusses the misunderstandings between men and women, exploring how these differences can lead to division. It examines the unique pressures and emotional weights carried by each, and suggests ways to foster mutual understand…
- You Don’t Know Your Partner As Well As You Think You Do
This episode of Love This Way! discusses how relationships can drift apart if partners fail to understand each other's evolving selves. It emphasizes the importance of continuously learning about your partner to maintain connection.
- Your Partner Is Experiencing a Completely Different Relationship Than You
This episode discusses how two people in the same relationship can have completely different emotional experiences. It explores how couples drift into different realities and offers ways to help both partners feel loved and connected.
- Why Being Chosen Still Doesn’t Feel Like Enough
This episode of Love This Way! discusses why being chosen in a relationship might not feel like enough, exploring how personal narratives about self-worth can impact security. It offers 5 ways to feel more secure without needing constant r…
- Do You Even Like Your Spouse?
This episode of Love This Way! explores the dynamics of long-term relationships, focusing on how partners can maintain affection and connection. It discusses the potential consequences when one partner feels tolerated rather than loved.
- You Say You Want Honest Communication… Until You Hear the Truth
This episode of Love This Way! discusses the challenges of honest communication in relationships. It explores how couples can unintentionally discourage honesty and offers five ways to make truth-telling feel safe again.
- Can Your Partner Affect Your Self-Esteem?
This episode explores how romantic relationships can impact individual self-esteem, discussing both how couples may unintentionally degrade each other's confidence and how to foster a supportive, healthy environment.
- To The Men Carrying the Weight of the World...
This episode of Love This Way! acknowledges the challenges faced by men who feel the pressure of carrying heavy responsibilities alone. It offers a message of support and validation to men who are exhausted from maintaining their daily obl…
- Men Fear Failure. Women Fear Abandonment.
This episode of Love This Way explores how underlying fears—specifically men's fear of failure and women's fear of abandonment—drive relationship conflict. It provides five strategies for healing these personal fears to improve relationshi…
- You’re Not Fighting…You’re Negotiating Power
This episode of Love This Way! explores how many relationship arguments are actually struggles for power and leverage rather than disagreements about specific issues. It argues that love cannot flourish when partners focus on winning.
- You’re Not Incompatible…You’re Emotionally Illiterate
This episode explores how emotional illiteracy can negatively impact relationships, arguing that common conflicts often stem from an inability to identify underlying feelings like hurt, fear, or insecurity rather than true incompatibility.
- The Version of Love You’re Chasing Never Existed
This episode of Love This Way! discusses the distinction between cinematic fantasies of love and the reality of consistent, sustainable partnership. It explores how unmet expectations are often the result of chasing an unrealistic image ra…
- You Don’t Feel Chosen Because You’re Always Available
This episode explores how constant availability can impact feelings of being chosen in relationships. It discusses shifting from being convenient to being intentional to foster deeper connections.
- Why Black Love Is Under Attack — And What We Can Do About It
This episode of Love This Way! examines the external challenges facing Black love, including distraction and division. The host explores ways to protect, rebuild, and redefine Black relationships.
- Who Benefits When You Doubt Yourself?
This episode explores who benefits when an individual experiences self-doubt and provides guidance on reclaiming personal trust and confidence. The discussion focuses on navigating these situations without the need for confrontation or jus…
- Who Are You — and Who Were You Before Someone Told You Who to Be?
This episode explores the concept of rediscovering one's authentic identity before it was shaped or restricted by external expectations and relationship dynamics. It is intended for individuals who feel they have suppressed their personali…
- You Ask for Real Love, Then Reject It When You See It!
This episode explores the reasons why individuals might reject healthy, steady love, arguing that cynicism is often mistaken for wisdom. It encourages listeners to view love as a quiet, healing process rather than something suspicious.
- You Loved Them So Much You Forgot to Love You
This episode explores the emotional consequences of prioritizing others over oneself in relationships. It addresses the feeling of exhaustion and loss of identity that can occur when devotion to someone else comes at the expense of self-lo…
- 2026 The Year You Finally Choose You (Because the Version of You That Settles Can’t Come With You)
In this episode of Love This Way!, the host discusses the decision to prioritize self-worth and move away from settling for unhealthy relationship dynamics. She reflects on choosing personal peace and growth over external validation in the…
- Home for the Holidays—But Not at Peace: The Loneliness No One Talks About
This episode explores the complex experience of feeling lonely or emotionally disconnected while surrounded by family during the holiday season. It emphasizes that true peace is rooted in honesty and emotional safety rather than physical p…
- When You Love Them the Most, They Love You the Least
This episode explores the emotional consequences of neglecting a relationship until it is nearly broken, focusing on the changes in trust and affection that occur over time. It reflects on the impact of repeated conflict and waiting too lo…
- You Keep Calling It Love, But It’s Just Emotional Cannibalism
This episode of Love This Way! examines the difference between toxic patterns in relationships and healthy, nurturing love. It explores how behaviors often labeled as passion can actually be destructive to personal well-being.
- The Death of Accountability: Why Everyone Thinks They’re the Healed One
This episode discusses the importance of personal accountability in the healing process, arguing that growth requires humility rather than ego. It explores the tendency of individuals to blame others while avoiding responsibility for their…
- The Cost of Being the Other Woman: What It Really Takes to Break a Covenant
This episode discusses the consequences of participating in affairs, focusing on the concepts of integrity, accountability, and the impact of broken covenants on personal peace and relationships.
- The Case for Love: Why It’s Still the Most Important Thing We’ll Ever Have
This episode explores the significance of love, arguing that it provides meaning to life and is more important than chasing success or validation. It encourages listeners to prioritize love to avoid future regrets and overcome fear.
