Fierce Marriage
Religion & Spirituality
About
Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.
Episodes
- Adultery, Betrayal, and S*xual Sin (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 2/10)
In this episode of Fierce Marriage, the hosts discuss the impact of infidelity on Christian marriages. They explore biblical perspectives on protecting a marriage from adultery and navigating the healing process.
- An Honest Look at Ongoing P*rn Use (The 10 Marriage Plagues, 1/10)
This episode of Fierce Marriage discusses pornography as a destructive force in Christian marriages, focusing on how wives can respond when their husband's secret use is revealed. It addresses listener questions based on over 1,300 submiss…
- When Working Harder Doesn't Work: Becoming a Truly Fruitful Marriage
This episode of Fierce Marriage discusses the concept of a fruitful marriage, arguing against relying solely on behavioral effort. It delves into the Greek definitions of the Fruit of the Spirit and offers a biblical perspective on living…
- If Bearing Fruit in Your Marriage Feels Forced, You Need to Hear This
This episode of Fierce Marriage discusses the difference between a marriage bearing genuine spiritual fruit and one where 'good behavior' is enforced. It contrasts moralizing with living a life indwelled by the Holy Spirit in a Christian u…
- More Questions to Diagnose the Spiritual Health of Your Marriage (Part 2 of 2)
This episode examines the spiritual 'One Flesh' union in marriage, offering 10 diagnostic questions to help couples determine if their marriage is thriving or merely surviving. This is the second part of a two-part series.
- 10 Questions to Diagnose the Spiritual Health of Your Marriage (Part 1)
Fierce Marriage presents Part 1 of a series on the spiritual health of marriage, discussing the "One Flesh" union and offering 10 questions to assess if a marriage is thriving.
- I Love You But I'm Not IN Love with You...? Understanding Love
Fierce Marriage explores the concept of love, examining the distinction between loving someone and being in love with them.
- What to Do When a Husband Won't Lead Spiritually?
This episode addresses wives who feel they are solely responsible for the spiritual aspects of their marriage. It explores the biblical concepts of a husband's headship—Prophet, Priest, and King—and suggests that a wife can influence her h…
- What if a Wife Struggles to Submit?
This episode examines the biblical concept of submission in marriage, addressing why wives may struggle with it, the risks associated with a passive husband, and the role of sacrificial leadership.
- What if a Husband Is Addicted to WORK?
This episode of Fierce Marriage explores the concept of husbands being addicted to work. It examines the biblical theology of work, from the Garden of Eden to the Sabbath command, to determine if excessive hard work by Christian men is sin…
- 7 Tactics the Devil Uses to DESTROY Your Marriage (Part 2)
This episode, part 2 of 2, discusses the spiritual battle affecting marriages and details strategies the enemy uses to divide spouses. It explains how gradual changes in priorities can give the enemy an advantage.
- 7 Tactics the Devil Uses to DESTROY Your Marriage (Part 1)
This episode, the first of a two-part series, discusses spiritual warfare and identifies seven tactics the enemy uses to damage marriages. It explains how gradual changes in priorities can allow the devil to influence a relationship.
- The Single Biggest Predictor of Divorce and How to Avoid It in Your Marriage
This episode of Fierce Marriage identifies contempt as the primary predictor of divorce. It examines the psychology of contempt through the lens of the four horsemen and the theology of Matthew 18, discussing how self-righteousness and ent…
- How Modern “Dating” Culture Destroys Christian Marriages
This Fierce Marriage episode discusses how modern dating and hookup culture are unbiblical and detrimental to Christian marriages, contrasting them with the biblical concepts of courtship and the marriage covenant.
- 9 Ways Husbands Forsake Their Wives
This Fierce Marriage episode outlines 9 ways husbands may neglect their wives, such as spiritual laziness, weak communication, and lack of intimacy. It serves as an informational piece for Christian husbands.
