How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast
Psychology & Relationships
About
How to Get the Girl (formerly Ask Women ) is the podcast where men finally learn what actually works with women. Hosted by Your Wing Girl, Marni Kinrys, and banter coach Kristen Carney, this weekly show breaks down attraction, dating, confidence, and communication — without the guesswork, games, or outdated advice. Every week, we bring you real talk from regular women, celebrities, relationship experts, and strong, opinionated females who tell you exactly what makes them lean in… and what makes them walk away. No fluff. No theory. Just honest female insight and practical tools you can use immediately to get the girl — and keep her. New episodes every week.
Episodes
- Ep. 565 HOOK HER With Your Style
Some men resist leveling up their style. But here is the truth. You are hurting your chances with women if you ignore how you show up. This is a rerun episode and it is one you should not skip. Because style is not about being flashy or fa…
- Ep. 564 How to be Masculine
Shawn Haywood from ReimagineLove.com is here to share what it really means to be masculine. This is a rerun episode but it is one you need to hear. Because being masculine is not something you just turn on once and you are done. It is some…
- (Video) What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money)
🔥 FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet — The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: 👉 https://winggirlmethod.com/kit 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands…
- The Biggest Female TURN ON of ALL Time? (Over 10,000 Women Surveyed)
Become A Man Women Want NOW (Go Here): https://becomeamanwomenwant.com/ Do you know the one thing that turns a woman on… MORE than anything else? It’s NOT status, money, height or good looks. In fact, it’s NOT even confidence, sense of hum…
- How To "Attract" Women WITHOUT Saying A Word | The "Natural" Effect
Learn to do AFTER the attraction phase to keep the girl here: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/beyond_attraction_skills In this episode, Marni reveals 3 scientific reason why SIZE doesn't matter to women. It is a false belief that so many gu…
- Here’s Why Flirting FAILS on 90% of Women
🔥 Download the FREE DISC Chart Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/downdisc 📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://winggirlmethod.com/bookcall Why does the same flirting move work on o…
- How To "Attract" Women WITHOUT Saying A Word | The "Natural" Effect
Want to flirt like a pro with women? Get the F Formula NOW: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/get-flirty-now Did you know that it's possible to attract women WITHOUT saying a single word? It's true and it's doable by ANY man... YES even you ;…
- Private Message From Marni
The Ask Women Podcast is getting a little facelift. Moving forward our show will be called What Turns Women On and we’ll air 2 episodes a week. Same heart. Same purpose and same goal of helping amazing men get the women they want and becom…
- Ep. 563 Misconceptions Of What Women Want
What women want is one of the most misunderstood topics in dating and this episode proves exactly why. In this throwback conversation Marni sits down with comedian Graham Elwood for a candid funny and sometimes controversial discussion abo…
- Ep. 562 A Bad Boy Women Want
The friend zone does not get you in the end zone. In this throwback episode we break down what women actually mean when they say they want a bad boy and how to embody those traits without being arrogant cold or disrespectful. We talk about…
- Ep. 561 How to Escape the Friend Zone
Dun dun dunnnn. The dreaded friend zone. We have all landed there and it can feel like the Bermuda Triangle of dating. Once you are in it feels nearly impossible to get out. In this throwback episode we break down why the friend zone happe…
- Ep. 560 What Really Turns Women On
Most dating advice is generic outdated and honestly pretty cringey. In this episode Marni sits down with Dr Jennifer Berman New York Times bestselling author and renowned urologist to have an honest conversation about attraction emotional…
- Ep. 559 How To Build Real Self-Esteem
This episode is a throwback to one of our most powerful conversations on self esteem and it is just as relevant today as ever. Building real self esteem is not something most people are taught how to do. It feels big overwhelming and confu…
- Ep. 558 Why Being “Nice” Makes You Invisible to Women
Most men think attraction is built by being polite, respectful, and safe. But that’s exactly why so many women feel nothing, even when the guy checks all the boxes. In this episode, Marni breaks down the biggest misunderstanding men have a…
- Ep. 557 How to Spark Attraction in the First 30 Seconds
Approaching women in public is rarer than ever, which means if you can do it well, you instantly stand out. In this episode, Marni and Kristen break down the real “first impression” stuff that actually matters: your face, your eyes, your s…
- Ep. 556 What Alpha Really Means Today
We are throwing it back to a classic conversation about what it really means to be an alpha man today. Our guest Kevin Aillaud breaks down the qualities that make a man grounded, confident, and in charge of his own life. Kevin lives what h…
