Codependency and Boundaries with Katherine Bahcall
This episode dives deep into the intersection of boundaries, codependency, and discipleship . Katherine Bahcall helps reframe a culturally saturated conversation by grounding it in Scripture and the gospel. While the world often defines boundaries as a tool for self-protection and self-esteem, this conversation pushes further—revealing that the root issue isn’t just relational dysfunction, but misplaced worship . Codependency isn’t merely unhealthy attachment; it’s often a sign that we’re looking to people to give us what only God can. Adam, Chelsea and Katherine explore how these dynamics form (often in family systems), how they play out in friendships, marriage, and ministry, and why discernment—not formulas—is the key to healthy relationships . Ultimately, boundaries aren’t about building walls—they’re about loving people rightly and pointing them to Christ . Key Takeaways Boundaries are not about protecting yourself—they’re about loving rightly . Codependency often reveals a deeper issue: misplaced identity and worship . You don’t need a formula for every relationship— you need discernment . Start with your relationship with God, and other relationships will follow. A healthy boundary may disappoint someone—but still be the most loving thing you can do . Mentioned Resources Boundaries — Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend Codependent No More — Melody Beattie The Meaning of Marriage — Timothy Keller (for relational dynamics) Scripture Jeremiah 2:13 — God as the fountain of living water Proverbs 29:25 — Fear of man vs. trust in God Romans 14 — Conviction, conscience, and not causing others to stumble 1 John (themes of abiding and relationship with God referenced throughout) Thanks to our Sponsors In A Compelling Faith in a Compromising Culture , pastor and longtime NBA chaplain Mike Tatlock invites believers to cultivate a faith that isn’t loud or trendy—but holy, steady, and unmistakably different. To learn more about A Compelling Faith in a Compromising Culture, visit moodypublishers.com or find it wherever books are sold. Cozy Earth Let this Mother’s Day be a reminder that she deserves care, too — discover how Cozy Earth turns everyday routines into moments of softness and ease. Head to cozyearth.com and use code CULTURE for an exclusive 20% off . Follow Us! Instagram Youtube -- Editing and support by The Good Podcast Co. If you would like to sponsor this show, email sponsor@thegoodpodcast.co.