- When a Wife Struggles to Honor Her Husband
This episode of Fierce Marriage explores the Christian perspective on wives honoring their husbands, drawing from Ephesians 5. It addresses the common societal trap where respect is conditional and identifies nine ways wives may dishonor t…
- 10 Horrible Tips for Marital Arguments
This Fierce Marriage episode presents 10 deliberately "horrible" tips for marital arguments, framed as an inverse approach to improving communication, which is identified as a primary cause of marital failure.
- How to Create a Biblical Vision Statement for Your Family in 2026
This episode of Fierce Marriage explains how to create a biblical family vision statement using a three-part framework. It highlights the statistic that 94% of families do not have a written vision statement.
- Struggling With Discontentment in Your Marriage? A Biblical Response
This episode discusses the theology of contentment, encouraging listeners to identify sin that may be disguised as personality traits and to seek peace through surrender to God.
- How to Have a GOOD Sex Life (According to the Bible)
Ryan and Selena address marital intimacy from a Christian perspective, outlining five biblical principles for a healthy sex life. The episode references resources for communication, spiritual growth, and prayer.
- The 3 P's that Will Poison Your Marriage (Revisited)
This Fierce Marriage episode revisits three common marital poisons: Pennies (love of money), Perversion (distorted views of sex), and Pride. It offers scriptural antidotes, encouraging listeners to repent and seek God's restoration for mar…
- Mocking Wives? When a Wife Struggles to Respect Her Husband: A Biblical Response
This episode addresses a viral clip from Dr. Emerson Eggerichs concerning wives who mock their husbands. Ryan and Selena provide a biblical response, discussing the negative impact of disrespect and criticism, God's design for husbands and…
- Are S*x and Intimacy Challenges Helpful? Maybe
This Fierce Marriage episode examines the role of sex and intimacy challenges in nurturing emotional and spiritual unity within marriage. It explores how pursuing intimacy can lead to deeper feelings of being loved, fulfilled, adored, and…
- The 15-Second Kiss Experiment Revisited
In this episode of Fierce Marriage, the hosts revisit "The 15-Second Kiss Experiment," a practical technique shared by a long-term married couple. This method aims to reduce tension, foster connection, and bring peace into relationships.
- Covenant Over Comfort: The Cosmic Purpose of Marriage Part 2
This episode, part 2 of 'The Cosmic Purpose of Marriage,' discusses God's design for marriage as a covenant relationship intended to raise children who follow the Lord and to mirror His love. It emphasizes the biblical roles of husbands an…
- Covenant Over Comfort: The Cosmic Purpose of Marriage (Part 1)
This episode of Fierce Marriage defines marriage as a covenant before God, emphasizing its significance beyond a simple contract. It explores the profound consequences when a marriage ends, including the loss of a family and the breaking o…
- The One Habit That Will Change Your Marriage Quickly and Forever
This Fierce Marriage episode focuses on the daily habits of worship and trust that build a Christ-centered home. Family worship is presented as a way to honor God together, emphasizing faithfulness over perfection.
- What Women Really Need in Marriage
This episode discusses God’s design for husbands and wives in marriage, focusing on how men leading with love and strength allows women to feel safe and deeply loved, enabling them to embrace their God-given roles and fostering stronger, C…
- The World Needs Spartan Wives
In this Fierce Marriage podcast episode, "The World Needs Spartan Wives," the discussion centers on wives guarding their marriages by protecting their hearts, adhering to God's Word, and committing to prayer. It explores how a wife's commu…
- The World Needs Fierce Men
This episode of Fierce Marriage discusses the definition of a godly man in contemporary society, referencing scripture and practical examples to outline God's intentions for men as leaders, servants, and disciples.
- How to Thrive in Marriage During Season of Change
This episode discusses navigating marital changes such as new jobs, moves, or children. It offers strategies for intentionally involving God in transitions to help couples stay grounded in faith, grow in love, and thrive together.
- When is the Right Time to Have Kids or Stop Having Kids?
Fierce Marriage discusses determining when a family is complete and trusting God's plan for family size. The episode offers resources for marital communication, prayer, and learning about Christianity.
