Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha
Religion & Spirituality
About
Hey, what’s up fam. We’re Ken and Tabatha, and we’re so glad you found our YouTube page. We always pray, “God, let the people who need this channel find this channel.” So, if you’re here, you’re an answer to prayer.We have one major goal. We want to help you grow in love with God and grow in love with the people God has placed in your life. The way we do that is simple. We take what we’ve learned and we share it. We’ve been married for 26 years, and we always jokingly say it’s been the...
Episodes
- How To Heal A Broken Marriage
Ken and Tabatha discuss how to heal a broken marriage, offering real hope and practical tools. They share their personal experiences, including past struggles, and explain how inviting faith into their marriage led to restoration. The epis…
- Hypocrisy Is Keeping You Stuck (Here’s How to Break Free) | “God Wants The Real You”
Ken and Tabatha discuss how hypocrisy, defined as outward pretense without inward growth, keeps individuals stuck. They explore its negative effects on relationships and spiritual life, offering practical steps and prayers for breaking fre…
- One of The Biggest Relationship Killers: Blame Shifting
Ken and Tabatha discuss blame shifting in relationships, exploring its impact on marriage and offering guidance on personal accountability. They cover how to identify blame shifting, the role of self-awareness, and practical steps for cons…
- The Kind Of Love A Wife Deserves
Ken and Tabatha Claytor discuss how men can better love their wives. They examine biblical marriage principles, leadership, and emotional needs within a relationship, along with practical ways to show love and overcome distractions.
- Why Am I Still Single? | What If Waiting Is God's Protection
Ken and Tabatha discuss the challenges faced by single individuals, including loneliness and societal pressures. They explore how faith and God's timing play a role in relationships, highlighting that waiting can be a form of protection an…
- You Don’t Have To Settle For A Bad Sex Life | God's Design For Sex in Marriage
This episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha" discusses God's design for sex in marriage. It covers how to achieve intimacy, connection, and enjoyment, and the hosts share their personal healing journey.
- How To Get Promoted (What Bosses Look For)
This episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha" explores keys to getting promoted, emphasizing qualities such as character, trustworthiness, and the ability to lead and develop others. Ken and Tabatha discuss how promotion involves more…
- How Unresolved Offense Destroys Love
This episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha" focuses on how unresolved offense can negatively affect various relationships. It offers insights and practical tools for addressing conflict and fostering deeper connection, drawing on bib…
- What To Do When People Don’t Like You
Ken and Tabatha discuss how to handle rejection, criticism, and misunderstandings. They share insights on staying confident and faithful when faced with disapproval and negative feedback.
- 5 Reasons Christians Should Re-Think Alcohol
Ken and Tabatha share their 24-year journey of sobriety and discuss why Christians might reconsider their relationship with alcohol. They explore biblical perspectives, personal experiences, and the potential negative impacts of alcohol on…
- Submission & Faithfulness: God’s Path to Promotion
Ken and Tabatha discuss reframing submission as a voluntary, faith-filled posture and highlight the importance of faithfulness in advancing marriages, teams, and callings. They explore how choosing God's order and serving with strength can…
- 7 Money Habits to End Marriage Stress
Ken and Tabatha discuss 7 money habits that helped them overcome financial stress in their marriage. They share personal experiences and provide a practical roadmap for couples to manage finances, including budgeting, debt reduction, and e…
- The Danger of Casual Christianity
This episode discusses the dangers of casual Christianity, examining why it is common and how to transition from nominal faith to a life filled with God's presence. It covers different levels of commitment to faith and emphasizes the impor…
- Stop Wasting Your 20’s | 5 Dating Rules We Wish We Knew
This episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha discusses five dating rules for young adults. It covers topics like identifying red flags, setting healthy boundaries, and making intentional choices to build a strong foundation for a future…
- Quit Porn For Good! A Faith Based Plan
This episode, "Quit Porn For Good! A Faith Based Plan," from the podcast Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha, discusses a faith-based plan to stop using pornography. The episode provides resources related to this topic.
