Become New with John Ortberg
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Join John Ortberg each day for 10 minutes of spiritual guidance on the person we are becoming.
Episodes
- 7. A Dangerous Prayer That Can Set You Free
In this episode, John Ortberg and Rankin Wilbourne explore the emotion of anger, referencing Psalm 109. They discuss how the Psalms permit honest prayer to God, offering a way to process anger constructively and potentially transform it in…
- 6. Why We Don’t Know How to Lament
In this episode, John Ortberg and Rankin Wilbourne continue their conversation on lament, exploring its importance in spiritual life and how it serves as a bridge between pain and trust, enabling honest prayer without despair.
- 5. Why We Don’t Know How to Pray Our Emotions (with Rankin Wilbourne)
This episode explores why many people struggle to pray their emotions, even within their faith. John Ortberg and Rankin Wilbourne discuss how the Psalms can teach us to bring our authentic selves before God, providing a framework for proce…
- 4. How to Bring Your Pain to God (Psalm 13)
This episode of "Become New with John Ortberg" focuses on Psalm 13 and the theme of bringing pain to God. John Ortberg elaborates on how to lament honestly when God feels distant and when answers are not immediately apparent.
- 3. Renew Your Mind with Psalm 8
In this episode, John Ortberg discusses Psalm 8 and a deeper kind of mindfulness. He explores how God is consistently mindful of humanity and how to pray using the Psalms.
- 2. Anxious About the Future? Pray This Psalm
In this episode of Become New, John Ortberg discusses how to address anxiety about the future by exploring Psalm 3. He explains how the psalm moves from fear to trust, offering a way to live with courage despite an unclear future.
- 1. The Greatest Prayer You Ever Prayed
This episode introduces a new series on the Psalms, focusing on Psalm 1. John Ortberg discusses two ways to live and how to re-center life around God.
- The Life of Joseph: A Study on Forgiveness
This episode, "The Life of Joseph: A Study on Forgiveness," explores the biblical story of Joseph and his brothers. It discusses themes of jealousy, betrayal, suffering, forgiveness, and reconciliation, highlighting the complex process of…
- What Forgiveness is NOT
This episode defines forgiveness as replacing ill will with goodwill, addressing common misconceptions. It discusses whether forgiveness excuses wrongdoing or ignores justice, drawing from scripture and real-world examples.
- How Bitterness Slowly Takes Over
This episode discusses how unforgiveness can gradually develop from small hurts into resentment and bitterness. It explores the patterns that perpetuate this cycle and suggests that change is possible.
- This Man Forgave His Mom’s Killer
This episode features Everett Worthington discussing his personal story of confronting loss and his journey toward forgiveness. He shares insights on anger, healing, and the process of forgiveness.
- Five Steps to Forgive Anyone
This episode discusses forgiveness as a practical process that leads to healing. It references Scripture and the teachings of Everett Worthington.
- The Secret to Spiritual Growth
This episode discusses submission as a spiritual discipline. It explores how submission can be a pathway to freedom, growth, accountability, and transformation, drawing on scriptural references and the teachings of Dallas Willard.
- How Hidden Sin Hurts Us
This episode of Become New with John Ortberg discusses the spiritual practice of confession. It explores how confession can help overcome hidden sin and promote healing and connection with God and others.
- Is Worship More Than Music?
This episode explores the meaning of worship, suggesting it is more than music and can transform one's entire life. It discusses worship as a way of seeing and responding to God, drawing from Scripture and Dallas Willard.
- Breaking Approval-Addiction
This episode explores breaking approval addiction through the spiritual discipline of secrecy, drawing from Dallas Willard and the Sermon on the Mount. It discusses how doing good without recognition can free individuals from the need for…
- We Need Silence
This episode explores the transformative practice of silence. It discusses how silence can lead to peace, trust, and a deeper connection with God, drawing insights from Dallas Willard and the example of Jesus.
- Is Life Fair? What the Bible Actually Says
This episode of "Become New with John Ortberg" explores the biblical perspective on fairness, justice, and favoritism. It examines how God challenges systems of privilege and power.
- How to Break the Cycle of Temptation
This episode discusses self-control and temptation. It explores why willpower can be depleted and how habits influence life, offering a different approach to self-control than "trying harder."
- The Key to Better Relationships (We're worse at this than we think)
This episode discusses the importance of social intelligence, defined as the ability to understand one's own emotions and accurately interpret the emotions of others. It explores how developing this skill can lead to better relationships a…
- When Life Gets Hard - Keep Going
This episode explores perseverance through life's challenges, drawing on Scripture, philosophy, and real-life stories. It discusses how perseverance is fueled by hope, vision, and a sense of purpose.
- Play to Your Strengths
This episode of "Become New with John Ortberg" discusses how living into your strengths can lead to character growth, drawing from positive psychology and the example of Barnabas. It encourages listeners to identify and intentionally use t…
- No Condemnation Review +Updates
This episode reviews "No Condemnation" and provides updates on future content. It covers a new phone number, website launch, newsletter, study guides, and an upcoming series on The Psalms.
- 54. The Way into a Life Without Condemnation
This episode, titled "The Way into a Life Without Condemnation," is the final part of a series. It discusses moral discernment versus condemnation, the impact of labeling people, and how curiosity can replace judgment.
- 53. You've Been Blaming the Wrong Person
In this episode, John Ortberg discusses the concept of scapegoating, drawing on René Girard's work, and examines how societies traditionally handle conflict by blaming others. The episode explores how the cross of Jesus offers an alternati…
- 52. Shaming Others is Changing YOU
In this episode, John Ortberg discusses why shaming others can backfire and the impact it has on both the person being judged and the one doing the judging. He presents reconciliation as an alternative approach.
