Kingdom Sexuality
Religion & Spirituality
About
Kingdom Sexuality is the Christian sex podcast for married couples who want a thriving, God-honoring sex life. We’re Alana, Kyle, and Tiera — three friends tackling the questions the church forgot to answer. Through interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q&As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a fulfilling, passionate, and deeply connected sex life. Kingdom Sexuality. The Christian sex podcast that goes where the church won’t. Because yes, Christians can talk about sex too!
Episodes
- 287: The Sex Talk You Never Got with Sam Jolman
In this episode, Kyle and Tiera speak with Sam Jolman about approaching sexuality with awe instead of fear. They discuss the difference between arousal and desire and how reclaiming sensuality can lead to healing and freedom.
- 286: Losing The Lover In The Mother
This episode of Kingdom Sexuality explores the challenges of balancing motherhood, marriage, and personal identity. It addresses the feeling of losing oneself in the role of a mother and offers insights and practical tips for reclaiming id…
- 285: Patron's Choice! Sexual Dreams: Why Do They Happen and What About Wet Dreams?
This episode of Kingdom Sexuality discusses the phenomenon of sexual dreams, addressing common concerns and exploring their connection to emotional processing, faith, and relationships. It also touches upon wet dreams and includes insights…
- 284: "Help! Our Sex Drives Are Different!"
Kingdom Sexuality episode 284 discusses mismatched libido between spouses. Hosts Alana, Kyle, and Tiera offer guidance on communicating openly about differing sex drives, exploring desire types, and finding compromise for a thriving sex li…
- 283: Q&A! Screen-Obsessed Spouse, Oral Sex, Period Sex, Dry Seasons, & More!
In this Q&A episode of Kingdom Sexuality, hosts Alana, Kyle, and Tiera address questions from Christian couples on topics including mismatched libidos, screen-obsessed spouses, period sex, and oral sex. The discussion also covers dry seaso…
- 282: Secrets Will Destroy Your Marriage & Why It's Time To Talk To Your Kids About Porn with Greta and Aaron Eskridge
Greta and Aaron Eskridge join Kingdom Sexuality to share their journey of recovery from betrayal and pornography in their marriage. They discuss the importance of honesty and offer advice for parents on navigating conversations with their…
- 281: When He Finishes Too Fast: A Shame-Free Conversation
Episode 281 of Kingdom Sexuality discusses techniques for lasting longer during sex, addressing premature ejaculation and performance anxiety. It covers practical strategies, mindfulness, pelvic floor exercises, and relational aspects to e…
- 280: How To Have Great Sex During Perimenopause & Menopause
The podcast episode discusses perimenopause and menopause, covering the physical and emotional changes women experience, their effects on sexual health, and provides helpful advice and resources for this life stage.
- 279: Q&A: Morning Erections, My Wife's Body Hair, & Do Pillows Improve Sex?
This episode of Kingdom Sexuality addresses listener questions, covering topics such as morning erections, a spouse's body hair, and whether pillows can enhance sexual experiences. The team also touches on spicing up marriage, sex position…
- 278: Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
Dr. Morgan Cutlip joins Kingdom Sexuality to discuss the mental load in marriage. The episode explores why it causes tension and offers strategies for couples to share responsibilities better, potentially improving their sex lives. Practic…
- 277: Sex Saved Our Marriage with Lindsey Maestas
Lindsey Maestas discusses her marriage journey on Kingdom Sexuality, offering practical tips for reconnecting with a spouse and maintaining intimacy. The episode covers overcoming marital challenges, the impact of technology, and the role…
- 276: Patron's Choice! Sex When You're Mad At Each Other
This episode of Kingdom Sexuality discusses sex during conflict, exploring whether it can be a helpful tool
- 275: Be The Husband God Calls You To Be with Landon Hairgrove
Landon Hairgrove shares his journey of healing from trauma, balancing church planting leadership, and intentionally leading his family. The episode offers advice on emotional health, fostering male relationships, and becoming the man God c…
- 274: Sex, Generational Sin, and Breaking the Cycle in Your Family’s Legacy with Brook Mosser
Brook Mosser joins Kingdom Sexuality to discuss how generational patterns and wounds affect our views on sexuality, marriage, and family. The episode offers insights on identifying these cycles, incorporating faith into the healing process…
- 273: Christians Are Missing God's Design for Sex, Food, and Rest with Justin Whitmel Earley
In episode 273 of Kingdom Sexuality, Justin Whitmel Earley explains how everyday physical practices such as breathing, eating, and sleeping are integral to spiritual growth and align with God's design for human life. Earley suggests that e…
- 272: The Love Language That Matters Most with Dr. Gary Chapman
Dr. Gary Chapman discusses the profound impact of the Five Love Languages on relationships worldwide. This episode explores how personalizing how you love your spouse can transform your connection, with insights from his latest book.
