Daughters of Diaspora
Society & Culture
About
2 African-Muslim sisters bringing you their perspectives on life living in the West as daughters to immigrant parents. Here on the DOD podcast we give a voice to the diaspora and share their takes on navigating adulthood, breaking down barriers, cultural expectation, relationships, careers, religion and much more...
Episodes
- Ep 51. Navigating the Hyphen: Gambian-(Diasporan) Identity and Self-Discovery ft. Bintou Barrow
This episode features Bintou Barrow, a Gambian-Canadian community leader, discussing hyphenated identity, cultural upbringing, obedience, respect, and self-discovery. The conversation covers cultural expectations, migration trauma, maintai…
- Ep 50. The Advice You Need In Your Early 20s
In episode 50, the hosts of Daughters of Diaspora share advice geared towards individuals in their early 20s. The episode's content is presented as being applicable to listeners in any chapter of life.
- Ep 49. No More Victim Mentality: Reclaim Your Life
In episode 49 of Daughters of Diaspora, Khadijah discusses challenges with motivation and seeing the positive, while Fatima advocates for taking control of one's life rather than blaming external factors. Both share different perspectives…
- Ep 48. Colonized Minds, Colourism & Entitled Living
This archived episode of Daughters of Diaspora unpacks themes of mental colonization, colorism, entitlement, and identity issues within African communities, exploring how societal and familial value systems contribute to these challenges.
- Ep 47. The Gambia Chronicles: Preserving Tradition (Manyo ya), Poor Resturant Service & Persistent Police
Khadijah shares her journey to becoming a Jahanka bride, highlighting wedding traditions. The discussion extends to daily life in The Gambia, touching on restaurant service and police bribery.
- Ep 46. What We've Been Up To: Bride Season and Becoming Better
This episode covers Khadijah's recent wedding, detailing her bridal shower and the planning process. The hosts also share reflections on the past year and their intentions for personal improvement.
- Ep 45. Ignorance Isn't Bliss: What We Avoid Learning Will Testify AGAINST Us
This episode reflects on the tendency to avoid Islamic knowledge, contrasting it with secular studies. It explores themes of divine judgment, the comfort of ignorance over growth, and the significance of cultural dynamics, politeness, and…
- Ep 44. Hot Takes: Chivalry is Gone, Matcha is Gross & Even Fruit Ain't Sweet Anymore
In this archived episode of Daughters of Diaspora, the hosts discuss performative backgrounds, the decline of chivalry and femininity, their dislike for matcha, fake influencers, and share their personal 'betrayal lists'.
- Ep 43. Repairing and Cherishing our bond: A Sisters Reunion
Sisters Mayo and Tata reunite to discuss their evolving relationship, sharing heartfelt reflections on their bond and aspirations for the future. They conclude with a lighthearted rapid-fire segment.
- Ep 42. A Burden or Blessing? Being Your Parents' Retirement Plan'
Episode 42 explores the complex topic of supporting parents financially, discussing generational poverty, cultural expectations, and the potential blessings of caring for one's parents.
- Ep 41. Thought dump: "It's really not THAT serious
In this episode of Daughters of Diaspora, "It's Really Not That Serious," the hosts engage in a thought dump. Topics include self-sabotage, one's connection with Allah, and navigating emotions.
- Ep 40: They’re Not Just Kids—They’re People with Boundaries
This episode discusses the challenges of returning to school, child safety concerns in educational systems, and the importance of teaching children about boundaries and consent. The hosts also explore cultural perspectives on marriage, con…
- Ep 39. Polygamy unpacked: why some women reject it, while others embrace it.
This episode unpacks polygamy from an Islamic perspective, discussing its historical context and the conditions under which it was practiced. It examines why the practice is often viewed negatively today, its potential repercussions on fam…
- Ep 38. Cultural weekend RECAP & will tribalism ever end (even in the diaspora)?
Daughters of Diaspora recaps a Gambian Cultural weekend in Toronto, highlighting its educational value and exploring the fine line between heritage pride and arrogance. The episode questions if tribalism can be overcome within the diaspora.
- Ep 37. Jongoma & Jongue culture
This episode discusses the terms jongoma and jongue as understood in Senegambian culture, focusing on the art of seduction. The hosts express concerns about the male-centric nature of jongue culture and emphasize the importance of educatio…
- Ep 36. Cheating: The ultimate betrayal.
