He Said, She Said
Psychology & Relationships
About
Louise Thompson and Ryan Libbey are entering their most open chapter yet…He Said, She Said brings listeners into honest, unfiltered conversations about life as partners, parents and individuals, including a new fertility journey they’ve chosen to share.From relationships to parenting and the realities of growing a family, Louise and Ryan explore the big stuff with openness and vulnerability, balanced by lighter moments from everyday family life.New episodes every Wednesday. Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, or wherever you get your podcasts. Plus watch on YouTube from 5pm! Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcastInstagram | TikTok | Youtube | Hosted on Acast. Se...
Episodes
- “I Am Absolutely Terrified of This” - Ryan Opens Up About Something Deeply Personal
In this episode, Ryan discusses his personal experience with his grandma's dementia and his feelings about change. The hosts also cover topics including sleepovers and their thoughts on reality television.
- Why I’m Fighting for a Maternity Commissioner in the UK...
Louise and Ryan discuss the call for a maternity commissioner in the UK, with Louise sharing her personal experiences regarding maternity care. They also cover a range of other topics, including parenting and location sharing.
- “We could have a baby by NEXT YEAR” - The Turning Point in our Surrogacy Journey
Louise and Ryan discuss their surrogacy journey, parenting, and taking time for themselves. They share a significant surrogacy update and address a listener question about navigating difficult times.
- What Do We Really Want Our Next Baby to be… Boy or Girl?
Louise and Ryan discuss their preferences for the sex of their next child, as well as their fears about parenting in the current world. They also touch on topics like screen time, setting boundaries, Louise's decision to become sober, and…
- Sam & Karen Thompson on MIC Drama, Heated Arguments & an Overdue Apology...
Sam and Karen Thompson join Louise to discuss family dynamics, including apologies and their experiences on Made in Chelsea. They share insights into their family dynamic and address listener questions about topics like Sam as an uncle and…
- The Moment Louise Nearly Broke Her Five Year Sobriety
Louise and Ryan share details from their Antigua trip, including finding Louise's engagement ring and how their IVF journey impacted their holiday. They also discuss changes to holidays with children, a debate about children in pubs, and t…
- The REAL Reason We’re Not Married Yet…
In this birthday-themed episode of He Said, She Said, Louise and Ryan discuss why Louise dislikes her birthday and reveal the reasons they are not married after an eight-year engagement. The episode also features surprise gifts and a speci…
- Why We Clash (and Still Make It Work)
Louise and Ryan discuss the challenges of traveling as parents, differing holiday planning styles, and adjusting to life with a stoma bag. They also explore love languages, Type A versus Type B personalities, the Bonnie Blue viral story, a…
- What our 4-year-old REALLY thinks of us...
In this episode of He Said, She Said, the hosts discuss travelling with a four-year-old in Scotland, the debate over couples sharing a bed, and reflections on Mother's Day. They are also joined by their son, Leo, for an honest review of hi…
- Louise’s Dad Reacts to THAT Made in Chelsea Scene for the First Time EVER
Louise’s dad, Mike Thompson, joins the podcast to discuss his daughter’s childhood, family life, and his reaction to a specific Made in Chelsea scene. The episode also covers his thoughts on Love Island, Gen Z slang, and his advice for his…
- Louise Reads Her Teenage Diary...From Heartbreak to Advice
Louise and Ryan discuss Sam Thompson's post-surgery recovery and share personal relationship quirks. Louise reads entries from her teenage diary, and they later explore Ryan's motivation for an Ironman and the broader conversation regardin…
- We Finally Address The Adoption Comments…
In this episode, Louise and Ryan discuss a variety of topics, including Louise's online foot fan club, a past social media interaction with Lily Allen, pregnancy in the spotlight, and their stance on adoption. They also address recent publ…
- Ten Years Later… Would We Still Choose Each Other?
Louise and Ryan recreate their first date to mark ten years together. They discuss their initial impressions, perspectives on dating and relationships, the realities of parenting, and share Valentine's Day reflections and stories.
- Ryan Opens Up About a Big Personal Decision...
In this episode, Ryan shares his personal experience with a hair transplant, discussing the decision, its emotional impact, and the need for open dialogue about men's confidence and self-image. Louise and Ryan also provide an update on the…
- Our First Time Sharing Our Surrogacy Journey Publicly...