- Ep. 555 Throwback: How To Be a Pick Up Artist with Vince Kelvin
Enjoy this special throwback episode where Marni sits down with seduction coach Vince Kelvin to talk about dating, attraction, confidence, and how men can naturally get better with women. Vince breaks down actionable insights, useful techn…
- Ep. 553 No-BS Guide to Dating Women in Their 40's
Today’s throwback episode of the Ask Women Podcast brings on a single mother who pulls zero punches when it comes to dating past 40. She’s direct, she’s no-BS, and she’s not here to sugarcoat anything for your ego — she’s here to tell you…
- Ep. 554 Throwback! The Relationship Doctor Is In (with Bob Grant)
We’re taking it way back to a classic 2016 episode! “The Relationship Doctor” himself, Bob Grant , calls in to share timeless insights on attraction, connection, and what makes relationships actually work . Bob’s a renowned dating expert a…
- Ep. 553 The Instincts That Make Women Want You (and Repel Them Too)
This week, we’re going primal 🧠🔥 Author and evolutionary psychology expert Tim Ash joins us to talk about his new book Primal Dating, a brutally honest guide to understanding the instincts that secretly drive attraction, love, and relati…
- Ep. 552 Getting Her Out of Her Head and Into Her Body
Most men think women already know how to access that deeply sensual, turned-on version of themselves, but the truth is, a lot of women have never actually been guided into their own bodies before. They’re in their heads, second-guessing, p…
- Ep. 551 Why Happiness = Hotness (w/ Happiness Coach Robert Mack)
We’re throwing it back to one of our most powerful Ask Women episodes — where we explore why being happy isn’t just good for your soul, it’s magnetic . Studies show that the happier you are, the more attractive you become to the opposite s…
- Ep. 550 How to Handle Flaky Women - Throwback
We’re throwing it back to the Ask Women days! Comedian Nick Guerra joins Marni and Kristen for a classic “Over Analyze This” episode where we dive into listener letters and answer your biggest dating questions. From how to handle jealousy…
- Ep. 549 Show Confidence Around Women You LIKE
On this week’s How to Get the Girl , we’re joined by Adam Woolard — husband to Bachelorette star Hannah Brown, VP of Business Development at Joi+Blokes, and a guy who knows firsthand what it’s like to feel intimidated by a woman. We dive i…
- Ep. 548 How to Date When You’re New in Town
Moving to a new city can feel like hitting the reset button—new streets to explore, new friends to make, and a whole new dating scene to figure out. In this throwback episode (originally aired 6.15.16, Ep. 67), Marni and Kristen talk with…
- Ep. 547 COVID Changed Dating… But These 20-Something Secrets Haven’t Changed
This week, we’re bringing you a throwback episode that’s just as valuable today as when it first aired. We sat down with Abby — a hot, young, single twenty-something — to get the unfiltered inside scoop on what dating in your 20s is really…
- Why In-Person Coaching Changes Everything - Bonus Episode!
In this bonus episode of How to Get the Girl , Kristen sits down with Dave Stultz from Limitless Brave to talk about something that can completely shift your dating life: the power of working with a coach in person. We break down why nothi…
- Ep. 546 Porn, Dating, and What Women Really Think (with Dr. Kayte)
This episode is anything but a lecture. In fact, we kick things off with a totally candid 10-minute conversation between me, Kristen, and our guest Dr. Kayte about our own porn patterns - genres, likes, dislikes - proving that yes, we ALL…
- Ep. 545 Freshly Divorced and Dating Like a Pro
Dating at 49 isn’t about playing games — it’s about knowing who you are, what you want, and not being afraid to say it out loud. On this episode of How to Get the Girl , we sit down with Rachel Birch, host of the award-winning podcast Love…
- Ep. 544 The Smart Penis Ring & The Future of Men’s Sexual Health
When it comes to men’s health, your penis might be saying more than you think. On this episode of How to Get the Girl , we sit down with Dr. Elliot Justin — physician, innovator, and creator of the world’s first smart penis ring — to talk…
- Ep. 543 Building Connection and Chemistry Through Communication
Communication is the foundation of every great relationship, but for so many people, it’s also the biggest struggle. In this episode, we’re joined by Suzanne Tabachnick, founder of Social Foundations , a supportive community dedicated to h…
- Ep. 542 The Pursuit Playbook and Decoding Her Signals
How do you know when to pursue, when to pull back, and when to stop altogether? In this throwback episode, we sit down with Emmy-nominated producer and casting director Tanya Bershadsly to break down the art of pursuit. We dive into the si…
- Ep. 540 Online Dating Mistakes Every Man Makes (and How to Fix Them)
This week, is a serious DON'T MISS. We sit down with Erin Keating, creator of the brand and podcast Hotter Than Ever , dedicated to dating over 50, to reveal the unfiltered truths men need to hear. While Erin’s show focuses on dating later…
- Ep. 539 How to Be Vulnerable Without Looking Weak (Throwback Ep!)