- 51. Why We're Addicted to Outrage
This episode features John Ortberg discussing an addiction to outrage, examining how condemnation and sarcasm impact individuals and relationships. He explores the concept of "unwholesome talk" and emphasizes the importance of kindness in…
- 50. Dr. Condoleezza Rice on Navigating Political Division
This episode features John Ortberg and Condoleezza Rice discussing how faith can shape the way individuals navigate politics and disagreement. They explore topics such as loving opponents, respectful disagreement, and the importance of hum…
- 49. Why Did Jesus Have to Die?
In this episode, John Ortberg discusses the theological reasons behind Jesus' death, exploring themes of sacrifice, forgiveness, and the triumph of self-giving love over evil. He delves into the significance of the cross, emphasizing how J…
- 48. 10 Things Jesus Never Did
In this episode, John Ortberg explores 10 passive-aggressive habits that negatively affect relationships. He contrasts these behaviors with the direct and honest communication style of Jesus, encouraging listeners to speak truthfully witho…
- 47. Speaking the Truth to Someone You Love (Nancy Ortberg)
In this episode, John and Nancy Ortberg discuss what it means to "speak the truth in love" through real-life stories. They aim to show how to have hard conversations without condemnation, fostering honesty and connection.
- 46. What does the Bible mean by "scorn the shame?" | Hebrews 12:2
This episode of "Become New with John Ortberg" explores the concept of shame, referencing Hebrews 12:2. John Ortberg discusses how Jesus confronted shame and encourages listeners to refuse to be defined by it, drawing insights from the bib…
- 45. Why We Do Things We Regret
John Ortberg explores the concept of forgiveness and surrender, referencing John 12 and Luke 23 to discuss how Jesus' teachings impact understanding regret. The episode focuses on the idea of self-giving love.
- 44. Masterclass on How to Communicate Like Jesus
This episode explores communication principles inspired by Marshall Rosenberg, focusing on how to communicate without condemnation. John Ortberg examines Jesus' interaction with the Samaritan woman in John 4 as an example of compassionate…
- 43. Why Cancelling People Doesn't Work
In this episode, John Ortberg discusses cancel culture, accountability, and condemnation. He explores why shaming rarely leads to real change and the difference between calling people out versus calling them in, drawing from voices such as…
- 42. You Might Be Reading the Bible Wrong...
This episode explores different ways of reading the Bible. John Ortberg shares three tools for interpreting scripture and understanding grace, referencing Phillip Cary and the story of Jonah.
- 41. Here's Exactly What Changed Paul’s Life
This episode explores the transformation of Paul from condemnation to faith. John Ortberg discusses what changed Paul, the meaning of "justification by faith," and the importance of seeing Jesus in others.
- 40. What If We’re Not Being Honest With God
This episode explores the concept of honesty in one's relationship with God, suggesting that authenticity, rather than politeness, can lead to deeper faith. It references the biblical story of Job and Jesus's cry from the cross to illustra…
- 39. What Jesus Meant by Cast the First Stone
This episode of "Become New with John Ortberg" explores Jesus' teaching "Let the one without sin cast the first stone." John Ortberg discusses what Jesus meant by this statement, focusing on interrupting condemnation and making space for g…
- 38. Giving Up the 'Last Word'
This episode of Become New with John Ortberg discusses how to receive criticism without absorbing condemnation. The episode explores the distinction between criticism and condemnation, drawing insights from the life of King David.
- 37. The Real Reason Why We Judge Others
This episode explores the origins of judgment and condemnation. John Ortberg discusses the difference between observation and evaluation, referencing insights from Nonviolent Communication.
- 36. How to Let Go of Your Anger
In this episode, John Ortberg discusses how to let go of anger, using the life of Saint Patrick as an example. He explores practical ways to deal with pain and overcome bitterness.
- 35. The Difference Between Conviction and Condemnation
In this episode, John Ortberg explores the distinction between conviction and condemnation. He explains how self-condemnation attacks identity and leads to hiding, while conviction addresses actions and leads to hope and change.
- 34. When Someone in Your Family Won’t Change...
In this episode, John Ortberg discusses how to approach difficult family members when their behavior needs to change, emphasizing the importance of grace, truth, and time. He explores why condemnation is ineffective and references insights…
- 33. Is it really surprising that God loves you?
In this episode, John Ortberg discusses the nature of God's love, explaining that it is not surprising but central to His being. He explores how understanding God's inherent love can reshape lives and diminish feelings of condemnation.
- 32. We've Been Listening Wrong
In this episode, John Ortberg discusses Jesus' instruction in Luke 8:18 about listening. He explores the idea that the condition of our hearts influences how we receive information and how humble listening can foster personal growth and ch…
- 31. Becoming a Person of Blessing
In this episode, John Ortberg explores how Jesus calls individuals to become people who actively bless others. He discusses five ways to bless others, drawing from Scripture and insights from "The Blessing" by Gary Smalley and John Trent.
- 30. Can you be a good person and condemn others?
In this episode, John Ortberg discusses how the definition of a "good person" has shifted from love and character to holding the "right" opinions, leading to increased judgment and division. He contrasts this with Jesus' teachings on compa…
- 29. The Virtue of Self Knowledge (w/Dr. Jim Taylor)
In this episode, John Ortberg and Dr. Jim Taylor explore the concept of self-knowledge as an intellectual virtue. They discuss how understanding oneself is crucial for pursuing truth and loving others, linking it to honest self-examination.
- 28. The Six Types of Condemnation
This episode of "Become New with John Ortberg" explores six common styles of condemnation. John Ortberg discusses various forms of judgment, including aggressive anger, silence, sarcasm, perfectionism, conditional acceptance, and martyrdom.