Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women
Psychology & Relationships
About
Divorce is the second highest stressor for women, second only to the death of a spouse.Are you feeling overwhelmed and not even sure where to start? If so, you are in the right place! We are so glad you are here. Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women is for women who want to be heard, want to step into their financial power and want to get a better outcome. What is your next best disruptive move? Join Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Rhonda Noordyk, as she provides you with candid conversations, practical strategies, and positive encouragement so you can breathe easier and feel empowered every step of the way. Rhonda has spent over 18,000 hours helping women like you navigate divorce, challenge the status quo and come out stronger. So, if you're ready to accelerate your confidence and increase your sense of empowerment, tune in and join the thousands of women growing every day through the podcast.
Episodes
- Episode 225: From Overwhelm to Clarity: The Power of Subpoenas in Divorce with Becky Sampson
In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Becky Sampson, founder of Only Subpoenas™, for a grounded conversation about one of the most misunderstood tools in divorce: subpoenas. If you've ever felt like you're making decisions without the ful…
- Episode 224: Alienation of Affection Explained: What Divorce Clients Need to Know with Brett Ward
In this episode of Disrupting Divorce, Rhonda sits down with Brett Ward, a nationally recognized family law attorney and litigation leader at Blank Rome, to unpack a topic that many people have never heard of: alienation of affection. But…
- Episode 223: High-Conflict Co-Parenting: What Most Experts Miss with Al Huntoon
In this eye-opening conversation, Rhonda sits down with Al Huntoon — a former custody mediator and co-parenting coach — to uncover what most people (and professionals) miss when it comes to high-conflict custody battles. Al shares the blin…
- Episode 222: Unhitched and Unfiltered: How to Emotionally Heal After Divorce with Oona Metz
In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Rhonda sits down with therapist and author Oona Metz to talk about the emotional journey of divorce — and how to move through it with clarity and compassion. Oona shares her five-phase model for n…
- Episode 221: How to Stay Calm, Credible, and Court-Ready with Bree Sullivan-Howell
In this insightful episode, Rhonda sits down with Georgia-based attorney and author Bree Sullivan-Howell to unpack the emotional and legal realities of navigating divorce. From keeping your strategy private to the power of preparation, thi…
- Episode 220: Red Flags, Surveillance & Power: The Hidden Side of Mobile Devices in Abusive Relationships with Heather Kutz
This week's episode is powerful, personal, and packed with resources. Rhonda sits down with Heather Kutz, a wireless industry expert with nearly two decades of experience, to explore how mobile phones can either empower or control—especial…
- Episode 219: Divorce Meets Perimenopause: What Every Woman Needs to Know with Dyna Vink
In this episode of Disrupting Divorce , Rhonda sits down with Dyna Vink, a Certified Integrated Health Practitioner and expert in perimenopause and menopause support. They dive into a critical but often overlooked topic: how hormonal shift…
- Episode 218: From Fear to Empowerment: Disrupting Divorce with Jordan Rosenberg
What does it really take to "disrupt divorce"? In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Jordan Rosenberg, a family law attorney from the Chicago area who believes the attorney–client relationship should be a true partnership — built on open…
- Episode 217: From Stigma to Strategy: How Prenups Create Clarity, Not Conflict with Evan Schein
Prenups aren't romantic, but they are powerful. In this episode, NY matrimonial attorney Evan Schein explains what a prenup can and cannot do, why early conversations matter, and how precise drafting prevents costly fights later. We talk d…
- Episode 216: FAFSA Changes, Student Loans, and Scholarships for Divorced Families with Vicki Vollweiler
Divorce makes college planning more complex. In this episode, Vicki explains the 2024 FAFSA changes, student loan rules, and how to find scholarships that actually make a difference. She also shares client stories where strategic planning…
- Episode 215: Vocational Assessments in Divorce: Getting to Real Numbers with Dan Wolstein
Vocational assessments can shape spousal support and earning-capacity debates. Rhonda and Dan unpack what credible reports look like, how to prepare, and how to challenge numbers that don't match reality. What you'll learn in this episode:…
- Episode 214: Reclaiming Faith, Rebuilding Self: Divorce and Spiritual Healing with Stacey Wynn
In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Stacey Wynn, MDiv, PCC to talk about the intersection of ✝️ faith, 💔 divorce, and 💪 empowerment. Together, they unpack the realities of spiritual abuse, the stigma surrounding women of faith who pur…
- Episode 213: Compromise Without Sacrifice: Rethinking Mediation with Rebecca Stern
Divorce mediation doesn't have to feel confusing. In this episode, Rhonda sits down with her friend Rebecca Stern, owner of Pearl Mediation, to break down the different types of mediation and how to know which one is the best fit for your…
- Episode 212: Disney Dad Exposed: How to Protect Your Kids and Your Finances During Divorce [Solo Episode]
