Highly Melanated Podcast
Society & Culture
About
Hosted by PJ, Blair & Red A safe space for you to enjoy every bit of your melanin no matter how "melanated" you are in skin tone, we are ALL Highly Melanated.Come enjoy funny and dynamic conversations that people of color face on a day to day basis with various topics such as loving ourselves, knowing who we are as a people and uplifting each other with a mix of class and rachetness (CLATCHETNESS)
Episodes
- The Mental Health Check-In We Can't Avoid
We start with hilarious travel talk and end up doing the kind of honest mental health check-in many of us keep putting off. We name what’s heavy, what helps us cope, and what we’re proud of surviving right now without pretending everything…
- Leading With Love Should Not Start A Fight
We talk about how people get boxed into labels and why social media makes judgment feel like a public hobby. We unpack the KevOnStage backlash, church culture, and what it looks like to share honest opinions without acting like we’re bette…
- Highly Melanated Jeopardy
The world feels loud right now, and sometimes it’s hard to remember there’s still good happening every day. We start where a lot of us are living: irritated by endless spam calls and texts, side-eyeing how our data gets used, and asking wh…
- Money, Love & Melanin
We weigh the viral $300K dating rule against real-life alignment, then celebrate Black representation that turns “not our lane” into everyday excellence. From Cool Runnings to indie projects, we connect money talk, standards, and the power…
- New Year: Still Melanated!
We hold space for grief, name the compassion gap, and still choose joy. Music, health, routine, and community become tools to slow down, show up, and build a life that feels like ours. • naming the weight of public violence and empathy bur…
- Guess Who's Coming To Dinner - Highly Melanated Edition
Happy Thanksgiving To Everyone!! in this episode we comprise our own list on who is coming to dinner and what are they bringing. Would you come to eat at the manor? Who would be your guest? Follow US IG: https://www.instagram.com/highlymel…
- Be Prepared & Start Planning w. Shawnette
As a licensed Funeral Director and Pre-planning expert, Shawnette Mitchell comes to the Melanin Manor to talk about the ins and outs of planning for the inevitable. This is a real conversation about what no one wants to ever really talk ab…
- Malcolm Jamal Warner's Impact and the Fragility of Life
There's something powerful about returning to a space that feels like home. After a brief hiatus, the Highly Melanated Podcast crew reunites with renewed energy and deeper perspectives on life, legacy, and the impact we leave behind. The e…
- Black Television's Evolution and Impact
What does Black television reveal about our culture, and how has its evolution shaped the way we see ourselves? When the hosts of Highly Melanated reunite after a brief hiatus, they dive deep into the powerful impact Black sitcoms have had…
- Childless But Opinionated: When Non-Parents Have Something To Say
Ever noticed how your perfectly reasonable parenting suggestions get immediately dismissed with "You don't have kids, so you wouldn't understand"? The Highly Melanated Podcast team tackles this frustrating double standard head-on, creating…
- Apology Languages: Understanding How We Receive "I'm Sorry"
We discover how differently we receive and process apologies through a quiz that reveals our "apology languages" - similar to love languages but focused on how we prefer people to express remorse. • Exploring the five apology languages: ac…
- Stop Spending: Start Thriving! feat. Sha-Rhonda Wilson
Financial freedom is about facing uncomfortable truths and taking actionable steps to change your habits. In this episode, we share crucial insights about spending, saving, and investing wisely. In the Highly Melanated Manor we have the pl…
- Turn His TV Off: What Influence Can Do
Ever wondered what truly defines a thirst trap? We've got you covered as we explore the playful nuances of these social media phenomena. Join us on a lively journey through sweet debates over soda flavors and nostalgic cultural nods that w…
- Wait A Minute... What's Your One Wish?
We explore the power of wishing and how those desires can shape our realities. Reflecting on personal and communal aspirations, we emphasize the importance of self-care and unity within the Black community to turn dreams into actionable ch…
- Highly Melanated Confessions: We Listen and We Don't Judge
Ever wondered why your morning routine might be the secret weapon you've been overlooking? We've cracked the code on how starting your day without immediately scrolling through your phone can lead to unexpected personal victories. From the…
- Finding Purpose: Faith, Community, and Personal Reflections
***PREVIOUSLY RECORDED 11/27*** Can you imagine finding your true purpose in unexpected roles and experiences? Join PJ and Blair as they take the helm of the Highly Melanated Podcast while Red is exploring the vibrant culture of Ghana. We…
- Living Kringle: An Homage to Living Single - OUT NOW!
