Ellis Ever After
Psychology & Relationships
About
LOVE, SEX, MARRIAGE and everything in between! That's what Khadeen and Devale Ellis spent 5 years discussing on their Webby Award winning podcast Dead Ass. Now that they've talked it out, disagreed, and come to many understandings, it's time for something new. Ellis Ever After, formerly Dead Ass, is what's next. From ironing out the newlywed blues, to being seasoned spouses who know each other inside and out. Each week, the Ellises discuss what they know now about love, sex, marriage, parenting, money, and much much more. And they've invited their team, Tribble, Josh and Matt to add their two cents.
Episodes
- What Would You Do? More Listener Letters!
You already know what time it is! The Ellises and the crew give their best advice to listener questions. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
- Q1 Review
2026 has been nothing short of eventful. In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble discuss their favorite pop culture moments of 2026 so far. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patre…
- Out The Mud
When it comes to having a career that you love, it doesn't always come easy. In this epsiode, the Ellises and the crew discuss how they got it out the mud to get where they are. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
- Beyond The Classroom
The kids are growing up with more technology than we did. How do we teach them how to be good people with all of the outside influence they have access to? In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about teaching their kids beyond the…
- Sex Me Baby
It's been a while since the Ellises talked about sex. In this episode, Khadeen, Devale and the crew discuss how their sex lives have changed with age and experience. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
- The Big C
In this episode of Ellis Ever After, Khadeen and Devale Ellis discuss their reactions and actions following Khadeen's father's cancer diagnosis and his journey to recovery.
- Welcome Back
The podcast "Ellis Ever After" returns with its hosts and crew after a six-week break. They discuss why the hiatus was needed.
- What Would You Do?
Beyonce is the latest to reach billionaire status and the people have mixed feelings. In this episode, The Ellises and the crew discuss what they would do if they had a billy. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to…
- Fight Right
When you love someone, the measure isn't how much you fight, but how well you fight. Conflict is inevitable, how you handle it is impactful. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter…
- The Future of Digital
The future is here! And the sentiments around AI are varied. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss their thoughts on AI, technology and what's next. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://P…
- Working On Your Craft
If you're an OG listener, you've definitely hear Devale say that it takes one thousand muscle movements to become muscle memory. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about what moves they made to become experts in their fields. D…
- Just Be Thankful For What You Got
The best way to ensure your own happiness? Gratitude. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss what role gratitude plays in their success. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/El…
- Teenage Fever
The kids are growing up! And those teenage years are not for the weak! In this episode, The Ellises and the crew discuss the thrills and chills of teenage hormones. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Pat…
- The Cost Of Being The Strong Friend
When you're the person that everyone comes to when they need help, who do you go to? In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss how it feels to be strong for everyone else. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patre…
- 2025 Recap
2025 is coming to a close and we're proud of all the things we accomplished and survived this year. It wasn't an easy year, but we made it. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew review their 2025. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version…
- Another Listener Letters Episode
It's our last episode of 2025 and you already know we had to get in y'alls business once again! In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble answer your questions and give some unhinged advice. Dead Ass. Watch the full vi…
- This One Is For Jamaica
Hurricane Melissa devastated the island of Jamaica beyond belief. And while the people on the island are struggling to rebuild, leaning on community for aid and support is more important than ever. The Ellises and the Crew discuss what the…
- It's Just My Hormones
Ellis Ever After Info We all have hormones. But do we know how they affect us? And most importantly, do we know how they affect our spouses? The Ellises and the crew talk about hormones, peri-menopause and how to live through it all. Dead…
- Time Saves Lives
Tragedy struck the Ellis family when Papa suddenly had a stroke. The Ellises and the crew discuss what saved his life. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show…
- Game Night
It's game night! Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble get down and dirty with some fun games that reveal some big secrets! Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the Afte…
- The Artist's Way
What steps do you take to keep your creativity alive? In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss their own practices. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After…
- Hot 360
What does it take to be hot all around? The Ellises and the crew define Hot 360. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After vi…
- Get Out Of Your 'Hood
You can't truly know the world, if you haven't seen the world. In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble discuss the importance of travel. Because nothing beats a jet 2 holiday. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version e…
- Mediocrity Loves Company
The old saying goes, you are the company you keep. So if the people around you aren't growing, how can you grow too? In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about how to change the people around you, if you can't change the people a…
- 5 Tips for Healthier Living