In this solo episode, Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, unpacks the psychology behind the "Disney Dad" and why his extravagant gestures aren't really about the kids. If you've ever felt frustrated, exhausted, or even questioned your worth as a parent…
- Episode 211: The Financial Side of Divorce Most Lawyers Miss with Tracy Malone
In this powerful episode, Tracy Malone returns to discuss what most lawyers don't tell you about parenting plans — the money. From major expenses like cars and tech, to everyday costs like school supplies, Tracy breaks down how to build fi…
- Episode 210: Reclaim Your Energy and Clarity in Divorce with Aimee Carlson
In this empowering episode of Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women , Rhonda sits down with Energy & Empowerment Coach Aimee Carlson to explore the overlooked but critical role of energy in the divorce process. Aimee shares practical…
- Episode 209: Divorce Mortgage Planning Demystified with Jody Bruns
In this insightful episode of Divorce Conversations for Women , Rhonda Noordyk welcomes mortgage expert and CDLP® trailblazer Jody Bruns for a heartfelt and eye-opening conversation about a critical—but often overlooked—component of divorc…
- Episode 208: Breaking Free from Coercive Control and Financial Abuse with Dr. Lisa Fox
In this transformative episode, Rhonda Noordyk sits down with Dr. Lisa Fox to explore the complex realities women face in the midst of divorce, especially when coercive control, abuse, and financial manipulation are involved. Drawing from…
- Episode #207: Breaking the Trauma Bond with Lisa Happ
In this powerful and deeply insightful episode of Breaking the Trauma Bond with Lisa Happ , Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, sits down with divorce coach and survivor Lisa Happ to unpack the layered realities of high-conflict divorce—especially when…
- Episode 206: The Breakup Broker's Guide to Surviving Divorce Real Estate
In this feel-good and refreshingly honest episode, Rhonda cozies up with Amy Slate—aka The Breakup Broker —a Boston-based real estate pro with a big heart, sharp instincts, and a passion for helping women through one of life's biggest tran…
- Episode 205: Fighting Smart: Legal Abuse, Coercive Control & Winning on Your Terms with Lisa Johnson
When the legal system becomes a weapon, how do you protect yourself—and your children? In this compelling conversation, Rhonda is joined by Lisa Johnson, co-founder of Been There, Got Out , to expose the realities of legal abuse, coercive…
- Episode #204: Embracing Divorce as a Catalyst for Growth with Karen McNenny
In this episode, Rhonda Noordyk welcomes Karen, known as the "Good Divorce Coach," to discuss how divorce can be a transformative process rather than a destructive one. Together, they explore essential strategies for navigating divorce wit…
- Episode #203: Navigating Divorce: Financial & Emotional Empowerment for Women
In this insightful episode, Rhonda and Heather dive into the unique challenges women face during divorce, from financial concerns to emotional well-being. They discuss the importance of financial literacy, self-advocacy, and navigating the…
- Episode #202: The Nanny's Role in Co-Parenting After Divorce
In this episode, Rhonda and Brynn discuss the crucial role of a nanny in co-parenting relationships, especially during and after divorce. Brynn, founder of the Premier Nanny Network, shares how professional nannies provide stability, facil…
- Episode #201: Revolutionizing Divorce: How AI Empowers Abuse Survivors with Anne Wintemute
In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Anne Wintemute, CEO of Aimee Says, an innovative AI app designed to support individuals through the challenges of divorce, especially those recovering from abusive relationships. Anne shares the inspi…
- Episode #200: You are more powerful than you know with Dawn Wiggins
Rhonda talks with Divorce Recovery Coach and Therapist, Dawn Wiggins about healing in a holistic way. It's a fascinating conversation about trauma and healing and how homeopathy can work to bring you back to your true self. Learn about: Mi…
- Episode #199: Finding a Roadmap in High Conflict Divorce with Sarah Jacobs and Jamie Berger
Rhonda sits down with New Jersey attorneys, Sarah Jacobs and Jamie Berger. Sarah and Jamie's unique approach to law makes them disruptors in the divorce space. Listen in as they share their top tips for navigating a high conflict divorce.…
- Episode #198: Secure a peaceful co-parenting future with Tracy Malone
Rhonda sits down with narcissistic abuse expert and divorce coach, Tracy Malone to dive into the importance of protecting yourself and your kids with a good financial parenting plan. Here are some topics they tackle in this episode [and do…
- Episode #197: Strength to Thrive with Cindy Stibbard
Certified Divorce & Relationship Coach Cindy Stibbard sits down with Rhonda to talk through if divorce is the right option for you. Many women contemplate getting divorce for over 2 years before they make a move. How do you work through th…
- Episode #196: You're divorcing. What do you do about Health Insurance? with Leah Perry
Rhonda sits down with Health Advisor, Leah Perry to discuss the options for Health Insurance after you're divorced. It's not fun to talk about - but necessary - and one of the biggest post-divorce expenses. Topics include: 3 options to get…
- Episode #195: The Latest Trends in Divorce with Attorney Max Emmer
Rhonda and Attorney Max Emmer talk through some of the latest trends they are seeing in the divorce process. There is more than one way to get divorced - be informed. Preparation and information goes a long way. Learn some of the newest tr…
- Episode #194: Your tax questions answered with CPA Kathy Bue
