By the Bi
Psychology & Relationships
About
By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex. Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the b
Episodes
- 446 - Discover Your Relationship Style
Angela and Bradford get delightfully real (and a little spicy) about The Bonding Project ( https://www.bondingproject.com/ ) from the Center for Positive Sexuality; a research-driven relationship quiz that’s basically Myers-Briggs for inti…
- 445 - Finding Your People: Community and Connection
In this episode of By the Bi , we’re diving into the importance of community within bisexual, non-monogamous, and kink spaces. We talk about why having a sense of belonging matters so much, especially when your identity or lifestyle sits o…
- 444 - Annual Check-In
In this episode of By the Bi, we sit down for our annual relationship check-in and we decided to invite you along. This is an unscripted, intimate conversation about love, desire, communication, and the life we’re actively building togethe…
- 443 - Jingle Balls
NOTE: THIS IS NOT A RE-RELEASE! THIS IS NEW!!!!! (And you're gonna love it!) You ask for it… again and again. This week on By the Bi , things get steamy, sticky, and just a little bit stripped down as we revisit one of our most unforgettab…
- 442 - New Kink Unlocked
This week on By the Bi , Bradford spills the tea on a recent Grindr hookup that turned into something way more than just a quick fling. What started as a bit of fun quickly unlocked a whole new kink he didn’t see coming —and now he can’t s…
- 441 - Xcape to the Tropics 2025 Live
This week on By the Bi , we’re coming to you live from the sun-drenched, pleasure-filled playground of Xcape to the Tropics 2025! Join Angela and Bradford as they soak up the vibes, connect with the community, and dive into the sexy, adven…
- 440 - Authenticity
Hello all… it’s been a minute, but we are back! This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive deep into a topic that underpins everything in the lifestyle — authenticity. Whether you’re navigating polyamory, kink, or just trying to show…
- 439 - Destigmatizing STIs ... Still
Due to travel schedules, this week’s episode is a rerelease. This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford tackle a topic that’s often shrouded in silence and stigma: sexually transmitted infections (STIs). In this powerful episode, we delve…
- 438 - Pubic Hair Through the Ages #undereggs
From the sugared thighs of Ancient Egypt to the shimmering vajazzles of the 2000s, this solo episode dives deep into the sensual, political, and power-laden history of pubic hair removal. Bradford takes Angela on an intimate journey throug…
- 437 - Museum of Desire
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford take you inside their cheeky adventure at Melbourne’s Museum of Desire — an immersive playground of sensuality, art, and introspection. While wandering through this unique space, we found ourselv…
- 436 - Stripping off Shame: Body Confidence in the Lifestyle
In this solo episode, Angela opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of body image in non-monogamous and kink spaces. From first-party nerves to reclaiming confidence at every age and size, she shares personal stories, practical tips, a…
- 435 - Do You Recall?
RERELEASE: Get ready for a thrilling ride on this week’s episode of By the Bi, where Angela turns host for a game of high stakes and high voltage called “By the Bi - I Hope I Don’t Die!” Listen as Bradford and The Gentleman put their sex t…
- 434 - Shenanigeese & Shenaniganders
This week on By the Bi, Angela sits down with a very cheeky Bradford to unpack his latest solo travel adventures—and let’s just say, things got spicy. From spontaneous Sniffies hookups and steamy cruise room encounters to massages that def…
- 433 - To Club or Not When in Perth
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford had one goal: a sexy, well-planned dirty weekend. What actually happened? Well… let’s just say, things didn’t quite go according to plan. From unexpected detours to logistical hiccups (and Bradfo…
- 432 - Blue Cinema History
Before streaming, before OnlyFans, before incognito mode — there were blue cinemas. This week, we’re peeling back the curtain on the forgotten world of adult movie theaters: where porn was communal, seats were sticky, and trench coats were…
- 431 - Navigating the Drop
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into a topic that doesn’t get talked about nearly enough—the post-kink and party drop. Whether it’s after an intense BDSM scene, an emotionally charged connection, or a euphoric night at a l…
- 430 - Party Time
Venture beyond the velvet rope with us into a world where fantasy meets reality in grand, public settings. From the anticipation of dressing up to the thrill of stepping into a room buzzing with like-minded adventurers, discover what makes…
- 429 - And We're Back!