- 271: Have A Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis
Dave and Ashley Willis join Kingdom Sexuality to discuss the importance of prioritizing marriage and maintaining intimacy through life's seasons. They address challenges, spiritual differences, and debunk common myths in Christian marriage…
- 270: The Theology of Sex with Bryan & Bonnie Pue
Kingdom Sexuality episode 270 features Bryan and Bonnie Pue discussing the theology of sex, its connection to faith and relationships, and practical applications for daily life.
- 269: Some BIG NEWS, Our Favorite Episodes of the Year, & Setting Up A Successful Marriage This Year!
The Kingdom Sexuality podcast kicks off the new year with a look back at favorite episodes and highlights from the past year. They also share personal insights and plans for the podcast's future, including a marriage resolution guide.
- 268: What If Your Struggles Are Trying to Tell You Something? with Jay Stringer
In this episode of Kingdom Sexuality, host interviews Jay Stringer about his book "Unwanted." They explore the significant influence of childhood on adult behaviors and discuss how understanding one's past can facilitate healing and person…
- 267: Have A Spicy Christmas + Get To Know The Team!
In this episode of Kingdom Sexuality, the hosts discuss ways to maintain intimacy during the busy Christmas season, sharing listener suggestions and personal traditions. They also reveal how they met and touch upon favorite holiday songs a…
- 266: Ask A Pastor! with Phil Collins
In episode 266, Tiera and Alana host Pastor Phil Collins to discuss the intersection of faith and sexuality. They explore topics such as sex as worship, mutual care in marriage, and the church's role in addressing sensitive subjects.
- 265: Christmas Q&A: Making Christmas PJs Sexy, Disagreeing About Family Time, and The Post-Holiday Letdown
This Q&A episode of Kingdom Sexuality addresses challenges to intimacy during the Christmas season, including holiday stress, low desire, and managing family dynamics. It offers advice on prioritizing each other amidst holiday chaos and de…
- 264: Less Phone, More Intimacy - with Joey Odom
This episode features Joey Odom discussing the impact of phone usage on marital intimacy. The conversation covers data, spiritual self-control, and strategies for couples and churches to navigate technology without sacrificing connection.
- 263: She Got Her PhD in Purity Culture with Ashley Hudson
In this episode, therapist Ashley Hudson explains how shame, fear, and performance pressure from purity culture can affect marital intimacy and discusses potential healing processes.
- 262: Can One Weekend Transform Your Marriage?
Kingdom Sexuality Episode 262 covers the Weekend to Remember marriage retreat. Hosts share their experiences and answer listener questions regarding retreat logistics, costs, spousal involvement, and the impact on their marriages.
- 261: How Often Are Couples Having Sex?
Episode 261 of Kingdom Sexuality addresses the question of how often couples should have sex. It examines research on sexual frequency, advises against comparison, and promotes finding a rhythm that suits individual marriages and life stag…
- 260: Surrendering Sexuality with Dr. Juli Slattery
Dr. Juli Slattery joins Alana and Tiera on Kingdom Sexuality to discuss the Christian concept of surrendering sexuality to God. They explore why believers struggle to trust God with their desires and what surrender entails in daily life.
- 259: How Stress Impacts Your Sex Life
This episode discusses how stress can negatively impact sex life, and explores the science behind stress, the importance of intimacy, and maintaining connection during challenging periods. It references related resources and products.
- 258: Breaking The Vanilla Cycle
This episode discusses how to break out of a repetitive sex life, known as the "vanilla cycle," and reintroduce excitement and creativity. The goal is to make intimacy feel adventurous once more.
- 257: Testosterone: How It Affects Sex For Men and Women
This episode of Kingdom Sexuality discusses how testosterone influences sex drive, energy, and connection for both men and women. It covers identifying signs of hormonal imbalance, the process of testing, and the overall impact of hormones…
- 256: Overcoming Sexual Trauma with Psychotherapist Erin Walsh
This episode features psychotherapist Erin Walsh discussing the impact of past sexual trauma on intimacy, marriage, and faith. It emphasizes God's healing power and the possibility of achieving real intimacy.
- 255: Does More Sleep = More Sex?
This episode of Kingdom Sexuality examines the connection between sleep and sex, referencing scientific and scriptural perspectives. It suggests that prioritizing rest can positively impact marital intimacy, connection, and joy.