This one’s from the vault back when the show was called Ask Women — so don’t be confused by the old name drop! The advice still holds up (and then some). In this episode, we’re joined by Adam Wayne , Marni’s personal coach, to talk about o…
- Ep. 538 How to Bounce Back from a Bad 1st Impression
In this throwback episode, we get all too relatable talking about making a bad first impression. Made a weird joke? Came on too strong? Forgot how to speak English the second she looked at you? We’ve all been there—and this week, we’re tal…
- Ep. 537 Confidence Isn’t a Mystery, It’s a Skill (with Alpha M)
We’re throwing it back to one of our most downloaded episodes with none other than Alpha M , the #1 men’s lifestyle influencer, Aaron Marino . In this conversation, we unpack the truth about confidence: where it actually comes from, why mo…
- Ep. 536 Emotional Intelligence: A Trait Women CRAVE
If you struggle to read women, constantly misinterpret signals, or feel like there’s a disconnect no matter how hard you try, this episode is for you. We’re joined by Empathetic Leadership Coach Jevon Wooden to unpack the power of Emotiona…
- Ep. 535 Sexual Shame No More!
In this episode of How to Get the Girl (formerly known as Ask Women) , Kristen and Marni are joined by certified sex therapist Dr. Tina Shermer to tackle one of the biggest silent confidence-killers for men: sexual shame . Whether it’s sha…
- Ep. 534 How to Turn Jealousy Into Sexual Chemistry
🎙️ Heads up! We’re playing around with new titles for the show! Right now, we’re rolling with "How to Get the Girl" by Ask Women , but stay tuned for another possible rebrand 👀 This week, we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood e…
- Ep. 533 How to Ask for What You Want AND Actually Get It
It’s time to STOP sabotaging yourself—and start asking for what you actually want. This week, we’re joined by Brad DeMint , host of the How to Win podcast and a powerhouse salesman who knows how to close deals and create clarity. Brad brea…
- Ep. 532 Let’s Talk About the Penis: Performance, ED, and What Women Really Think
This week, Marni is joined by the one and only Susan Bratton, intimacy expert to millions, for a no-holds-barred conversation all about the penis. From performance anxiety to erectile dysfunction, we’re breaking down the most common issues…
- Ep. 531 Style That Makes Women DROOL
This week, Marni and Kristen break down the jaw-dropping style moments from a men's networking event — where the men weren’t just dressed well... they were dressed like MEN . Smart. Sophisticated. And undeniably sexy. The ladies dive into:…
- Ep. 530 Unlocking Confidence and Why Women Do and Don't Date Older Men
Kristen and Marni are joined by special guest Kelly Tao , one of Marne’s original wing girls, for a powerful conversation on confidence —how to access the confidence already within you, how to keep it consistent, and how to let it multiply…
- Ep. 529 Crush Approach Anxiety with the Power of Precise Language
What if changing just a few words could completely shift your confidence and attraction levels? In this powerful episode, we welcome back language and mindset expert Spencer Burnett to dive deep into the concept of precise language —how th…
- Ep. 528 Break Free: How Hidden Trauma Is Running Your Life (And How to Stop It)
Trauma - we all have it. Whether it’s loud and obvious or quiet and buried, your past experiences are shaping your present more than you might realize. In this powerful episode, we’re joined by trauma expert Tori Helf (Janae), who breaks d…
- Ep. 527 Be a Detective in the Bedroom: How to Read Her and Please Her
In this episode, we’re joined by Celeste Hirschman, co-creator of the Somatica® Method and co-founder of the Somatica Institute. Celeste is a somatic sex coach who specializes in helping men and women create deeper, more connected, and mor…
- Ep. 526 Unlocking Your Dark Side to Attract Women
What if your “dark side” was the key to unlocking deeper confidence, attraction, and connection in your relationships? In this episode, Adam Skoda — host of The Masculine Mindset Show , author of 77 Ways to Develop a Masculine Mindset , an…
- Ep. 525 The Secret Weapon You’re Ignoring: Your Imperfections
This week, we’re flipping the script on what you think women want. Yes, your so-called "shortcomings" (the things you’re not proud of) can actually attract women when you know how to use them the right way. And our amazing guest - fiery re…
- Ep. 524 Rewire Your Mind, Win her Attraction: The Hypnosis Hack
We’re joined by charisma and hypnosis coach Wendy Packer, who shares how you can literally rewire your subconscious to become more confident, magnetic, and successful with women. Wendy dives into practical, powerful tools to help you erase…
- Ep. 523 Unlocking Arousal: The Many Pathways to Pleasure
In this juicy and eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the many ways women experience arousal - with a refreshingly honest look at the full spectrum of desire. Joined by sex and intimacy expert Melissa Louise, we explore the concept of a…