- Don’t Settle For An “OK” Marriage
This episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha" explores moving beyond an "okay" marriage to a thriving one. It covers practical habits, communication strategies, and an eight-part playbook for marital growth, emphasizing intentionality…
- Miracle Season: Creating An Atmosphere That Attracts God
This episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha is titled "Miracle Season: Creating An Atmosphere That Attracts God." The description also provides links to various resources and social media for Ken and Tabatha.
- 10 Things You Must Know To See Lasting Change This Year
Ken and Tabatha discuss making lasting changes by focusing on spiritual growth, renewing the mind, and aligning habits with faith. They cover practical steps like prioritizing spiritual disciplines, setting boundaries, and choosing support…
- Why Fast? | Benefits of Fasting
Ken and Tabatha explore the spiritual benefits of fasting, offering personal anecdotes and practical guidance. They discuss various fasting methods and strategies for integrating fasting into daily life and family routines.
- Our Best Godly Wisdom
In this episode, Ken and Tabatha share their best godly wisdom on setting goals that align with Christian faith. They offer practical advice on establishing habits, developing strategies, and maintaining consistency to achieve personal and…
- Our Best Sex & Intimacy Advice
This episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha" focuses on sex and intimacy advice. The hosts, Ken and Tabatha, discuss their perspectives on these topics.
- Our Best Marriage Advice
Ken and Tabatha discuss marriage, covering topics such as sharing responsibilities, maintaining intimacy, effective communication, and practical tips for a strong relationship. They aim to help couples find calm partnership and closeness b…
- How We Saved Our Marriage + Live Q&A With Real Couples
This episode features Ken and Tabatha discussing how they saved their marriage. They also host a live Q&A session with real couples.
- The #1 Mistake Singles Make in Choosing a Partner
This episode discusses common mistakes singles make when choosing a partner, emphasizing that attraction is not enough for a lasting marriage. It highlights the importance of character, shared faith, and practical filters for selecting a p…
- 3 Things to Do When You Feel Far From God
Ken and Tabatha discuss three ways to reconnect with God when feeling distant: returning to His presence daily, repenting to release what blocks intimacy, and reconnecting with God's people. They explore the layers of God's presence and pr…
- 5 Ways to Hear God’s Voice Clearly in Your Life
This episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha" discusses five ways to discern God's voice clearly, including through Scripture, inner witness, wise community, and a sense of peace. It also covers how to test impressions and navigate qui…
- Butterfly Love From Infatuation to Real Love
This episode discusses the progression of love from infatuation to real, mature love. Ken and Tabatha share their 26-year experience, detailing the science behind early romantic feelings, common relationship challenges, and practical tools…
- 5 Dating Red Flags Every Christian Should Watch Out For
This episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha" discusses five red flags Christians should watch for in dating. It covers topics such as spiritual alignment, character under pressure, honesty, and the importance of shared vision for a he…
- 4 Keys to Stop Wasting Time & Make Every Day Count with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Ken and Tabatha Claytor share four keys to stop wasting time and make every day count. They discuss how to audit and align daily choices, seize kairos moments, live eternally, and guard focus. They also touch on redeeming time and making g…
- From Routine to Romance: Ignite Your Relationship Again | Doing Life with Ken & Tabatha
In this episode, Pastors Ken & Tabatha Claytor discuss how to reignite romance in relationships. They offer practical advice to bring back emotional, spiritual, and physical sparks, helping couples reconnect and rekindle affection.
- Healing a Broken Heart with Ken & Tabatha Claytor
Ken and Tabatha Claytor explore how to heal a broken heart, covering topics like overcoming betrayal, establishing boundaries, and the role of faith in recovery. They offer practical steps and spiritual guidance for moving forward after em…
- The Number One Secret to a Lasting Marriage with Doing Life Ken and Tabatha
Ken and Tabatha Claytor share their experience of building a lasting marriage through daily appreciation. They discuss how gratitude, honoring roles, and a "short memory" helped them become best friends and strengthen intimacy and joy.