This episode of Daughters of Diaspora explores the topic of cheating, discussing its definition, the potential for forgiveness, its cultural normalization, and the possibility of trusting someone who has cheated.
- Ep 35. Gossipping- The hotter the tea, the hotter the burn
Daughters of Diaspora episode 35 delves into the topic of gossip. The hosts discuss the act of gossiping, its prevalence, and offer reflections on how to avoid engaging in it and recognize those who frequently gossip.
- Ep 34. Lets talk MONEY! ft. Finance Girlie
In this episode, financial coach Fatimah J discusses her journey and the importance of financial literacy from an Islamic perspective, focusing on budgeting, debt management, and investment strategies for women.
- Ep 33. The best days of the year is here!
In this episode, the hosts delve into the blessed 10 days of Dhul-Hajj, discussing its virtues and Islamic significance. They share personal experiences and reflections on the duas made during this time, particularly connecting with the Da…
- Ep 32. Fulfilling the rights of others
Fatima returns to Daughters of Diaspora after a break, sharing her reflections and discussing the concept of fulfilling the rights of others to build quality relationships.
- Ep 31. To what extent should you have sabr (patience)?
In episode 31 of Daughters of Diaspora, Khadijah and Tata explore the concept of sabr (patience) and its role in forgiveness and personal growth. They share insights on setting boundaries and prioritizing peace within relationships and fri…
- Ep 30. "My wife is not pretty but at least she can cook- Marriage advice
In episode 30, 'My wife is not pretty but at least she can cook', Daughters of Diaspora shares insights on marriage based on over a decade of experience. The discussion covers marriage expectations versus realities and the importance of av…
- Ep 29. Dear Allah.....
In this episode, Khadijah and a guest co-host engage in a card game, reflecting on Ramadan. They discuss strengthening their relationship with Allah, their feelings about meeting Him, and the importance of balancing fear with hope.
- Ep 28. No matter the hurt, LET IT GO!
In Ep 28, the hosts discuss blessings of Ramadan and prioritizing the month. They highlight the importance of forgiveness and letting go of pain for the sake of Allah SWT.
- Ep 27. A love for Christianity which led to Islam ft. Aalia Reeves
Aalia Reeves shares her personal journey transitioning from Christianity to Islam, detailing the challenges of being a young Black revert in Texas. The episode covers her experiences with isolation, family dynamics, and the importance of f…
- Ep 26. You die in the way that you lived
Daughters of Diaspora discusses the upcoming month of Ramadan, reflecting on mortality and the Muslim approach to death. The episode emphasizes living and preparing for death in alignment with one's faith, and the importance of cultivating…
- Ep 25. Comparison is the thief of joy
Fatima and Khadijah share personal experiences with overspending and self-control. The episode focuses on overcoming comparison, embracing contentment with one's life path, and finding genuine happiness for others by trusting in divine tim…
- Ep 24. Hijab is a journey but let's be honest.
In episode 24, Daughters of Diaspora honestly discusses the challenges of wearing the hijab, including its intersection with social media and liberal ideologies. The hosts offer encouragement to those on their journey of modesty.
- Ep. 23 - Don't come to MY WEDDING dressed in hoodies and tracksuits!!!
Daughters of Diaspora discusses cultural traditions, attire, and pet peeves regarding African/Gambian weddings, offering a light-hearted perspective during wedding season.
- Ep 22. Struggling with loneliness, isolation and how to benefit from these times
In this episode, the hosts discuss the complexities of loneliness and isolation in adulthood, sharing personal reflections and strategies for mental and spiritual growth. They differentiate between being alone and feeling lonely, emphasizi…
- Ep 21. Don't fall victim to seasonal depression, GET UP AND BE PRODUCTIVE!
In this episode of Daughters of Diaspora, the hosts discuss managing seasonal depression and emotional honesty. They share personal experiences with winter blues, provide tips for staying productive, and offer perspectives on setting healt…
- Ep 20. Connecting with Allah: The key to spiritual and personal growth
In this episode of Daughters of Diaspora, guest Ukhti Yassin discusses the journey of building a connection with Allah and the role of knowledge, sincerity, and good companionship in spiritual and personal growth. The conversation also hig…
- Ep 19. A peek into the dynamics of our sisterhood ft. OUR SISTERS (TATA & MAYO)
In episode 19 of Daughters of Diaspora, guests Tata and Mayo join the hosts for a discussion on their sisterhood dynamics. They explore individual roles within the family, appreciate each other
- Ep 18. Forgiveness, loyalty and parents role in sibiling conflicts
This episode discusses navigating forgiveness in sibling relationships, the role parents play in conflicts, and the importance of setting boundaries and direct communication. It also touches on loyalty to siblings versus parents, sharing p…
- Ep 17. Thriving as a mom with autistic children ft. Nyima Drammeh
Nyima Drammeh shares her experience raising autistic children and advocating for special needs resources. She discusses the challenges of stigma and accessing support, emphasizing the importance of early intervention and self-care.