We’re back, baby! After a little time away, we’re reconnecting, recharging, and ready to dive back into all things By the Bi. In this episode, we catch you up on where we’ve been, what’s been brewing, and how damn good it feels to be back…
- 428 - Pegging Pleasure
Dive deep into the exhilarating world of pegging with our special double feature re-release of Episodes 83 and 84 of By the Bi! In these fan-favorite episodes, Angela and Bradford explore everything you need to know about pegging—from the…
- 427 - Biconic Mardi Gras 2025
Join Angela and Bradford on a vibrant journey in this episode of By the Bi as they recount their exhilarating experience marching with Biconic at the Mardi Gras parade. Immerse yourself in the pulsating beats, vivid colors, and spirited ch…
- 426 - Tales of Recent Debauchery
This week we talk about some of our excursions and play we’ve had at Chateau Vino in Gold Cost, an afternoon with The Gentleman, and more! Sit back and enjoy some sexy stories. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and…
- 425 - Let's Play We're Not Really Strangers
Dive into the heart of understanding and intimacy on this episode of By the Bi as Angela and Bradford play “We’re Not Really Strangers” with guests Coby and Judy. This thought-provoking card game is designed to deepen the connections betwe…
- 424 - Our First Lifestyle Cruise
Pack your bags and grab your lanyards—Bradford and Angela are setting sail on their first-ever swingers cruise! In this episode of By the Bi , we’re taking you behind the scenes of the ultimate floating lifestyle experience. From the antic…
- 423 - A Look Into 2025
Ring in the new year with a heartfelt look back and an eager gaze forward on this episode of By the Bi. Join Angela and Bradford as they revisit the hopes and goals they set at the stroke of last New Year’s Eve, exploring the victories, th…
- 422 - Holiday
Well it’s that time of year…. Take care of yourselves. We love you. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook&nbs…
- 421 - Flagging
Step into the colorful world of queer flagging on this episode of By the Bi. Angela and Bradford explore the intricate and historical art of flagging, a coded language of colors and patterns used within the LGBTQ+ community to express iden…
- 420 - Live at Xcape to the Tropics 2024
Join Angela and Bradford for a very special live episode of By the Bi, broadcasting directly from the sun-soaked and sensational Xcape to the Tropics 2024! Dive into the heart of this exotic getaway as our hosts share their experiences, in…
- 419 - Exploring a Swiss Sauna
This week on By the Bi, strap in for a hot and steamy recount as Bradford shares his tantalizing tales from Renos Relaxing, a popular gay sauna in Zurich. Join Angela and Bradford as they delve into a series of sexy adventures that unfold…
- 418 - Unicorn Tales
This week on By the Bi, join Angela and special guest Spanky as they delve into the vibrant and often misunderstood world of being a single lady in the lifestyle community. From navigating social dynamics to embracing personal empowerment,…
- 417 - Sexy Holiday Prep
Join Angela and Bradford as they revisit a hot favorite on By the Bi—packing for a sexy vacation! This episode isn’t just about what to bring; it’s a full-on preparation guide for the upcoming Xcape to the Tropics 2024, featuring tantalizi…
- 416 - Urban Myths
Dive deep into the world of non-monogamy with Angela and Bradford in this enlightening episode of By the Bi as they tackle common urban myths about open relationships, kink, and sex. From the misconception that open relationships lack love…
- 415 - Return to the Erotic Ball
Step behind the velvet rope with Angela and Spanky in this titillating episode of By the Bi as they recount their exhilarating night at The Erotic Ball. Known for its daring displays and uninhibited atmosphere, The Erotic Ball serves as th…
- 414 - Sexual Identity Evolution Over a Lifetime
Dive into the fluid journey of sexual identity with Angela and Bradford in this profound episode of By the Bi. We explore how sexual identity can transform from childhood through old age, influenced by personal experiences, societal change…
- 413 - Sextech Talks with FirmTech
This week, By the Bi takes a deep dive into the cutting-edge world of sextech, starting with an exclusive interview with the creator of the innovative FirmTech cock ring, Doctor Elliot Justin. Discover the science and inspiration behind th…