Ryan and Louise discuss their fertility journey and decision to pursue surrogacy. They also share updates on their family life, personal reflections, and their experiences as parents in this honest conversation.
- Welcome to Our New Chapter of He Said, She Said...
He Said, She Said returns for a new chapter covering parenting, relationships, and individual life experiences. New episodes will be released every Wednesday beginning on January 28th.
- The end of He Said, She Said?!
In the final episode of He Said, She Said (for now), hosts Louise and Ryan announce their decision to take a break. They share favorite conversations, discuss what the podcast taught them, and reveal their future plans and the next iterati…
- Ryan caught Khloé Kardashian's attention?!
In this episode of He Said, She Said, hosts Louise and Ryan discuss Ryan's recent viral fame after interacting with celebrities like Khloé Kardashian. They also touch upon personal anecdotes, current events, and the idea of relocating inte…
- The most savage DMs we’ve ever received…
In this Ask Us Anything episode, Louise and Ryan share their big dreams beyond parenthood and read some of the most savage DMs they have received. They also touch on potential Ted Talk topics and frequently asked questions.
- Rick Stein or Mike Thompson?!
Louise and Ryan return to discuss boarding school experiences and debate generational work ethics. Louise recounts a notable encounter with Rick Stein following a viral TikTok, while Ryan shares skincare tips.
- Debunking people’s biggest assumptions about us…
In this 'Ask Us Anything' episode, hosts Louise and Ryan address listener questions. They cover topics like desert island essentials, debunking common assumptions about themselves, Ryan's visit to McLaren HQ, Louise's all-time favorite alb…
- The X-rated ‘production room’...
Ryan prepares for the National Television Awards, discussing suit fittings and red carpet plans while navigating recent fertility tests. Louise recounts her smear test experience, and the hosts address a listener seeking dating advice.
- Has Louise accidentally joined a cult?!
In this 'Ask Us Anything' episode, hosts Louise and Ryan discuss writing Real Housewives taglines, childhood fears, and share a school story. Louise also hints at potentially joining a cult.
- We’re putting our house on Airbnb?!
In this episode, Louise and Ryan discuss a troubling Airbnb guest incident, Bonnie Blue, and the Notting Hill Carnival. They also touch on Ryan's thoughts on watching the news and Louise's concerns about the future impact of weight-loss dr…
- Will we let Leo watch Made in Chelsea?
In this 'Ask Us Anything' episode, Louise and Ryan explore topics like 24-hour anonymity, the lessons they want Leo to learn, and the decision about him watching 'Made in Chelsea'. They also touch on Ryan's preferred Disney villain and off…
- Louise and Sam’s argument cost Ryan £800?!
Louise and Ryan return from Marbella discussing family holidays, an argument between Sam and Louise that cost Ryan £800, and listener questions about maintaining identity during motherhood.
- Secrets we’ve NEVER told our parents…until now
Louise and Ryan host an Ask Us Anything episode, debating flirting and relationships. Ryan also shares a wild teenage secret he had never told his parents before.
- Where we’re REALLY at with our fertility journey…
Louise and Ryan reflect on their yearly goals as autumn approaches, discussing their fertility journey and Ryan's recent health challenges and fitness aspirations. They also mention a promotion for designing a Diet Coke can.
- Louise and Ryan plan their DREAM hen and stag dos!
In this Ask Us Anything episode, Louise and Ryan plan their dream hen and stag dos. They also reveal Ryan's guilty pleasure song, Louise discusses friendship challenges, and they share insights on hiding emotions.
- Louise’s BIG epiphany
Louise and Ryan catch up, discussing the significance of finding deeper meaning in daily conversations. Louise shares a personal epiphany, while Ryan highlights impactful advice from a new mentor. The episode also offers advice on maintain…
- The questionable thing Ryan did to impress Louise…
In this Ask Us Anything episode, Louise and Ryan tackle listener questions. They debate historical eras for time travel, select a single cuisine for eternity, and Ryan shares a past effort to impress Louise. The discussion also touches on…
- The REAL reason we’re not buying our second home…
Louise and Ryan discuss their unsuccessful house purchase, debate the merits of sharing live location with a partner, and recall Louise's childhood nanny. They also advise a listener on traveling without children and share personal stories.
- What Louise PRETENDS to like in bed…?!