- You Can’t Pray for Partnership While Living Like You’re the Only One Who Matters
This episode explores the necessity of selflessness and personal growth in preparing for a committed partnership. It emphasizes that healthy love requires compromise, sacrifice, and a heart prepared to serve others rather than focusing sol…
- When You Think You Can’t Do Better, They’ll Make Sure You Don’t!
This episode discusses how the fear of not finding better options can lead to accepting unhealthy behavior. It explores the relationship between loyalty, desperation, and maintaining self-respect in connections.
- You Want Loyalty From People Who Don’t Even Have Values
This episode explores why people may struggle to receive the loyalty they deserve from others. It discusses the disconnect between expecting loyalty from those who lack foundational values like discipline and integrity.
- Stop Chasing Happiness—Start Choosing Peace
This episode explores the distinctions between fleeting happiness and lasting inner peace. It discusses why seeking happiness as a goal can be unfulfilling and explains the importance of learning stillness to achieve inner calm.
- It’s not who you attract — it’s who you entertain!
This episode of Love This Way explores the difference between being desired and being valued. It encourages listeners to stop settling for people who cannot appreciate their worth and emphasizes the importance of discernment in romantic ch…
- You’re Not Hard to Love—You’re Just Afraid to Be Seen, and Held Accountable
This episode discusses the intersection of vulnerability, accountability, and the capacity to receive love. It explores how feeling safe is a prerequisite for being fully seen and challenged in relationships.
- Why You Keep Getting Played—Even Though You’re the Whole Package
This episode of Love This Way! discusses why people may feel they are being treated unfairly in relationships despite their efforts. It explores the idea that this occurs when individuals offer commitment to those who are not looking for a…
- The Little Girl Who Got Lost in This World
This episode of Love This Way explores themes of healing and self-discovery for women who have felt lost, wounded, or unloved throughout their lives. It offers a message of hope and empowerment, emphasizing that it is possible to find ones…
- Men Aren’t Broken—They’re Starved
This episode explores the concept of emotional starvation in men, suggesting that many are not broken but rather lack emotional nourishment. The discussion focuses on the impact of long-term emotional neglect and the need for support in me…
- You Don’t Want a Partner—You Want a Parent!
This episode discusses the difference between healthy interdependence and unhealthy dependency in relationships, arguing that partners should be equals rather than functioning as parent and child. It emphasizes the importance of emotional…
- Stop Asking If They Love You—Start Asking If They Respect You!
This episode explores the essential role of respect in relationships, arguing that respect is a necessary foundation for true love. It suggests that actions grounded in respect are more meaningful than simple verbal expressions of love.
- They Don’t Hate Commitment—They Hate Accountability
This episode of Love This Way! discusses the distinction between commitment and accountability, suggesting that character, rather than a fear of commitment, is often at the root of relationship difficulties.
- If You Think Men Owe You Money, You’re Already Losing
This episode discusses why approaching romantic relationships with the expectation of financial gain is counterproductive and destructive. The host explores the importance of building genuine connections rather than viewing love as a trans…
- Some People Need You Broken So They Can Feel Whole
This episode explores the dynamics of relationships where others may prefer you to remain broken or dependent. It encourages listeners to prioritize their own healing and personal growth, even if it results in discomfort for those who reli…
- God Sent or Just Sent? When Counterfeit Love Looks Like a Blessing
This episode discusses the importance of discernment in relationships, exploring how to distinguish between genuine, God-sent love and emotional distractions. The host examines how to identify counterfeit partners and avoid confusing perso…
- Are They Your Partner—Or Your Parasite?
This episode of Love This Way explores the dynamics of imbalanced relationships, focusing on the feelings of being over-functioning and underloved. It addresses the emotional toll of carrying a partnership alone.
- You’re Not the Victim—You’re the Problem!
This episode of Love This Way explores how personal behavior and a need for control can negatively impact relationships. It challenges listeners to reflect on their own roles in relationship conflicts rather than viewing themselves solely…
- The People Who Hurt You Still Think They Love You
This episode explores the complex nature of love that does not honor or protect, discussing why people may hurt others despite having good intentions. It covers the difference between love as a feeling and a skill, and how to detach person…
- They Were Never Yours—They Just Broke You while passing Through
This episode explores the experiences of grieving short-term relationships, situationships, and confusing emotional connections that did not last. It offers perspective for those feeling lingering impacts from past connections that were on…
- Blocked Blessings: When How You Treat Her Is Why God Isn’t Answering You
This episode discusses the connection between how a man treats his partner and his spiritual well-being. It explores the idea that personal behavior toward a woman can influence the reception of divine favor.
- You Misunderstood the Proverbs 31 Woman—She’s Not Who You Think She Is
This episode of The Love This Way Podcast discusses common misunderstandings surrounding the Proverbs 31 woman. The hosts address how the figure is frequently misused by both men and women.
- The Truth About Casual Sex: Why Promiscuity Costs More Than You Think
This episode of Love This Way! examines the emotional and personal impacts of casual sex. The host discusses the consequences of sexual promiscuity and outlines five steps for listeners to reclaim their worth and peace.
- You Want Loyalty and Support—But Are You Giving It Back?
This episode of Love This Way! examines the reciprocal nature of relationships, specifically focusing on loyalty, support, and consistency. The host challenges listeners to reflect on whether they are providing the same level of emotional…
- Loving Them is Hurting You: When Hope Keeps You Stuck in a Cycle
This episode discusses the cycle of hope and hurt in relationships where an individual feels stuck waiting for a partner to change. It explores the emotional impact of staying in a pattern of broken promises and repeated relapses.