- Dealing with Anger and Abuse Biblically in Marriage
The Fierce Marriage episode addresses anger and abuse in marriage from a biblical standpoint. It discusses the violation of God's law through abuse and explores Christian responses, safety measures, repentance, and reconciliation.
- Awesome Saving Strategies for Future and Fun
This episode of Fierce Marriage discusses practical financial stewardship and saving strategies, aiming to help listeners who feel overwhelmed by investing and financial planning.
- Common Arguments Couples Have Around Money
This episode of Fierce Marriage discusses common marital arguments about money, linking financial management to trust in God and Jesus' frequent teachings on the subject. It aims to improve communication within marriage.
- Should a Wife Expect Her Husband to Do Household Chores?
Fierce Marriage discusses a listener's question about whether wives should expect their husbands to contribute to household chores. The episode shares the hosts' perspective on this marital topic.
- The 'Man Pout' — What Is It, and How to Cure It?
This episode of Fierce Marriage discusses and defines the 'Man Pout,' a phenomenon where individuals withdraw instead of expressing themselves. It aims to provide understanding and practical strategies for improving communication within ma…
- The Unstoppable Power of a Grace Filled Marriage
This episode of Fierce Marriage explores the concept of a grace-filled marriage, emphasizing the union of imperfect individuals sustained by grace. It touches on reflecting on received grace and the importance of extending love and forgive…
- Will These "Magic Questions" Help Your Marriage? (Part 2 of 2)
This episode of Fierce Marriage presents the second part of a discussion on questions intended to enhance marital connection. The questions aim to reveal new insights and sustain conversation within a marriage.
- Will These "Magic Questions" Help Your Marriage? (Part 1 of 2)
Fierce Marriage presents Part 1 of a two-part episode focusing on 28 questions intended to foster deeper conversations and connection between spouses, aiming to strengthen their relationship.
- 3 Sure Signs of a Healthy Couple
Fierce Marriage identifies three signs of a healthy couple. The episode offers encouragement and truth for listeners, with resources for improving marital communication and praying for one's spouse.
- True Friends will Advocate for Your Marriage and Not Just for You
This episode discusses the role of true friends in a marriage, emphasizing that they advocate for the marriage itself by speaking life and promoting unity, rather than solely siding with one individual.
- What if My Husband Has a Low Sex Drive?
Fierce Marriage addresses the sensitive issue of a husband's low sex drive, aiming to foster open communication with honesty, grace, and a religious viewpoint.
- Women, Wives, and Friendship
This episode of Fierce Marriage explores the biblical significance of female friendships and sisterhood. It aims to encourage listeners to cultivate Christ-centered connections that bring joy and glorify God.
- Preparing for Marriage and Not Just the Wedding
This episode of Fierce Marriage focuses on preparing for the marriage that follows the wedding ceremony. It offers resources for improving marital communication, praying for one's spouse, and information for those interested in Christianit…
- Seven MYTHS About Marriage You Shouldn't Believe
This episode of Fierce Marriage addresses seven common myths about marriage. It encourages listeners to recognize and avoid believing false ideas that can shape their perception of their own relationships.
- 7 Things to Say to Each Other DAILY
Fierce Marriage highlights 7 essential phrases couples should communicate daily to strengthen their marital bond and improve communication.
- FACTS vs. FEELINGS in Marital Arguments
This Fierce Marriage episode examines the interplay of facts, feelings, and trust in marital arguments, advocating for their combined importance in productive dialogue.
- BOUNDARIES: Dealing with Toxic In-Laws
This episode of Fierce Marriage discusses setting boundaries with in-laws. It explains that boundaries aim to create healthy order in relationships, not isolation, and explores what justifies them and their ultimate purpose within a marria…
- Advice for Improving a Difficult Marriage
This episode offers advice for couples in a marital rut, encouraging them not to give up and emphasizing the effort required to improve their relationship. It highlights the importance of marital communication and provides resources for fu…