CHECK OUT LIVING KRINGLE from Hey Girl Hey Productions What happens when creativity meets procrastination head-on? Join us as we share our personal struggles with content creation and the constant tug-of-war between inspiration and deadlin…
- Pre-Election Day Results: Unity in Disarray
Have you ever wondered why we often find success in roles that don't fit the traditional definition of victory? Join us as we reflect on the emotional significance of Kamala Harris's vice-presidency and grapple with the complex choices mad…
- Melanated Boys Club: Finding Strength in Facing Fear
Ever found yourself running from a 'Jason' during a family Halloween game, only to laugh about it later? We kick off this episode by sharing personal stories that blend humor and reflection, looking back at a year of unexpected changes and…
- Melanated Boys Club: Health Beyond the Scale and Aesthetics
Life's unexpected twists often leave us navigating new paths, and this time, we're exploring those shifts without our beloved co-host, Blair. Imagine considering a career in mortuary services amidst Libra season's astrological shifts. As w…
- Alexa STOP!: Is technology leaving you behind?
Whether it's the eerie accuracy of AI or the comforting reassurance of voice-activated emergency features, we're weighing the safety benefits against the encroaching presence of technology. As we explore the balance between embracing innov…
- Getting Punched In The Throat With Words w/ Jaquita
Prepare to be inspired as we break down the walls of self-identity and determination in this powerful episode, featuring the sharp insights of political strategist Jaquita . We kick off with a bold message about taking control of our dream…
- Staying Present: From Kegels to Living in the Moment
Ever wonder why a cup of coffee at your local café costs more than your homemade brew? Get ready to join us for a hilariously relatable start as we debate the merits of coffee shop prices versus our do-it-yourself coffee adventures. Meet t…
- Juneteenth Reflections: Journey to True Freedom
Technical difficulties couldn't keep us down! After losing three fantastic episodes, we're back and determined to reconnect with you. We catch up on all the conversations we missed, from hilarious pop culture moments to personal stories th…
- Acknowledging the Power of Black Women's Legacy
Join us for a heartfelt homage to the indomitable Black women who've played pivotal roles in our lives and continue to pave the way in fields as diverse as the NFL and the arts. Rounding off our kaleidoscope of conversations, we shine a sp…
- Trust Yet Verify: The Unseen Battles of Love
Relationships often feel like navigating a labyrinth blindfolded, but with each year's wisdom, we're learning to trust the touch of the walls. Joins us to dissect the intricacies of romance, from the excitement of new love to the sobering…
- Drive This Bus Man: Tyler Perry's Pen May Need A Break
Have you ever sprinted to catch a bus, only to have it zoom past you in a blur frustration? 'Bus Driver Chronicles,' we share stories that illustrate the comedic agony of public transit and the surprising moments of human connection that m…
- Do You Want It All: Recognize, Regulate & Refrain w/ Lakiah
They say laughter is the best medicine, and who better to prescribe a dose than our special guest, Lakiah - a psychotherapist who is helping you stress less and set healthy boundaries without the struggle & guilt. With 7 plus years of expe…
- On My Mama: It's Time For A Hard Pivot
Have you ever caught yourself mid-chuckle, realizing you're turning into your parents? Or felt the sting of a memory brought on by a familiar tune? Our latest episode is a heartfelt mosaic of reflections, ramblings, and revelations, weavin…
- New Year! Same Melanated Thundercats!