- Ep 16. Is marriage really that hard or do we just give bad advice?
This episode of Daughters of Diaspora concludes its relationship series by discussing marriage, starting from engagement and moving through pre-nuptial nerves. The hosts explore modern engagement practices for Muslim couples, the concept o…
- Ep 15. Finding the right man, halal dating and haram relationships
Daughters of Diaspora discusses romantic relationships, covering the journey of finding a spouse, halal dating practices, boundary setting, and the significance of self-knowledge before marriage.
- Ep 13. WE ARE BACK!!- 10 yrs together and no ring? sis RUN!
Daughters of Diaspora returns to discuss summer plans, the cost of living, and emigration from Canada. Fatima shares details about her trip to Dubai and a safari adventure, followed by a conversation on social media, traditional wife roles…
- Bonus ep- The silent genocide in Sudan ft. The Jasmine Blossoms
This episode features Yasmine of The Jasmine Blossoms discussing the war and genocide in Sudan, touching on historical context, dictatorship, and resource exploitation. The conversation emphasizes raising awareness and supporting Sudan.
- Ep. 12- We are all going through it.... (reading SRG dilemmas)
The Daughters of Diaspora podcast discusses mental health stigma in the Gambian community, relationship issues, and the importance of faith. They highlight challenges in seeking support and offer suggestions for finding safe spaces.
- Ep.11- Lets play THE GAME
In episode 11 of Daughters of Diaspora, the co-hosts play 'THE GAME' by freshly grounded, discussing personal motivations, parental appreciation, characteristics, and relationship improvement. They aim for a laid-back episode to help liste…
- Ep.10 "The defender of Women has passed away" ft Fatouma Jikineh Pt.2
In part 2, Fatoumat Jikineh shares her family's experience with her father's cancer diagnosis and passing. She reflects on balancing nursing school, supporting her siblings, and her father's final days, emphasizing vulnerability, faith, an…
- Ep.9 "The defender of Women has passed away" ft Fatouma Jikineh Pt.1
Fatouma Jikineh discusses her personal transformation into a practicing Muslim and Niqabi, addressing community expectations and the fear of judgment. The episode also reflects on her late father's influence as an imam who championed women…
- Ep.8- The gift of companionship | Part 2
In Part 2 of "The Gift of Companionship," Fatima recounts her Quran memorization journey, highlighting community, competition, and revision struggles. She also reflects on the societal pressures and identity challenges faced after becoming…
- Ep.7 - The gift of companionship | Part 1
Fatima discusses her path to becoming a hafidh of the Quran, detailing the challenges and rewards of her studies. She also reflects on her upbringing, love for competition in sports, and the decision to study the Quran in Africa.
- Ep. 6-Diverting the path of a "typical" African woman ft. Fatou Jammeh
Fatou Jammeh, a Gambian-Canadian woman, shares her diverse professional experiences and discusses cultural identity, challenges of returning to her home country, and the impact of societal expectations on women. The episode explores women'…
- Ep.5- The unseen struggles of the first born ft. TATA
This episode features TATA discussing her journey as a first-born, including career choices, societal pressures, balancing motherhood and education, and breaking stigmas. The conversation highlights the importance of struggle, finding pass…
- Ep.4- Betting on yourself and Making money on social media ft. YEMAYA
On this episode of Daughters of Diaspora, guest Yemaya shares her journey from Toronto to Dubai, detailing how she became a social media content strategist and learned to monetize her online presence. The episode aims to provide listeners…
- Ep.3- Preparing for the GREAT guest
This episode covers the RESSA TESSA TikTok series and discusses the challenges of being a practicing Muslim in the West. It includes personal experiences and tips for observing Ramadan.
- Ep.2- Are you joking?... or are you a secret hater?
This episode of Daughters of Diaspora explores the dynamics of friendship, emphasizing the value of positive connections and the necessity of ending detrimental relationships. The hosts share personal experiences and emotions while reflect…