- 7 Signs They Are Not The One with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Ken and Tabatha Claytor share insights from their 26 years of marriage and ministry experience on seven signs that indicate someone is not the right partner. They discuss topics such as spiritual misalignment, disrespect, and poor communic…
- Processing the Death of Charlie Kirk — With Faith & Truth
Ken and Tabatha discuss the death of Charlie Kirk, examining the divisions it has exposed and offering a perspective that bridges different viewpoints. They explore underlying spiritual issues, including the weaponization of race and victi…
- How to Love Your Spouse When You Don’t Like Them with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
This episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha" explores the distinction between loving and liking one's spouse, covering everyday annoyances and deeper relationship dynamics. Ken and Tabatha Claytor share insights and practical advice f…
- Unlocking a Spirit-Fueled Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Ken and Tabatha Claytor share their personal journey of how receiving the baptism of the Holy Spirit transformed their struggling marriage into a thriving partnership. They explain this spiritual experience as a crucial element for believe…
- Your Spouse Isn’t the Enemy: How to Fight for Your Marriage Together
In this episode, Ken and Tabatha Claytor discuss how they almost divorced and how they learned to fight for their marriage. They identify six tactical weapons the enemy uses to destroy marriages and offer strategies to stand united against…
- Why You Should Stop Arguing Over the Little Things with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Ken and Tabatha Claytor share insights on improving marriage by focusing on significant issues and practicing kindness, based on their 24 years of experience. They discuss the difference between mothering and wifing and the importance of s…
- When to Hold On and When to Let Go: Navigating Life's Pivotal Moments
Ken and Tabatha discuss navigating life's challenges by exploring when to hold on and when to let go. They share insights on pivoting and rebounding, drawing from their own experiences, and emphasize the importance of evaluating fruitfulne…
- Five Keys to Save Your Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
In this episode, Ken and Tabatha share five keys that saved their marriage, including self-assessment, simultaneous personal growth and relationship building, and a strategy of selfless love. They advocate removing "divorce" from one's voc…
- How to study the Bible? With Ken and Tabatha Claytor
Ken and Tabatha Claytor share their experiences and offer five essential keys for effective Bible study, emphasizing inviting the Holy Spirit's illumination and utilizing various study methods. They discuss moving beyond surface-level read…
- Grace to Self: Breaking Free from Self-Condemnation
This episode explores breaking free from self-condemnation and extending grace to oneself. It discusses how transforming negative self-talk can lead to mental, spiritual, and physical well-being. The hosts share practical keys for self-for…
- Waiting Until Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
This episode explores God's design for intimacy within marriage. Ken and Tabatha Claytor share eight principles for newlyweds on navigating sexual expectations versus reality after the wedding day, focusing on communication and patience.
- The Art of Dating: Five Essential Do's and Don'ts
Ken and Tabatha discuss essential do's and don'ts for dating, drawing from their marriage and ministry. They emphasize the importance of friendship, maintaining standards, and spiritual compatibility in relationships, while also addressing…
- Protecting Your Marriage from Infidelity
In this episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha," Ken and Tabatha discuss protecting marriage from infidelity. They explore common pathways to affairs and share ten practical strategies for affair-proofing relationships, drawing from t…
- Beyond Infatuation: Three Critical Questions for Lasting Marriage
This episode discusses three critical questions to ask before marriage for a lasting relationship. It covers anticipating personal changes, accepting a partner's unchangeable traits, and committing to love even when affection wanes. The qu…
- How to Avoid Lies, Cover Ups, and Living a Double Life
In this episode, Ken and Tabatha discuss radical honesty and its importance in all relationships. They introduce the HOT principle—Honest, Open, Transparent—as a foundation for meaningful connections and explore how dishonesty erodes trust…
- 10 ways to a stronger marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
This episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha" features Ken and Tabatha Claytor discussing 10 ways to a stronger marriage. They share insights on strengthening marital relationships.
- A Compelling Future | Your Best Days Are Ahead Of You
This episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha is titled "A Compelling Future | Your Best Days Are Ahead Of You." Ken and Tabatha discuss the idea of a compelling future and that better days are to come.
- Marriage Without Intimacy: Is It Too Late?
In this episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha," Ken and Tabatha discuss marital intimacy, offering strategies for couples facing challenges in this area. They share practical advice and insights drawing from their 24 years of marriag…