- 254: Neurodivergence & Sex: Finding Connection When You’re Wired Differently with Greer Jones
In this episode of Kingdom Sexuality, Greer Jones joins the show to discuss neurodivergence and its impact on marital sex lives. Jones shares insights on ADHD, autism, and sensory differences, providing practical tools and tips for couples…
- 253: Ladies Q&A! Libido in Pregnancy, Intense Orgasms, & Painful Sex
Kingdom Sexuality presents a Q&A episode where hosts Alana and Tiera address listener questions on topics including libido during pregnancy and postpartum, painful sex, and achieving orgasms. They aim to provide supportive and informative…
- 252: Email Q&A! Orgasms Through Mindfulness, Erotic Literature, and Being Divided on Having More Kids
This episode of Kingdom Sexuality features a Q&A session addressing listener questions on achieving orgasms with mindfulness, navigating Christian faith alongside erotic literature, and dealing with disagreements between partners about exp…
- 251: Myth Busters
Episode 251 of Kingdom Sexuality debunks common myths surrounding sex and intimacy in marriage, such as unrealistic expectations from media and assumptions about desire. The hosts aim to reveal the truth about God's design for marital inti…
- 250: Is Your Phone Ruining Your Marriage?
This episode of Kingdom Sexuality discusses how phones can negatively affect marriage by diminishing intimacy, connection, and trust. It offers actionable advice on establishing boundaries and prioritizing relationships over technology.
- 249: Friendship, Sex, and the Way of Jesus with Justin Whitmel Earley
In this episode, Alana and Kyle discuss the essential role of friendship in faith, marriage, and sex lives with author Justin Whitmel Earley. They explore how friendships can meet relational needs and offer guidance on overcoming lonelines…
- 248: When 'The Ick' Creeps In
This episode of Kingdom Sexuality addresses 'the ick,' a phenomenon where a partner's normal behavior causes cringing. The team explores its origins, its effect on intimacy, and provides methods to move past it and enhance connection.
- 247: "Is This Normal?" PART TWO
Episode 247, "Is This Normal?" Part Two of Kingdom Sexuality, continues addressing listener questions about sexual experiences. Topics include awkward initiations, feeling overstimulated, newlywed fears, ADHD in intimate moments, and emoti…
- 246: "Is This Normal?" PART ONE
Episode 246 of Kingdom Sexuality, titled "Is This Normal?" PART ONE, discusses common sexual concerns submitted by listeners. The hosts tackle topics such as quick finishes, post-orgasm sensations, and arousal triggers in a shame-free disc…
- 245: Q&A! Male Lingerie, Wedding Night Orgasms, Masturbation Instead of Sex, and more!
This Q&A episode of Kingdom Sexuality addresses listener questions on topics such as male lingerie, wedding night orgasms, masturbation, and Shibari, with nothing off the table.
- 244: Couples Who Play Together, Lay Together
This episode of Kingdom Sexuality explores the idea that shared fun, like mini golf or dancing, can be the secret to a stronger marriage, leading to deeper intimacy and connection.
- 243: Car Sex: Road Head, Steamy Windows, & Our Research
Episode 243 of Kingdom Sexuality discusses car sex for Christian couples, covering its legality, practicalities, and creative potential. The hosts offer tips and biblical encouragement for intimacy in various vehicles.
- 242: Help! I'm a Low Libido Husband!
Episode 242 of Kingdom Sexuality addresses husbands with a lower sex drive, reassuring them they are not broken. The episode explores how to maintain healthy intimacy when desire levels differ, emphasizing confidence, communication, and gr…
- 241: Q&A: Titty Tuesday, Pool Sex, & Losing Attraction
Episode 241 of Kingdom Sexuality features a Q&A session addressing listener questions on diverse topics including postpartum libido, workplace temptation, 'Titty Pic Tuesday,' and pool sex. The episode aims to provide insights relevant to…
- 240: How To Make Sex A Priority
This episode of Kingdom Sexuality discusses the importance of prioritizing intimacy in a relationship and offers practical strategies for making sex a priority, even amidst a busy life.
- 239: Can Music Make Sex Better?
This episode discusses whether music can improve sexual experiences and how Christians approach listening to music during intimacy. The conversation aims to help listeners achieve deeper connection with their spouse.
- 238: Patron’s Choice! All About Aphrodisiacs
This episode of Kingdom Sexuality delves into the world of aphrodisiacs, examining the effectiveness of substances like chocolate and oysters. It discusses what is considered myth versus what is scientifically supported regarding their abi…