Well it's 2024 & THE QUACK ATTACK IS BACK JACK! We aren't a reboot, we are the real thing So how do you feel about reboots, all this Nicki drama and a bunch of other things we have missed while we were away.... Follow US IG: https://www.in…
- Groove Into the New Year: Celebrating Triumphs and Embracing Tomorrow's Rhythms
As the sun sets on 2023, we're wrapping things up with a heart full of gratitude and the electric anticipation of what's next. Our final episode is a vibrant mixtape of laughter, culture, and profound connections, featuring the magnetic sp…
- Journey into the Beyhive: Unpacking Beyoncé's Cultural Influence
Ever get the feeling of awe and inspiration after watching a powerful movie or concert? That's exactly what we, Blair and PJ, experienced - and a whole lot more - after the mind-blowing experience of Beyoncé's "Renaissance" film. From witn…
- Authenticity Unfiltered: Social Media's Impact on Self-Perception
What if social media was secretly sabotaging your mental well-being and self-image? Sit back and join us in a thought-provoking conversation on the Highly Melanated Podcast about the impact of social media, filters, and the pressures of be…
- Racing to the Ballot Box
What happens when you forget it's Election Day, and you're in the middle of recording a podcast? Well, you'll just have to tune in to this hilarious and chaotic episode of Highly Melanated to find out! Prepare yourself for an unexpected tw…
- Costumes, Controversies, and Core Values: Navigating the Maze of Changing Generational Norms
Remember the electrifying thrill of being in the studio for the Sherri Show? This week, PJ brings up his sensational time he had in the audience as Miss Tina Lawson brought her unique spirit and vivacity, embodying our celebration of life…
- Digital Shadows: A Look at Social Media's Dark Side
Have you ever reflected on how social media is affecting our lives? Imagine exploring the landscape of this digital age with our beloved metaphysical minister and dear friend, Danielle M Holdman . With her, we reminisce about the joyous ce…
- Keep Our Ears Out of the Chat: Respect, Revelations, and Relationships
What happens when we shine a light on the toxic behaviors in our relationships and the importance of setting personal boundaries? This episode is a rollercoaster ride through the maze of intimacy, respect, and the complexities of human dyn…
- Belt Loops and Love Languages: A Dive Into Manifesting The Relationships We Want
Ever pondered why sagging pants can be a captivating fashion statement or why belts have such a profound impact on our perception of others? Well, you're in for a treat. We go deep exploring these fashion choices, not forgetting to shine a…
- Mercury Retrograde Meets Those Sorry Not Sorry Moments: The Delicate Art of Apologies
Have you ever wondered what the big deal is about Mercury Retrograde and why everyone seems to be in a tizzy when it's on? Tune in as we unravel the complexities of this astral event and its fascinating effects on our lives - it's not all…
- From Empty Nesting to Holistic Healing: A Fresh Smelling Perspective on Health with Dr. Tiffany M Smith
Are you ready to redefine your health and wellness journey? Join us as we delve into an enlightening conversation with the knowledgeable Dr. Tiffany M Smith, exploring everything from the distinct joys and challenges of being a black DJ to…
- Strobe Lights & Anal Probes: Journey Through the Cosmos Here To Earth
Ever wondered whether extraterrestrials could not only visit us, but also take over Earth? Or whether we could end up having an 'alien date night'? Our latest episode takes you on a cosmic journey as we ponder these questions and more. We…
- Oops Upside Your Head: Paying Homage To 50 Years of Hip-Hop & The Power of a Folding Chair
Ever wondered how the world of hip hop music connects to the essence of being unapologetically black? That's where PJ, Blair and Red, come in. We're here to navigate you through a journey, from personal anecdotes about our week to paying t…
- Exploring the Depths of Swimwear Semantics and Childhood Nostalgia
What if the words we use to describe our swimwear were more than just words? What if they carried implications that we might not even be aware of? This week on Highly Melanated, we ponder this very question, teasing out the nuances of swim…
- Blue and Yellow Makes Green: Giggles, Gadgets, and Green Flags
Ever got a random WhatsApp message from a suspicious number? You're not alone, Melanated fam! We're cracking up about the perils of phone number security and sharing our bizarre experiences of finding explicit images on public transport. T…
- Get The Grease: Burn Them Red Flags
We breakdown some interesting red flags we have noticed in different aspects of not just our lives but life in general. Question of the Week: How do you feel about prom season and the way the younger generation dresses for prom? Follow US…
- Pride Playlist: What Music Gives You Pride
In this episode we just talk about music and think of some songs that make us proud in several different aspects of our day to day lives Follow US IG: https://www.instagram.com/highlymelanatedpodcast Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/H_Mela…
- For Anxious Girls feat. Ritha Pierre
In this episode we are joined with Ritha Pierre to discuss her recent documentary, "For Anxious Girls". We have an in depth conversation on how anxiety and depression effects professional Black women and ways that we can help as a society…
- No More White Lies: Black Minds Matter
In this episode we are joined with someone's auntie Tanisha Malcom to have an in-depth conversation on Mental Health & the disparities from the personal perspective of lived experience. Welcome Tanisha Malcom to the Highly Melanated Family…
- Intentionally Minding The Business Of Me feat. Samiyrah Bennett LCSW
Ask yourself this question: WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ON PURPOSE? In this episode we have the pleasure of having Samiyrah Bennett, LCSW as a guest to talk more about her book, mental health awareness and what it means to intentionally mind…
- 5 Years & Counting: Taking Inventory pt. 2
In this episode we celebrate 5 whole years of doing this podcast with a sincere and genuine conversation about what we've learned about ourselves and life in these 5 years. Audio Credit: TLC - It's Sunny (We do not own the rights to this m…