Join Rhonda and CPA Kathy Bue as they walk through some of your tax questions. It's never too early to be thinking about tax planning, especially if you're in the midst of divorce. Tune in to learn: What should you be doing now? How should…
- Episode #193: Cyber Abuse is a form of Domestic Violence with Attorney Allison Mahoney
Today's conversation is an important one, but may be triggering for some. Guard your heart and be gentle with yourself as you listen. Rhonda sits down with Attorney Allison Mahoney to discuss abuse including: coercive control, sexual abuse…
- Episode #192: Make Emotional Wellness Your Top Priority with Sue Bruckner
Rhonda and Professional Counselor, Sue Bruckner sit down to discuss emotional wellness, particularly for highly sensitive women going through divorce. Here are some highlights: Navigate your divorce and come out stronger. How to make emoti…
- Episode #191: Does your Adult Child Need a Power of Attorney? with Ashley Lillesand
Spoiler: YES. If you've got kids over 18 - listen up! Rhonda sits down with Estate Planning Attorney, Ashley Lillesand and her 18 year old daughter, Jenna to discuss the importance of having a Medical and Financial Power of Attorney. This…
- Episode #190: Putting Your Child's Needs First During Divorce
Rhonda's guest today is Cathy Himlin, Family and Marriage Therapist and court officer in Dependency Court. Rhonda and Cathy take an honest look at parenting through divorce and how the court system doesn't always support what's best for th…
- Episode #189: Don't Let Your Divorce Define You
Rhonda sits down with esteemed Business Coach and CEO, Judy Weber for a candid conversation around being divorced, finding your voice, and building your future. Rhonda and Judy are passionate about advocating for women and you'll hear how…
- Episode 188: The Real Life Risk of Gambling Disorder
Rhonda's guest today is Trainer and Consultant, Doug LaBelle who specializes in Gambling Disorder. If you've discovered your spouse has a gambling problem, you know how that influences the entire household. If it's a part of the divorce pr…
- Episode #187: Your Life Lessons Shouldn't Be Lost
Rhonda is joined by Coach and Author Rebecca Davis to discuss telling your story post-trauma, particularly if you have experienced spiritual abuse. Your life lessons matter and can help others! Here is what they cover: How do you know when…
- Episode #186: A Holistic Approach to Life in the Military
Rhonda sits down with Social Worker, Veteran and Military wife, Vanessa Lech to discuss life in the military. Vanessa shares how important it is to advocate for yourself - particularly if you are a spouse in the military. Maintaining your…
- Episode #185: Should I Stay or Should I Go? with Kate Anthony
Rhonda is joined today by renowned podcast host, Kate Anthony! They have an honest conversation about making the big decision about your marriage - should you stay or go? You have a choice Ask yourself the right questions Get informed Tips…
- Episode #184: Is litigation always a bad thing?
Attorney Evan Schein sits down with Rhonda to talk about what happens when you're facing litigation. Is litigation as bad as it seems? Ways you can make the process move more smoothly. Finding the right team. Ask the right questions. Do no…
- Episode #183: Are you feeling Feeling Stuck? Identify what's blocking you.
Enjoy this recording from our recent live stream with Attorney and Divorce Coach, Kara Francis. Kara and Rhonda have an honest conversation about feeling stuck and what you can do to break free. You can decide how your divorce will go - yo…
- Episode #182: A Roadmap for Buying and Selling your House
Rhonda sits down with Real Estate Expert, Jeremy Doering for a candid conversation about all of the changes in the industry right now. They discuss how this will affect you - especially in divorce - and what you can do to successfully navi…
- Episode #181: Co-Parenting: 3 Tools to Create the Home You Want
Rhonda is joined by Certified Life and Conscious Parent Coach, Mikki Gardner for a conversation about disrupting the traditional co-parenting path. As you move through divorce, YOU get to decide what your family looks like. Mikki and Rhond…
- Episode #180: The Deadly Duo - Money & Sex with Dr. Sheri Keffer
[Warning: This episode may be triggering for some, be gentle with yourself and take breaks while listening, or pass on listening until you're ready. It is not meant for children's ears.) Rhonda sits down with Marriage and Family Therapist,…
- Episode #179: Timing is Everything When it Comes to Your Credit
Rhonda and Jeanne Kelly have an honest conversation around credit - the good and the bad. Being educated and informed of resources is imperative - especially if you're divorcing. They cover: We learn by mistakes - how to get financial conf…
- Episode #178: My Spouse Says I Can't Keep the House…Now What?
Listen in on our live stream episode with Certified Divorce Lender, Josh Bucio with Waterstone Mortgage. Josh and Rhonda discuss all the things to consider when considering keeping or selling your home in divorce. You might be surprised to…
- Episode #177: Understanding Your Spouse's Compensation
Rhonda sits down with Attorney Michael Johnson to discuss physician compensation packages and how to unravel all of the potential avenues for income. This episode focuses on wives of physicians, but can be applied to other situations. They…
- Episode 176: Win without Law School with Attorney Julie LaBenz
Rhonda sits down with Attorney Julie LaBenz, to discuss ways to be prepared if you find that you need to represent yourself in your divorce trial. Trials are complicated, even more so if you are representing yourself. Julie gives us some g…