In this unfiltered Ask Us Anything episode, Louise and Ryan debate the existence of soulmates and discuss bedroom scenarios they pretend to enjoy. Louise shares her recent Google searches, and Ryan reveals his strategy if they got lost.
- Ryan's BIG announcements and Louise's... doppelgänger?!
In this episode of He Said, She Said, Ryan shares news about his new office and his children's book venture, while Louise touches on perfectionism and the importance of silliness. They also discuss an accidental spying incident and address…
- Who slid into Louise’s DMs??
In this Ask Us Anything episode of He Said, She Said, hosts Louise and Ryan delve into conversations about meals, including death row choices and dream dinner party guests. Louise recounts a fan interaction with her favorite musician, whil…
- She Said: “I’m demanding some serious changes”
In this episode, Louise shares her experience with birth trauma and discusses campaigning for change in the maternity sector, highlighting that 41% of medical negligence claims are related to maternity care. A listener also shares their st…
- What would we do if money was no object??
In this episode, hosts Louise and Ryan discuss hypothetical ventures if money were no object, tasks they dislike, and small gestures they appreciate in their partners. They also reflect on advice for their younger selves.
- Ryan’s GENIUS hack for social anxiety
In this episode of He Said, She Said, Louise and Ryan share insights from their holiday, discuss Ryan's hacks for meaningful conversations, and explore making decisions from inspiration. They also address a listener's dilemma about being a…
- Re-doing our proposal, moving abroad and misconceptions about us
In this episode of He Said, She Said, Louise and Ryan revisit relationship moments, discuss the possibility of moving abroad, and address public misconceptions about them. They also share their thoughts on what their relationship's theme s…
- How well do Louise and Ryan ACTUALLY know each other?!
In this episode of He Said, She Said, Louise and Ryan explore their compatibility by creating love maps. They delve into their dream futures, stressors, childhood influences, and the impact of past relationships on their present dynamics.
- “A whole load of Grade A bullsh*t!!!”
In this "Ask Us Anything" episode, hosts Louise and Ryan discuss manifesting, share admired qualities and habits, and hint at birthday gift ideas. They also invite listeners to submit their questions and dilemmas for future episodes.
- Ryan, welcome to your monthly relationship review...!
In this episode of He Said, She Said, Louise and Ryan conduct their monthly relationship review, covering recent praises, encountered issues, and favorite memories. They also discuss the importance of creating more shared experiences as a…
- Were we REALLY ready to have children?
In this Ask Us Anything episode, hosts Louise and Ryan discuss their journey to deciding they were ready for children, emphasizing that there's no perfect time to start a family. They also share personal recommendations for skincare produc…
- Sex-drives, prenups and the four C’s for a fulfilling relationship
In this episode of He Said, She Said, Louise and Ryan discuss communication, chemistry, and the four C's for a fulfilling relationship. They delve into topics like differing sex drives, affairs, and prenuptial agreements, while also addres…
- Husband and wife swap?!
In this Ask Us Anything episode, Louise and Ryan discuss their bucket list goals and how they improved self-confidence. They also share hairstyle secrets and which celebrities they'd swap each other for.
- The number ONE thing that kills your relationships…
In this episode of He Said, She Said, hosts Louise and Ryan discuss relationship dynamics, including dealing with men, score-keeping in couples, and the possibility of unconditional love. They also touch upon Ryan's solo school tour and ad…
- Jealousy, red flags and going back to reality TV…?
In this 'Ask Us Anything' episode of He Said, She Said, Louise and Ryan consider returning to reality TV. They also address a listener's question about jealousy in relationships, discussing whether it's ever acceptable or always a red flag.
- What was Made in Chelsea ACTUALLY like?!
Louise and Ryan discuss their time on Made in Chelsea, sharing behind-the-scenes details and personal updates including a house offer. They also address a listener's question about a partner being a good parent but not a good spouse.
- Our tool to stop an argument getting out of control
In this episode of He Said, She Said, Louise and Ryan share a technique for de-escalating arguments and discuss Ryan's music preferences. They also feature a listener's question about regaining confidence after health issues.
- The hard truths about MONEY in relationships
In this episode of He Said, She Said, hosts Louise and Ryan delve into relationship 'icks,' with discussions on writing a will, a jazz club 'man-date,' and partners expressing emotion. They also share insights from a 24-hour separation and…