After turning 40, Khadeen and Devale have put extra attention on their physical health. In this episode, the Ellises discuss the 5 small changes they made that have made them feel their best. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on…
- Breaking Traditions
Breaking generational curses just means not doing what our parents did. That can be as big as how we reprimand our kids. And as small as how we spend time together. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss hwo they are changing tr…
- The Shame of Asking For Help
We all need a little help sometimes. The trouble comes when we don't ask for it. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about how to ask for help when we need it. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https…
- Live Like Your Dad Is Dead
As aging millennials, we're all getting to the midlife point where we start to question the rigidity of our lives.The choices we've made because other people said we should. The people and things we've prioritized over our own joy. But bef…
- Intentional Family Time
Sometimes it takes more than just the routine with your kids. Time well spent can really change things for the better. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss how they've leveled up their parenting with intent. Dead Ass. Watch th…
- The Purpose of Success
What is your purpose? Can you say with certainty what you are here to do? Without talking about your career or what makes you money? The Ellises and the crew talk purpose, passion and living well in this episode. Dead Ass. Watch the…
- Listener Letters
It's time for our favorite part of the show...Listener Letters! And this time we've got more noses all up in your business. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After…
- Blackisms
Growing up Black, no matter where you're from, it seems like we all had the same experiences. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about the Blackisms we grew up with. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go t…
- Desire
What makes you feel wanted? The answer can be different for men and women. Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble discuss desire in this episode. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEver…
- Power Dynamics
When it comes to the 50/50 conversation, we know that nothing in life or relationships is truly equal. So how do you manage power dynamics in love, work and relationships, so that nobody feels like they're getting the short end of the stic…
- Rich and Ethical
All money ain't good money, so how do you make yours? And when you got it, what you do with it says a lot about your values. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about what they think it means to be rich and ethical. Like my girl…
- Crashing Out
When it comes to conflict, crashing out may not always be the best way to handle it. But when is crashing out necessary? Or is it ever? The Ellises and the crew discuss. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.…
- Perfectionism Is Self-Doubt
Trying to do your best is always a good thing. Until it keeps you from doing anything at all. The Ellises and the crew discuss when perfectionism is low key self-doubt. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.c…
- Black Power vs. Black Excellence
We've all heard the terms "Black excellence" and "Black power", but what is the difference between the two? In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Josh, Matt and Tribble discuss it. What do you think? Watch the full video version early on Patre…
- Code Switching
When it comes to being Black in America, the hoops we have to jump through just to be recognized as worthy are ever changing. But do you think code switching is harmful or necessary for Black excellence? The Ellises and the crew give their…
- Surviving Trump While Black
Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdeva…
- Navigating Burnout
What do you do when you're tired, worn out, at your max? Do you keep pushing through the stress? Do you take a break to recharge? Or do you even notice when you're on the verge of burnout? In this episode, The Ellises and the gang talk abo…
- Legacy Beyond Wealth
We always talk about legacy and what we want to leave behind in. But beyond generational wealth, what does legacy really mean? In this episde, the Ellises talk about what wisdom they hope to impart on their four boys, and the crew joins in…
- Letting Go
The old saying goes, you cannot receive with a closed fist. And when we hold onto the people, habits, and feelings that are no longer serving us, we miss out on the blessings that are meant for us. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale chat…
- Friendship After 40
As we get older and our lives change, so do our relationships and the requirements we have for them. In this episode, the Ellises chat with the crew about what friendship looks like for them at their big big ages. #DeadAss See omnystudio.c…
- New Season For A Reason
We're baaaaaaacckkkk! And things are a little different. A new name, a new look, and a few new voices. But it's always and forever #DeadAss! In this episode, Khadeen, Devale and the crew talk about the changes ahead for the podcast, and wh…
- Introducing Ellis Ever After
The podcast formerly known as Dead Ass with Khadeen and Devale Ellis is now Ellis Ever After. The same great conversations with more knowledge, more opinions and more voices. Listen to full episodes of Ellis Ever After starting April 16th.…
- Listener Letters
It's that time again! The Ellises get all up in your business and put their two cents in. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
- No Drama For Christmas
The Holiday season is here! That means spending time with family you haven't seen all year. In this episode, The Ellises talk grace and understanding when it comes to making amends before the family functions. Do we understand the intent b…
- Nail Polish or Nah?
Styles change for every generation. The things certain styles used to mean to our generation, don't carry the same weight to our kids' generation. In this episode, Khadeen & Devale express how they address their fears when it comes to thei…
- Daytime Dreams with Sherri Shepherd
The dream of a lifetime for a woman in entertainment is to be the host of her own TV show. In this episode of A Day With Kay, Khadeen speaks with a woman who has made that dream, and many more come true. Khadeen talks with Sherri Shepherd…