- 412 - MSP3K IV Cost of Swinging
This week on By the Bi, join Angela and Bradford as they channel their inner MST3K to poke fun at their past selves while unraveling the often overlooked costs of the swinging lifestyle. Swinging isn’t just a social endeavor; it can also b…
- 411 - What's In Santa's Sack
Ho ho ho—it’s Christmas in July on this week’s episode of By the Bi! Join Angela and Bradford as they bring the holiday cheer to the heat of summer with a visit to Between Friends for their Christmas in July Party. This isn’t your typical…
- 410 - Healing and Growing with Orange Counseling and Coaching
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into the transformative world of therapy, counseling, and coaching with an expert from Orange Counselling and Coaching. Discover the profound impact these practices can have on personal grow…
- 409 - Who is Hillsong Boy
This week we dive into coming out & religion with an interview with the creative team behind Hillsong Boy. Hillsong Boy chronicles the weird and wonderful experiences of ex-Hillsonger, Scott Parker. During his twenty years with the megachu…
- 408 - To Turtle or To Volcano
Coming out can be one of the most pivotal moments in someone’s life. This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford delve into the emotional spectrum of coming out experiences. Do you “turtle,” retreating into your shell to protect yourself,…
- 407 - 7 Year Itch
Join Angela, Bradford, and The Gentleman in a deeply personal episode of By the Bi, as they reflect on their seven-year journey in a polyamorous relationship. This week, they open up about the evolving dynamics, challenges, and triumphs of…
- 406 - Shocking Trivia
Get ready for a thrilling ride on this week’s episode of By the Bi, where Angela turns host for a game of high stakes and high voltage called “By the Bi - I Hope I Don’t Die!” Listen as Bradford and The Gentleman put their sex trivia knowl…
- 405 - Velvet & Rocky Horror Pendulum
Step into the world of decadence and drama on this week’s episode of By the Bi, as Angela, Bradford, and their special guest, The Gentleman, recount the thrills of the recent Velvet kink party and the Rocky Horror Pendulum Party. Dive into…
- 403 - Destigmatizing STIs
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford tackle a topic that’s often shrouded in silence and stigma: sexually transmitted infections (STIs). In this powerful episode, we delve into the realities and misconceptions surrounding STIs, aimi…
- 402 - Double Header Weekend
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into the exhilarating world of the classic swingers’ double header weekend, sharing their steamy tales from back-to-back nights at the swingers club, Our Secret Spot. From the electric atmos…
- 401 - Newbies Again!
Dive into a night of discovery and excitement with us on By the Bi, as Angela, Bradford, and a very special guest, Jen, embark on an unforgettable journey to Our Secret Spot for a “Newbie’s Night.” Jen, who has never stepped foot in a swin…
- 400 - The Journey
🎉 Welcome to the monumental 400th episode of By the Bi! 🎉 Angela and Bradford are here to take you on a spectacular journey through the milestones, memories, and magical moments that have defined our podcast. In this landmark celebration…
- 399.5 - Back to the Start
Just when anticipation for Episode 400 reached its peak, we’re taking a momentous step back… to where it all began. In this special interlude episode, Angela and Bradford invite you on a nostalgic journey back to the origins of By the Bi,…
- 399 - PornHub Facts 2023
Join Angela, Bradford, and guests, Coby & Judy, this week on By the Bi for a deep dive into the intriguing world of Pornhub in 2023. Together, we’ll uncover the platform’s most surprising facts, from the year’s top searches to unexpected u…
- 398 - Polyamory Logistics
Dive deep into the heart of polyamory with us on this engaging episode of By the Bi. Join Angela, Bradford, and their dear friends Coby and Judy as they unravel the complexities and joys of living a polyamorous life. From managing schedule…
- 397 - Performance Anxiety & ED
In this episode of By the Bi, Angela and Bradford tackle the sensitive yet significant topics of erectile dysfunction (ED) and performance anxiety. Join us as we delve into the complexities of these experiences, shedding light on their cau…